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This might be kinda long and in depth i apreaciate it if you read all of it.

First of all im 19/f and my boyfriend is also 19. We'll call him J. Ok, so J and I have been together for 3 years, four next july. He treats me better than I could ever ask, and does things for me. We planned on getting married and probably having children together. The thing is over the past 2 years I've gotten really sick. I spend alot of time at hospitals and in doctors offices. Ever since six months ago, I've been on treatment for cervical cancer. It's working but the side affects are making me sicker than ever. Some days it's even hard for me to get out of bed. So what I'm getting at.. I always feel so guilty and upset about hurting him because of my sicknesses. I don't feel like a good girlfriend because I can't do some of the things he does for me. He tells me not to worry about it and it'll be worth the wait, but it isn't that simple for me. I feel like he deserves better, someone that can do things for him and make him happy. I know he isn't. I know how bad he wants kids, and now I might not be able to give him that. We don't get to do alot together and we LIVE together. It sucks so bad I don't even know what to do anymore. Any advice would mean alot to me.

Thanks

what i think you should do is just try to help, him get through this even no you r hurting more well anyways tell him if i am not able to give you kids its going to be o.k. because you can always adopt instead of giving you can help a little child who needs caring he will understand if he loves you

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I am finnaly getting a cell phone!! but.. it is my Mom's old one :( but y'know it is something. I am going into High School and they say like 100 minutes is enough, but i am afraid that when i get new friends i will be talking to them alot, and i cannot convince my parents that i NEED more minutes... what should i do???

i am sure your parents will understand if you run out of minutes from tlking to your friends. but you can also like talk to them on your house phone. my parents always bought me minutes when i ran out.

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i told my friend i was afraid to die naked and now she makes fun of me. what should i do? :(

if your friend is making fun of you then she really isn`t you friend. did you ever thinnk about that.......

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ok i was goin out wit this guy(mark), but then i started talkin to another guy(jake)who livs in another town, and he told me he liked me alot. i kept tellin him that i really like marc, but i ende up dumping marc so i could be with jake. so i hung out with jake a few times, and he was like kissing me and holdin me and holding my hand and stuff like that. i really thought he was gonna ask me out but he didnt. so iv been talkin to him online, and i kinda thought he was just using me, so i asked him and he sed that he liked a girl from his town befor i came but he likes me too. then his friend told me that jake was just using me and he was planning on goin ut with that girl from his town. jake still talks to me though and idk if wat his friend sed was true becuz his freind likes me also. so yaa should i just giv up on jake? was he just using me? wat should i do??

yes you should definalty give up on jake. all he did was use you and touch on you. i think you will have better luck with Mark. jake just said yes that he liked you because he wanted to feel on you and he thought you were pretty. so give jake UP

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Okay, there is this new guy at school. He just moved here. He isn't cute at all, and is weird. I talked to him once because he was just sitrting there, and I felt bad. Now, he always stares at me. How do I get him to stop?

the problem is he thinks that you like him because you talked to him. just sit down with and say in a nice way that you don`t like him and you were only being polite to him. i had this happen to me before and i did the same thing. i am sure he will understand.

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there is this guy...his name is max and he lives a few streets away from me and i really like him. I have a feeling he likes me too because he always talks to me, and is so sweet and generous to me. I need some advise on how to make him notice and how to get him to ask me out. HELP!!!

flirt with like be like i got to find you a girlfriend he will be like ok then go through a list and go past your name and then see wat he says

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i really need help, the other day i was really drunk and kissed another guy, and i have a bf..its completley killing me and i feel horrible..should i tell my bf, what should i do? has anyone been in this position before..thanks.

yes but wat i did is i told my boyfriend and said if you love me you will forgive b/c i love you and then he will be like no you don't you kissed another guy and what you say is I WAS DRUNK!!!!! I DIDN'T NO WHAT WAS GOIN ON!!!!!! GOOD LUCK,

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How do I get my boyfriend, (From two years ago) back? We flirt sometimes, but we weren't in classes together last year. He's the perfect guy, like exactly what I look for. I'm great at flirting, and it'll seem like he likes me. But, I want us to go back out again. The new school year will be starting soon, maybe we'll get classes together. Tips?

keep on flirting the more you flirt the more he starts to like you and then he will fall back in love good luck

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I tried to dye it back to my natural hair color and the people who did it made it red and it was supposed to be brown. How long will it take for my all of my hair to grow back with my normal color?

