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the tough break up : (
14/f
Well, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months last night around 11:50. I dont even know what I was thinking! I was confused and I kept thinking about what would happen if he broke up with me. then I guess I started conviceing myself that he WAS cheating on me and I broke up with him. He didnt seem too upset. After I got off the phone with him I balled my head off for hours. I even started gasping for air and then started choking. I dont know what that was all about but thats how much I was crying. anyways then I talked to my friend Zach till i dont know what time but we talked for at least 3 hours. He cheered me up some but I still cant help but think about him. I love him more than life itself! I miss him so much and I dont think he misses me. I want to call him and say sorry and everything but Im afraid he wont care! I miss him so much you have no idea! Please help! should I call him?!?!? Should I just move on??! please Ill rate 5's i swear!
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I say you call him and tell him the story... Tell him you didn't know what was happening and you weren't thinking when you broke up with him. And if he takes you back he really did miss you... If he already moved on then He is a jerk and isn't worth your tears.
Hope this works and you work things out!!
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Aw, I'm sorry about your breakup. =( It sounds like you still care about him alot. I think you should take a chance and call him. You never know, he could really miss you and want you back, but he might have not wanted to make it any worse, in case you didn't like him anymore. So yeah, call him and tell him how much you care about him. And if he doesn't want to get back together, at least you know you tried, and you won't be wondering "what if?" And then you could move on. Good luck ! =)
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Hey Hun,
It seem's hard you know to deal with not having the person you love around anymore. But I mean you got to loook at it like you were dating 1yr and 2monthes of course your goin to miss him exspecially like looking around in your room just remembering thing's of course your going to be sad,dissapointed,stressed out,crying. It happen's! But if you do still wanna get back with him just call him exsplain your feeling's to him, and if he doesn't listen then maybe it was not meant to be. But at least you said what was on your mind. But im sure he seen it coming if their was no reaction, or maybe he was just shocked. But if you wanna call him go for it!
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-Stephanie
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I think before you broke up with him you should have talked to him and had an open relationship. And you should never be to scared if a guy is goin to break up with you, if they break up wit you well then they are lozers if they do.. dont worry bout it. But if you feel its the right thing to do call him and talk to him bout it. but seriously if another guy cheered you up who knows how many other guys can cheer you up. So my advice is just move on you may find someone better then him. but like i said iff you feel tht u need to talk to him..call him
good luck
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Follow your heart you feel you love him go after him don't be afraid to say you're sorry call him, apologize,tell him you love him, that you made a huge mistake,that you deserve a second chance,and let him know how much you love him to convince him for sure of your feelings for him.
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i know why you can't help but to feel bad and can't stop thinking about him because you dated for a long time, in my opinion i think it would be better and easier for you to just move on. if he didn't seem too upset it was probaly because he already saw it coming, but thats just my pointview. if you think you should call him and say your sorry then go ahead.
i hope i was helpful:)
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