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please help me!
about three months ago my boyfriends friend took advantige of me (sorry if i spelled that wrong) well i still havent told my well now he's my ex boyfriend now but the point is i havent told him and i really want to but i think he knows and thats why we broke up but i still love him so very much how can i tell him both that i still love him and about his bestfriend please help me
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you juss need to call him and burst thats wat i would do and then ask him why did he break up with you
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I think that you probably should tell your ex about his best friend. However, be prepared for the possibility that (1) he already knows, or (2) he may deny it - in other words, call you a liar.
For both of these reasons, the critical thing to do is NOT TO CONFRONT HIM ALONE. I don't mean to pass judgement on your boyfriend, but the fact is that his best friend has assaulted you, and you know what they say about birds of a feather. Take along someone, preferably more than one someone, who can help you present some strength. Otherwise, there is a very real possibility that your ex-boyfriend is not the guy you think he is, and you could be taken advantage of again.
So, who to bring with you? That brings me to my next point, which is that your ex-boyfriend isn't the only one you should tell. If someone took advantage of you sexually, then there's a word for that, and it's rape. Rape is a crime and should be reported. Furthermore, rapists usually don't stop at one victim. By reporting this, you may save many other girls from this guy.
Who you tell depends in large part on how old you are. If you're a minor, start with your parents. If you're an adult, go to the police.
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You can't assume he knows. Is it his fault his friends an asshole? Let him know see how he reacts and go from there also you should file a police report on this guy
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