well my name is destiny.... i have the best boy friend i could ever ask for and i love him more than any person or anything in this world... i have been through A LOT in my life and i can try my best to answer any question that you ask. i cant promise it will be as good as someone elses but i can try my hardest to give you the best answer that i can...
E-mail: prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
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my boyfriend and our mutual best friend [whose a guy] snuck over my house last night about 12:30. i told them my parents were still awake go back but they said no theyre half way there. so they said well wait on your street untill they go to sleep then you call us and meet us out in the back so im like ok.
well im listening for my parents to come back up. its 1 in the morning and i just fell asleep. i woke up at 10 today and just fell into shock i looked for my fone under my pillow, i had NUMEROUS texts voicemails and missed calls. i feel terrible what do i do? im embaressed and scared to call them because he sounded really mad on the voicemails.
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if i were you i would just call them and explain the whole thing. i mean im pretty sure that they will understand. why wouldnt they? i know you fell asleep and everything and they were outside, but you kinda cant help it if you fall asleep. thats not your fault. just try to talk to them and see how it works. i dont think that he will break up with you for something like that if he really likes you as much as he says he does. GOOD LUCK!
Hope i helped!
Destiny
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hi im 16/female
ok so today i was jumping on my neighbors trampoline when i felt wet. i thought i just peed a little but when i got home there was blood everywhere. this is strange because i had my period a week and a half ago. i asked my friend and she thinks my cherry somehow popped. did it? (link)
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i doubt that your cherry popped! because everyone that i have talked to about it has said that it doesnt hurt. and it doesnt bleed a whole entire a lot but it does like mediumish, but it doesnt go on for 2 days afterwards. so your mom is probably right, it is most likely your period, and it is a really good idea to go to the doctor. good luck!
Hope i Helped
Destiny
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Alright. . . im 16 hes 16 Me and my boyfriend met last summer and we both liked each other at first site...we met through my cousin and i thought yea right i wont have a chance and thats what he thought but anyways we hooked up during Easter and he was my boyfriend but we broke up in the summer for 2 weeks but we just have to have each other in our live.. I love him and we plan on being together forever but heres the thing....he has to move to Arizona with his family and that is like 1000 miles from my home but he sed he will stay with me and after high school and we are serious abouteverything and i heard he was getting me a promise ring for my birthday but yea basically i would like to know how to keep a long distance relationship going and what you think of the idea and we havent had sex no and are prolly waiting for that sorry this is long but thank you! Ask me anything if you want more info I owuld love to talk about it (link)
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ok, well, i have had a few long distance relationships, but i wasnt serious with them, like i mean i liked them but i knew for sure i wasnt going to be with them for the rest of my life! none of them worked out, but i have heard it is different when you really want to make it work... and i know that if you are really in love with each other and if you are supposed to be with each other for ever then it will all work out. if you want the rest of your life to be spent with this guy then go for it and if it is supposed to be you two for the rest of your lives then it will all work out, just think of it like this... if you can get through the whole long distance relationship thing as a test of love. if you can get through that, then you can get through anything life throws at you. and you will work everything out together and it will all be good. i mean i was the one that didnt want mine to work out, because i didnt want to be with the guys i dated long distance for the rest of my life. so i didnt let them last, now i am dating someone and i am engaged to them and everything is all good. we live about 15 minutes away from each other and we couldnt be happier... so if you two are meant to be together then you will be able to make it throught he whole dating long distance thing... and since you want some opions on it i will tell you that i think, number one: if it suits you then it will work. if you and the guy are serious about being together forever then, it will work... number two: you can never be to young for love, and if you are really in love with each other then it will work... so that is my opion and i hope i helped!
GOOD LUCK on WHATEVER you two decide to do!
Destiny
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In gym class, this girl Kelly, was like ohh you only ran 2 laps FATTY. I ran 5 though! I was like whatever. So then at recess she was like your so white. Get a tan. I said "Im a redhead and we don't get tan easily." Kelly said "Mkay no hunny, thats has nothing to do with it!" Her friends were like yeah and I thought u always say you have BROWN hair. My hair is kind of brownish red. Kelly was like "Get a tan." "Dye your hair." "Loose weight." She's so annoying. She says this all the time. I am way prettier then her too. She just has friends because she knows how to be mean. I can stick up for someone else, but not myself. My friend, who came by me was like "Let's go to the science room!" I was about to cry though. Kelly is 13, and has had 3 boyfriends, all younger. Im 13, I have had 8 & all older! I just don't know what to do! She always calls me a slut too. She has never kissed anyone. She also says I stuff my bra but I don't and this bothers me.. (link)
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well, if i were you just ignore her.... because after you stop giving her the reaction that she wants, she will stop bulling you and it will all end... thats what my aunt tells me to do when my brother does stuff like that, and when people at school do stuff like that and it actually works, once they dont get a response from you, they get bored and move on. hope i helped!
good luck!