it is goin to take a long time!!!!!!!!!!!!1 what you need to do is go to another hair place and get did all over again

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Ok. how do you make out? cause i have no idea how to or what it is! can someone tell me what it is and how you do it? I REALLY NEED HELP! and if the person your doing it with knows how will you look like an idiot or can they not even tell?

whoever is wanting to make out with you make sure they kiss you because then you don't have to do anything thats what you need to do if its the first time u made-out or u r goin to make-out

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my friend is alwayyss flirting with my boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. she even sleeps with them and it makes me soo mad. how can i overcome this feeling or deal with this problem?

quit being her friend that is juss plain srry or if you don't want to quit bein her friend you need to tlk to her about it big time

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ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?

i am f/14 and no it's not wrong b/c i am savin my virginity to someone who i think is the right one save it for the special someone

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1)okay so this girl first asks for my email add then my phone number,then one day i waved at her in school and she was absolutely shy and looked down the whole time.Now we are talking on msn.so does she like me?or is she just naturally shy and wants to be just friends?

2)But what i don't get about girls is that you know how some girls are outgoing and super friendly?So she may talk to you a lot and like you or maybe just talk to you cause she is just being friendly to you as she is to the other guys.So is their a way to know?I mean,if a girl talks to a guy a lot,does that mean that she's interested in him?cause it doesn't really make any sense for a girl to talk a lot to a guy since girls mostly mix with girls and vice versa, plus girls mostly talk about girls stuff which guys know nothing of,unless he's gay.

well does she flirt with you just a little or even a lot juss start bein even more friendly that will do the trick and most the time it means she does

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Whats the best brand of stuff to use for acne to go away?? I have clearisil. It works somewhat.. See Ive never really been a person who gets acne alot..but one every while i get like 2. But i was justwondering what works the best incase i do develop acne. THANKKS!

proactive trust me it works

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about three months ago my boyfriends friend took advantige of me (sorry if i spelled that wrong) well i still havent told my well now he's my ex boyfriend now but the point is i havent told him and i really want to but i think he knows and thats why we broke up but i still love him so very much how can i tell him both that i still love him and about his bestfriend please help me

you juss need to call him and burst thats wat i would do and then ask him why did he break up with you

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My best guy friend whom I've been crushing on for the past year now has never showed any interest in me. When I know that i am perfect for him it would be the best relationship hes ever had. How do I get him to realize this? or How do I just give up and realize he has to like me back for it to work?

I really need some answers

Thanks

he has to lke you back

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well i was raped when i was younger and i just wanted to talk to someone who has been raped before as well... is there anyone out there that wants to talk? it would help both of us...

my friend was raped

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i have been friends with "sarah" since i was a little kid (we're both 15 now). recently sarah wanted to make a myspace. i practically made the whole thing for her since i am better with computers. i posted her first comment saying "heyy sarah whats up?". i looked at her myspace a couple days later it was gone. i assume she deleted it because sarah is really popular in school, and well im not. i think that she did not want to be associated with me because im a geek. i was really upset by this and havent talked to her in a while, and i dont if i want to. should i forgive her for being 2-faced? and if i should, should i tell her i know what she did?

u should tell her how it makes you feel and then say we can be friends when we r alone that way it won't ruin our reputation although i think she shouldn't care about wat ppl think bout her if she can't be your friend out were eryone can see b/c if she can't be friends with you because it will ruin your reputation she is not a good friend b/c it look like she cares more about her rep than she does you

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Ok so if my brother is always being stupid like always in my stuff he wont leave me alone he's younger than me and how or what do i do too get him to stop please help me he's driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

he is juss doin that to annoy you juss act like it doesn't bother you and he will leave u alone

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My best friend really liked this guy, he wasnt technically her boyfriend but they have been on and off for about 2 months now because he liked another girl. My friend finally had the last straw and asked him to pick between her and the other girl, and he didnt know what to do. She left for vacation for a week and we started talking...a lot. We both realized we were perfect for each other and another week went by, and we finally decided to tell her. She hung up the phone on my and told him she never wanted to see either of us again. What do i do?!? I dont want to lose my friend but I never get what i want and we both really feel strongly about each other and we want to be together.

well before u did all that u should of asked her first!!!1 but since you have already fallen in love here is what you need to do(is you need to tlk to your friend and tell her how much he means to you,and try to help her understand say your sorry and if that doesn't work say if your going to stop being my friend b/c of a stupid boy than your not a real friend

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