Member Since: July 30, 2006
Answers: 4
Last Update: July 30, 2006
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I have always had love handles...all of my life. My dad's family all has them. I can NOT stand them. I am self conscious in bikinis, tight shirts, everything. I have tried cross crunches, i eat healthy, cardio....everything. This is my workout every day:
30 Min. Treadmill
15 Min Strength training on arms(i have very weak upperbody strength)
50 crunches
25 cross crunches on each side
15 Min. Indoor rowing boat machine thing
I eat healthy as i can, but we are always running out of fresh vegatables and fruits, and i have asked my mom to get more but they spoil quickly. Sooo...i do really try geting rid of them but it's not working! Any tips? Please!! i rate. (link)
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Your a spoon. Try biking with little resistance and jump rope. Runing and stair stepping can increase in you hips
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So my friend (we will call him Tom) Tom and i have been talking a lot on MSN and Texting. We are JUST friends (tom has been going out with a girl for 5 months)but for some reason i feel giulty that we are so close. We always go on webcam and do silly stuff together like pretend we are rappers or act like gangsters and stuff. Everybody thinks we like each other even though neither of us have really ever thought about it...
so what i'm asking is do you think he likes me or should i feel giulty? i KNOW i am not leading him on, but ever since somebody kinda pointed it out to me, i geuss we are kinda flirtsy (not on purpose though) i am confused, but in the mean time....i will just continue to be awesome friends and keep on being silly.
your help is GREAT, so thank you for even just reading this mess, lol (link)
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If your coming on here asking this question of course you like him. How would you feel if you were in his girlfriends place? What goes around come around. So get off her man and start looking for another before you get it too deep?
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about three months ago my boyfriends friend took advantige of me (sorry if i spelled that wrong) well i still havent told my well now he's my ex boyfriend now but the point is i havent told him and i really want to but i think he knows and thats why we broke up but i still love him so very much how can i tell him both that i still love him and about his bestfriend please help me (link)
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You can't assume he knows. Is it his fault his friends an asshole? Let him know see how he reacts and go from there also you should file a police report on this guy
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Here's the situation, me and this guy have been going steady for 4 weeks, we've been on 3 dates he lives 30 minutes away we met on myspace and I guess you could say that we're both "interested" in eachother. The problem is that I feel like I want this relationship more than he does. It seems as if i'm always the one who makes plans for us to go do something and I feel that he holds no initiative when it comes to us. It is both our first time in a male-male relationship and yet I feel like i'm more ready for an "us" than he is and when I asked him where he thinks this relationship is going all I get are "idk" and "wherever 'we' want it to go" which I think is very cliche. Also, i'm out to most my friends and family and he is getting there he just hasn't told his mother, however, some parts of his immediate family like his older sister and brothers want to change him and make him "straight." Amongst that whenever I want to come over to his house when he's feeling down he won't let me and keeps me at a distance and it just bugs the hell out of me. Also, we talked last night on AIM and it basically killed me talking to him because I'm just so confused about "us" so I told him that I was depressed (which I was do to him and just pondering about "us") and I started to cry... well I told him that and just ended the conversation by saying," I can't take this I just can't." Then I signed off and cried myself to sleep and he knew I was crying and still he didn't try and call me to cheer me up... All he did was just message me on myspace and was like, "I know our last date didn't turn out very well, but me and Stephanie were planning on watching a movie on Thursday and I was wondering if you wanted to come." I just don't know what I should do because everytime he plans a date it's always with one of his friends and it makes me feel just like another friend. So the question I keep asking myself is whether or not the only reason why i'm keeping him is because I like the idea of saying that I have a boyfriend as opposed to actually having a boyfriend... if that makes any sense. Thanks if you can help me out and sorry this quesiton was so long. (link)
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Ok, you really have to put yourself in his shoes. He hasn't come out fully yet and he trying this new thing out. He just may not be ready for a full out relationship. He might want to try out the waters of this lifestyle. Try not to pressure him. Take it day by day and just enjoy what you have. It sounds like you don't care whose there just as long as someone is. Do you think yopur the right onw for him. Step back and see the big picture. Hope that helps
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