my best friend doesnt really have any parental guidence, like her mom is never home and doesnt really care what she does when shes gone. My friend is not a "slut" or anything shes never done anything really but she always has her boyfriend over and there're home by themselves. Is this a normal thing or should i say something? Rumors are starting about what they do and they are not true at all. Is this even any of my business>?
Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? isis answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:30 pm: She is lucky to have such a caring friend looking out for her.
You don't say how old she is but if she is under 16, her mother should definitely be taking more care of her.
You should advise her of what is being said, but you will need to let her and her boyfriend decide what to do about it.
You are quite right, you are not her mother and should not take on the responsibility of looking after her, you probably have enough to deal with in your own life. However, it sounds as though she really does need a good friend. Stand by her and tell the truth about the rumours if they are said to you, but let her choose what to do about her actions. It is not always what you are doing, but what you look as though you are doing that people take notice of.
Hope that helps and I wish you both the best of luck. [ isis's advice column | Ask isis A Question ]
Exquisitechick answered Sunday July 30 2006, 11:39 am: Well she is your bestfriend. I think you should say something to her. I mean its not really youre business BUT she is your bestfriend and youre worried about her.
So, i would just ask her questions and tell her how you feel.
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