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He won't stop.
Okay, there is this new guy at school. He just moved here. He isn't cute at all, and is weird. I talked to him once because he was just sitrting there, and I felt bad. Now, he always stares at me. How do I get him to stop?
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pick your nose and flick it at him.
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You need to explain to him, in a kind but matter-of-fact way "I have seen you staring at me, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Could you please stop. THanks"
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The reason he's staring at you is probably because since you were the only person who talked to him, he likes you now.
I've had this happened to me before, too.
But what I did is I was just like,"Look, I've noticed you staring at me a couple of times. Could you stop please?" And hopefully, he'll stop.
Or what I've also done is ignore it and just whenever he talks to me, don't talk back too much and sooner or later he got the hint, and he backed off.
I hope I helped.
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That kinda is happening to me.. just ignore him and when he talks to you don't talk back sooner or later he should realize you don't like him & want him to stop. ♥
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You should tell him that to not stare at you because it makes you uncomfortable and that you are just friends.
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telling him to stop. like ask him nicely or otherwise u can get into trouble and he will think your messign him. be seriou and tell him you would appercaite it if he stopped staring at you.
♥ steph
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Just straight up say "Quit staring at me." Not too difficult.
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the problem is he thinks that you like him because you talked to him. just sit down with and say in a nice way that you don`t like him and you were only being polite to him. i had this happen to me before and i did the same thing. i am sure he will understand.
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Maybe you could try to introduce him to some other people? He probably stares at you because you're one of the few people considerate enough to talk to him, and he doesn't know anyone else. Or casually suggest he join a club or something, and try to make it implicitly clear that you hope he can fit in at school, though not necessarily with you / your friends.
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NEW RESPONSE
read this this an adjustment and response to your commet.i dont know you so im just look ing at both sides im not assuming any thing. i have know idea what type of person you are. maybe he just likes to draw or is trying to impress you if you dont want his attention just pay him no mind and dont look at him then you wont know hes staring hell get the point if you brush him off enough. calling a person weird to other people is putting him down. but maybe you dont maybe thats a concern you keep to yourself i dont know.
old response
first of all, what makes him weird. are you sure hes not just nervous and wanting a friend? if you really do think theres something wrong or hes said something thats just not right.just stay away from him. you dont have to answer to him. just because you talked to him once doesnt mean youve commited yourself to him. just dont encourage him by looking at him or talking to him anymore.but dont put him down to other people or spread rumors because that could make matters worse. just leave him alone and he will get the message.
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