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I need help
Ok so, I've been dating my brother's friend Mike who lives in a diff. state for almost 3 months now, and we didn't tell my brother or my parents. But, my parent's found my Myspace and everything about Mike in it. They flipped out and my brother found out and got really mad. And if this one just a random relationship I would have just ended it .. but I really do love him, and I cannot live without him. I'm pretty sure I should just stay with him. but I don't know. so could you help?!? =)
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well if you really love him then i would just try to explain that to your family!.... i have had to do that before, except i just liked the guy and no one in my family did.... i wasnt in love with him or anything, but if you really do love him just try to explain that. i mean the most they can tell you is youre to young to know what love is... but if you ask me you cant put an age limit on what is the right age that you will know what love is. i would just explain to them... they might not like it very much at first but eventually i think they will at least be able to live with it.. hope i helped! good luck!
Destiny
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Hey,
You know there is something that i have always told myself, and it really helped me alot in different situations, and that if a person really wants something really badly, then he should work as hard as he can to have it, get it,own it and achieve. And you shouldn't just sit around here and say that you like the guy, go out there and do whatever you want and whatever that pleases you, and follow your heart for that i am sure that it leads you to him.
you know, that the greatest thing is to love and be loved in return, and you have that ,then hold on to it, and fight your way through anyone that would stand in it.
You are a great person, with an amazing ,loving ,caring and truly sweet and kind personality,so take advantage of that, and use it right. And as long as your doing something right and your happy about it, then hold on to it and don't you dare let it slip.
About your brother, sit with him, and tell him every single word you just posted right now, and i can even swear, ( but unfortunately i never do) then he will be touched by what you say, and will agree for you to go on with this relationship, because all he wants is everything good for you. Then if he does agree, later on, when your parents know that you settled things down with your brother, they will be cool too, and will leave you to do whatever you want.
But whatever you do, don't give up the greatest thing that you have in your life.
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Sit your parents and your brother down and tell them how you feel about him. if you thought it was just some silly relationship you would have just ended it. Good LUck
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Well, I think your parents and your brother just got really shocked.. I mean, they didn't know about it, and suddenly it got on their faces at once.
Just try to give yourself and your boyfriend some space... and for your parents and brother too. Maybe your brother is mad because neither one of you and your bf told him anything about your relationship... so now calm down and relax... I know how it feels... It feels horrible and I can't lie about it.
Tell your parents that you really like this guy. And tell them that you will never let anything like this to happen again, that will lighten their feelings up a bit...
I wish I've helped... I really hope I have...
Wish you always the best luck.
Hope you won't have to leave him... you have your own right to be with someone that you love...
Sincerely yours,
Vin
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I think that if this guy makes you happy, it's not fair of your parents and your brother to get in the way. Tell them you love him and if you're lucky, they'll understand. I know what it's like to love someone and not want to be without them, but for me it usually ends badly. So I hope you have better luck than I have, hope I helped.
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