Destiny
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i really didn't know what cagtagory to put this in but...
whats wrong with using all capital letters. why could you be banned if you do it. i just wanna know whats so bad about it
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when you type in all caps letters or write in all caps then a lot of people think that you are yelling at them. Hope i helped!
Destiny
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Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him". (link)
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well of course its ok to ask him. just because its usually the guy who asks dont mean we cant ask the guy. we cant do everything they cant do. hope i helped!
destiny
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what does the school do if they found out that you skipped a class or something?? (link)
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my school sends you to dmc.... which is where you are in this little cubical and you cant talk and you have to write packets all day... and if you dont finish them then you have to go back the next day.
hope i helped!
Destiny
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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think? (link)
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well... i would dump him! so if that's what you think is best then do it... because there's no reason in holding on to someone who is going to cause trouble and drama for you. it just makes no sense at all to do that... so if i were you i would just go ahead and do it, since you already want to anyway.
hope i helped! [[Good Luck]]
Destiny
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I have two former friends who (in my opinion) seriously abuse their cat. "Tammy" will grab the cat by the back legs and spin it around, set it on the floor and flip it in circles, chase it around the house, pull it by its tail when it tries to get away, etc. She's 21, so she's not a kid at all. With her boyfriend, they will put the cat in a pillowcase a breathe lungfulls of marijuana smoke in on it. When they have parties, they will "pass the cat." Everyone in at the party will take the joint and the bagged cat, and on every exhale breathe their smoke into the cat's bag. This will go on for an hour or two before they free the cat. This is just what they do in front of other people.
I can only see where I have there options here, each with problems.
1) Call the police.
2) Break into their house and steal the cat.
3) Do nothing.
I don't want to call the police, because I smoke weed and so do a lot of my friends. Used to, if you got caught in my town you just went to jail. Now you reduce your sentence with every fellow pot head you turn in, all the way up to having no arrest record if you turn in enough people.
I don't want to break in just because...well...it's wrong, I guess. And I really want to do something to help the cat. I've already tried talking to them about it, and it doesn't help.
I would really appreciate any other suggestions, or help picking which option is right. Thanks! (link)
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why dont you just call animal patrol?? or can they not do anything?? i mean i would think they could... its always worth a try right?? i would say do that!...
hope i helped!
Destiny
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everytime i go to the bathroom, there is this clear... like gooop. its clear and gooey. and its in my undies=( what is it? how can i get rid of it?
p.s. i have not had period.
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its fine... its just part of puberty. no you can not get rid of it.. it's natural. i know what your going through because i went throught the same thinking when it started happening to me... but every girl eventually gets it... hope i helped!
Destiny
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I need help on a guy, let's name him Bill. So Bill and I flirted for a while and it soon became a what you could call friends-with-benefits relationship (while he had a girlfriend) . After a while I told him that I really did like him, he stopped talking to me and cut off our friendship. (Apparently he didn't feel the same and I was just another girl to flirt with.) I ended up telling him i was really hurt and sent him a long paragraph telling him how i felt. he sent it to his girlfriend and she blew up at me. Let's name her Sue. Me and Sue are friends now and so are me and Bill. Bill and I are going to the same high school while Sue is not. I want to have a relationship with Bill during high school but I'm not sure if he'll still be too attracted to Sue to even consider me or if they'll still stay together. This is really long... I'll give credit to anyone who even tries. Thanks. :] (link)
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well... idk what i would do if i was in this situation, but i think i would just wait and see if they still have their fling during the school year and if they do then i dont think i would say anything until the fling stops, but if they arent going to have their fling then i think i would talk to him about and see how it works... i hope a helped some... GOOD LUCK!
Destiny
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Hey my best friend gabby just turned 16 and iam 17 and on her b-day both her parents let her drink a half bottle of beer and ever since then she's been saying how cool it is and iam sick of it how can I get her to stop drinking?Iam really worried. (link)
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if i were you i would just try to talk to her... i mean in order for someone to quit they have to have the want to to quit... so the only thing you really can do is talk to her about the way you feel about her drinking... hope i helped!
Destiny
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okay i love the way flats look but they always cut the backs of my ankles, does anyone know how i can get them to stop doing that without socks cause i like to wear them with like capris and skirts and stuff and socks wont look right and nylons are a pain the the butt and if i put in the backing things then my foot feels squished. should I just use band aids? thanks in advamce.
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haha... thats what i do... i just use band aids for mine... i have the same problem! hope i helped!
Destiny
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okay so i have this boyfriend. i like him a lot...but he lives one town over from me. i only get to see him like once every 3 months. what should i do? (link)
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well... my boyfriend lives in the town next to me and we only get to see each other once in a while like we get to see each other tomorrow for the first time in like 2months and 3weeks.... and we love each other so we just deal with it... so i think that if you like him as much as you think you do just deal with it... like what doesnt kill you makes you stronger right? well just think of it like that! hope i helped! good luck!
