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Retarded Girls
In gym class, this girl Kelly, was like ohh you only ran 2 laps FATTY. I ran 5 though! I was like whatever. So then at recess she was like your so white. Get a tan. I said "Im a redhead and we don't get tan easily." Kelly said "Mkay no hunny, thats has nothing to do with it!" Her friends were like yeah and I thought u always say you have BROWN hair. My hair is kind of brownish red. Kelly was like "Get a tan." "Dye your hair." "Loose weight." She's so annoying. She says this all the time. I am way prettier then her too. She just has friends because she knows how to be mean. I can stick up for someone else, but not myself. My friend, who came by me was like "Let's go to the science room!" I was about to cry though. Kelly is 13, and has had 3 boyfriends, all younger. Im 13, I have had 8 & all older! I just don't know what to do! She always calls me a slut too. She has never kissed anyone. She also says I stuff my bra but I don't and this bothers me..
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well, if i were you just ignore her.... because after you stop giving her the reaction that she wants, she will stop bulling you and it will all end... thats what my aunt tells me to do when my brother does stuff like that, and when people at school do stuff like that and it actually works, once they dont get a response from you, they get bored and move on. hope i helped!
good luck!
Destiny
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oh gosh i hate girls. lol. i sayy.. call her out.. shes only doing it because she knows she cann.. if you just take it and show your upset.. it shows her that she can get away with it.. this girl used to say my best friend stuffed her bra and so one day she took off her bra in the middle of the gym and handed it to the other girl who was talking trash and was like. "hm. i dont see any tissue? do you?" and everyone was like... "....................." haha. she put everyone in shock.. it only takes one time of standing up to her for her to back off... its okay to be mean back..
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Well my first bit of advice is just ignore her as much as possible, even though it will be hard. She's probably just jealous, and knows that you know you're pretty, and wants to drag you confidence level way down. Try staying away from her or ignoring her first and if that doesn't work, confide in an adult you can trust, they will always try to help you
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That girl is so jealous of you , next time she starts just say ' allrite BEAUTIFUL!' to wind her up and laugh in her face!
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ah, Kelly is a bitch.
This isn't the right thing to do,
but do the same to her.
When she's around her friends,
embarass her and point out her flaws.
and when she walks by yell out mean things.
it's so immature, but whatever, she's cruel.
I hope she stops
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Don't let her bother you. Be happy. You shouldn't care what she thinks. Smile and laugh, walk away.
Is she tan? You can always say.. somebody should lay off the spray tan. If she dyes her hair, then you could say at least I'm not fake or an attention whore.
If you're happy with your hair, skin, and weight... show it and don't let her bother you. She's just jealous.
Walk away and laugh. If you know you ran 5 laps then who cares what she says? YOU RAN 5 LAPS! If you know you're not a slut, who cares? You know you don't stuff your bra, but it also imples that she thinks you have big boobs and hey, they're natural! She's jealous.
She wants a negative reaction out of you. Don't give her it. Just be happy and laugh in her face. If she doesn't get a reaction out of it, what's the point? Ignore her or something. If you're talking to a friend and she comes up to you... Ignore her. When she insults you, pay attention to your friend and speak louder, grab your friends shoulder and walk away.. full attention on your friend and keep the conversation going.
If the girl says something rude again turn around and be like, "HEY, SHUT UP. I'M trying to have a conversation." and continue to walk away.
You can always go to a classroom there.
You can ask a teacher for help about bullying.
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Hiya,
You shouldn't let bullies like Kelly bother you. I get bullied because of my body which makes me feel so down, but i have learnt to ignore everyones comments and get on with my life. No-one is perfect so you should let Kelly know that what she calls you and say to you doesnt bother you at all. Even though it does, telling her this will make her see how silly she has been and probally wont do it because she knows it doesnt effect you. Whatever you choose to do I hope everything goes well. And remember people who bully usually have been bullied themselves, dont rise up to her.
Good luck and be beautiful!
Chloe xx
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She says this stuff to you so she can feel better about herself. You can't let her get to you because then she'll just think that she accomplished something. Just tell her to get a life because obviously she doesn't have one if she's going to make fun of you all do.
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She does it to make herself feel better. Comparing yourself to her isn't going to make things better. The next time she says something you've got to say "Oh, sorry didn't here that,all I heard was you being a bitch to me, because your trying to impress your friends, well "HUNNY" your not impressing them, and frankly, you need to go waste your time on something else, because it doesnt mean a thing to me". Memorize that, or change it up. If she continues to harass you, let someone know. Because its unneccisary for you to feel upset in a school environment. Hope I helped. Have a good School year :)
-Brina
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Kelly sounds a little too immature to be in gym class. Haha. Anyway, she's probably just jealous of you, so she picks on you to feel better about herself. You're not the only one this happpens to, trust me. Lots of girls are victims to girls like this. And lots of girls talk shit! If it happens again, just tell her to shut the fuck up, and get a damn life. Because you have better things to do than waste your life with what people think; especially her. If I was in this case, and I told her that, and she didn't stop, well then I'd kick her ass. But, you're not me & I'm not you. So, don't beat on her. =]
♥TiNA
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Well Kelly sounds like she's just being immature and she just needs to grow up. The truth is that she's probably just jealous, even though that's not an excuse for someone to say things like that to someone else. I know it'll be hard, but you should try to say something to her. One day just be like; you constantly bug me about stupid things that don't even matter, when the truth is that i think that you're just jealous. just becuase i've had more boyfriends than you doesn't make me a slut. That sounds kind of stupid, but it might get her to shut up. Just try not to let her bother you.. she sounds really lame and it seems like all of her friends just follow her around because they have nothing better to do.
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