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my friend is so selfish!
my friend is alwayyss flirting with my boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. she even sleeps with them and it makes me soo mad. how can i overcome this feeling or deal with this problem?
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if she sleeps with your friends, shes definetely not a very good friend. DITCH HER! shes obviously not very caring, and not thinking of you (which is what friends are suppose to do!)
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Well First you hae to convince yourself that you don't ike them anymore and you really just need to get a new boyfriend that isn't just gonna go out with someone as soon as he breaks up with u.You also need to talk to this girl!!
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OMG you call her a FREIND?!!?GO bitchslap her!!would YOU ever sleep with your freinds boyfreind??i dont THINK so!!!You need to tell her and i dont mean to tell her as in "can you please like not sleep with him cuz i get mad" i mean as in "you whore!!Our freindship is over and dont bother talking to me and youll regret what youve done so badly...keep an eye on your boyfreind cuz he wont be for long!!" you cant stay freinds with her...she doesnt care about you,shes using you to sleep with your guy!You need to start a fight or you can stay her freind forever and even let her sleep with your future husband too.And another thing...your boyfreind is not your type of guy either,he doesnt care about you or like you.If he did he wouldnt go around sleeping with your freind.call him up and tell he all what he did that bothered you then say im DUMPING you!!keep away from these people they will only get you to depression!!Wheres your personality and dignity woman??And dont try sleeping with her guy to get her mad,dont go down to her level
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Guy's who are going to cheat on you with your best friend, isn't a guy worth dating. And if your friend does this, then she isn't really a friend. Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.
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Hey .. I Would say that you should talk to her about this .. I think she is only doing this because she is insecure about herself and how guys feel about her, and she thinks "hey if i sleep with them they will still want me" but believe me .. that is never the way to go .. Hope I Helped !!
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if your friend is flirting and sleeping with your boyfriends / ex boyfriends. shes not a very good friends. i would tell her homw you feel if she keeps on with this i would tell her i dont want to be friends with her no more Good Luck
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quit being her friend that is juss plain srry or if you don't want to quit bein her friend you need to tlk to her about it big time
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she SLEEPS with them?!
if I were you, I would NOT be her friend anymore. Just say, "Look, if you don't stop flirting and all that crap with my boyfriends and my ex-boyfriends, then I'm sorry but I don't think we can be friends anymore."
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She is not a true friend to you by any means. It's naturall to be flirty with any one of the oppisite sex. Even if they are taken. It's a thing of life. But she goes over bounds if she is sleeping with them. I don't think that talking about it with her will make any difference in the matter that is not going to fix the problem that she has already caused. You need a new friend. And the guys that you are getting wiht. You should just be cautious and weary of the men you are attracted to if most of them end up sleeping with her then you are attracting the wrong type of men. Look at others, get with other guys then your usuall type. The first caution would be if they flirt back more than what makes you comfortable then you need to lose them then not later when it develops into something worse.
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Maybe your friend has a problem... I mean, with her mind... Looks like she wants to have what you have... to feel what you feel... and that is kinda scary... or is she trying to say that she can get what you get? I still don't understand what she's trying to do...
Oh yes, honey, she is selfish for doing that to you!! She shouldn't have! I mean, there is no such thing as a real friend to do this to her own friend...that is just too selfish... and she doesn't even think about your feelings,,,
Have you ever told her about your feelings? Because she really needs to know about this... she can't keep doing these stuffs... it's killing you... and the boys, they shouldn't have done it with her either!!
But it's okay... everything will be alright...
You'll get her back someday...
Wish you always the best luck
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This is not right by any standards.
a)if the boy is willing to cheat on you with her, than you shouldn't be with him in the first place.
b)the girl obviously isn't your friend if she is slefish enough to ignore your feelings and the people you love.
slapabitch.
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Easy. If she was a real friend she wouldn't do that to you. Talk to her about it, tell her how you feel. If she doesn't care/ keeps doing what shes doing then get rid of her. You don't need bad friendships like that. TRUST ME.
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I'm sorry dear, but this is a no-brainer:
Stop being her friend.
A little bit of harmless flirting is fine, but if this girl has made a habit of flirting with your boyfriends or seems to feel an actual need to seduce your exes, then she is the one with the problem, not you.
If it was just a once or twice thing that seemed to be a coincidence, or if she stops flirting when asked nicely, then that's fine. But if this really is a pattern, I can't imagine why you would want to keep her friendship. Women who have a compulsive need to seduce men or be attractive to guys who are already in relationships are, by and large, vindictive and competitive with other women. That doesnâ??t make a good friend.
If you don't think she is one of those women, then just straight up ask her to stop flirting with your boy. (Sorry hun, you have no say in what she does to your exes.) But if you think she is the kind of girl who just *needs* to behave this way, I'd stop hanging out with her so much.
EDIT: Your welcome, but if your situation is more complicated then that, you might want to add some of the details about the complications to your question. We can only answer as well as we can with the information we have. Good Luck.
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