Destiny
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i have tryed like every kind of acne treatment there is. I dont have major acne but it is noticable. Make up sometimes covers it up. i have also been to the dermatologist and everthing they suggested didnt work. so does any have any ideas for different treatments i could use that work (link)
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well i use dish soap (dawn antibacterial) and wash my face with warm/hot water with the dawn, and then i use alcohol... and it clears mine up... try that.. hope i helped... good luck!
Destiny
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okay so heres the deal me & my hole family was saposed to go to NYC over the weekend. i got wicked excited and stuff but then my parents got in a huge fight and arent talking to eachother. i was really excited to go but now we arent going at all. my dad wont talk to anyone but my younger sister and he is being a huge jerk. but the thing is everytime we get ready and stuff to go on a vacation my mom&dad get in a fight and we dont go. i really dont know what to do because i really wanted to go. i know it isnt always about me sometimes but i was so excited and now we arent going at all. my dad is also being a HUGE jerk to my hole family and wont say sorry or anything to anyone. my mom said until he stops acting like a jerk we arent going.
well anyways my question is should i just forget about the hole NYC thing completely or hang on and hope they will make up. i will rate high if its good advice =] (link)
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well... if i were you i would hope that they make up that way ya'll can go. but you always have to remember that it may not happen so dont get real excited about it because they might not in time... it goes back to the old saying "Hope for the best, but expect the worst!" i dont really know how to answer this that well but i tried... hope i helped a little bit
Destiny
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My husband and I have been married for almost two years. We married after finding out I was pregnant with my son. I've followed him to his home town, far away from what I know. I've had a hard time relating to his family. He promised me stability, (a house, a good job for him, an opportunity to go to school) We've been here 6 months living off unemployment. He finally got a job, but wants to quit. We just moved out of my in-laws place and into an apartment. (more bills)
He is even considering the Army national guard. We were active Army before, (where we met)I spent my whole pregnancy alone, cause he was deployed. I don't want to go through it again. I can't divorce him, nowhere to go. I am afraid of what a divorce will do to my son. Any advice? Experienced advice appreciated
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well, actually, i have gone through the whole parent in the service thing and my mom married my dad because she was pregnate and they are no longer together... we now live with my aunt and uncle and are just great.... we have a roof over our heads and food to eat... we get to go out with friends and everything that a normal kid/teenager should do... my mom and dad gave up custody to my aunt and uncle and we have lived here for 10 years... plus all the time we lived here with our parents and my aunt and uncle (that was before they decided to divorce). My mom got remarried and i like my step dad to an extent... i cant really completely except him because my mom promised me she would NEVER remarry and she did... my dad turned to drugs and went to jail for about 7 or 8 years of my life. and he just got out... but hes doing much better now and wants to be a part of my life now... and if you ask me from seeing my parents yelling and stuff, the divorce was for the best and we are so much better off now than we were when we were when they were married.... they both have there lives on track and are able to pay bills and they help with the things that we need and everything. but thats about the best i can give at this point... i hope i helped at least a little bit...[[good luck on whatever you decide]]
Destiny
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Walking down a very busy street today, I saw a gentleman talking to himself and pausing to hear an answer. He was talking to himself but I truly believe, that he believed, there was someone there. Who can say that there wasn't? Could he be talking to the dead or to someone else that lives on a different plain then we do? Maybe, he is the "normal one" and we aren't because we can't see what he is seeing? Has anyone else ever thought of this theory before or am I not "normal"? (link)
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well actually if you wanna know the truth... i agree with you... i have thought that stuff, but i just couldnt ever figure out how to put it into words... but now its done... i didnt do it you did... but yea i have thought that too... and i think that if anyone thinks its weird to think like that then maybe they are not "normal" because there is all kinds of things that could be it...
hope i helped!
*!~Destiny~!*
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at my sprint store (i have sprint) they also sell virgin mobil phones and theres one virgin mobile phone i want but cause they are two different plans do you think i could get it.. because they do sell them at the sprint store and when i went on some website it said- "virgin mobile/sprint" as the header of the phone i wanted. (link)
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they should let you get it but im 100% positive...
Destiny
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Ok so, I've been dating my brother's friend Mike who lives in a diff. state for almost 3 months now, and we didn't tell my brother or my parents. But, my parent's found my Myspace and everything about Mike in it. They flipped out and my brother found out and got really mad. And if this one just a random relationship I would have just ended it .. but I really do love him, and I cannot live without him. I'm pretty sure I should just stay with him. but I don't know. so could you help?!? =) (link)
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well if you really love him then i would just try to explain that to your family!.... i have had to do that before, except i just liked the guy and no one in my family did.... i wasnt in love with him or anything, but if you really do love him just try to explain that. i mean the most they can tell you is youre to young to know what love is... but if you ask me you cant put an age limit on what is the right age that you will know what love is. i would just explain to them... they might not like it very much at first but eventually i think they will at least be able to live with it.. hope i helped! good luck!
Destiny
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