Question Posted Wednesday September 6 2006, 7:04 pm
Alright. . . im 16 hes 16 Me and my boyfriend met last summer and we both liked each other at first site...we met through my cousin and i thought yea right i wont have a chance and thats what he thought but anyways we hooked up during Easter and he was my boyfriend but we broke up in the summer for 2 weeks but we just have to have each other in our live.. I love him and we plan on being together forever but heres the thing....he has to move to Arizona with his family and that is like 1000 miles from my home but he sed he will stay with me and after high school and we are serious abouteverything and i heard he was getting me a promise ring for my birthday but yea basically i would like to know how to keep a long distance relationship going and what you think of the idea and we havent had sex no and are prolly waiting for that sorry this is long but thank you! Ask me anything if you want more info I owuld love to talk about it
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ilovejaredleeburns answered Thursday September 7 2006, 6:52 pm: ok, well, i have had a few long distance relationships, but i wasnt serious with them, like i mean i liked them but i knew for sure i wasnt going to be with them for the rest of my life! none of them worked out, but i have heard it is different when you really want to make it work... and i know that if you are really in love with each other and if you are supposed to be with each other for ever then it will all work out. if you want the rest of your life to be spent with this guy then go for it and if it is supposed to be you two for the rest of your lives then it will all work out, just think of it like this... if you can get through the whole long distance relationship thing as a test of love. if you can get through that, then you can get through anything life throws at you. and you will work everything out together and it will all be good. i mean i was the one that didnt want mine to work out, because i didnt want to be with the guys i dated long distance for the rest of my life. so i didnt let them last, now i am dating someone and i am engaged to them and everything is all good. we live about 15 minutes away from each other and we couldnt be happier... so if you two are meant to be together then you will be able to make it throught he whole dating long distance thing... and since you want some opions on it i will tell you that i think, number one: if it suits you then it will work. if you and the guy are serious about being together forever then, it will work... number two: you can never be to young for love, and if you are really in love with each other then it will work... so that is my opion and i hope i helped!
GOOD LUCK on WHATEVER you two decide to do!
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adviceforlife answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 9:47 pm: Hey there. Being in a situation such as this can be hard. Long distances relationships are hard to maintain, theres the long distance phone calls, messing each other, rarely together, and no physical contact. However, sometimes they can be for the better. I've reasoned that sometimes when someone sees their boyfriend/girlfriend every day or too often, their relationship tends not to work out so well. They often get sick of each others company. However, in a relationship that is distanced, that is a problem. I am in such a situation. I have a boyfriend, we see each other almost every day and are truly in love, we have had sex but are completely devoted to one another. My advice to you would be to go on with the relationship, based upon your comment, I reason that you two are truly in love. Follow your heart and I'm sure it will lead you to the best possible resolution. [ adviceforlife's advice column | Ask adviceforlife A Question ]
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