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my comment was deleted on his myspace..


Question Posted Sunday July 30 2006, 12:10 am

i have been friends with "sarah" since i was a little kid (we're both 15 now). recently sarah wanted to make a myspace. i practically made the whole thing for her since i am better with computers. i posted her first comment saying "heyy sarah whats up?". i looked at her myspace a couple days later it was gone. i assume she deleted it because sarah is really popular in school, and well im not. i think that she did not want to be associated with me because im a geek. i was really upset by this and havent talked to her in a while, and i dont if i want to. should i forgive her for being 2-faced? and if i should, should i tell her i know what she did?

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iMxeLmOsxLoVeR answered Tuesday August 1 2006, 11:16 pm:
i would confront her telling her how that made you feel and if she doesnt want to be seen with you then tell her its best that were not friends
good friends wouldnt do that to one of there friends..
and if she says sorry just forgive her
but if she does it again then you obviously cant trust her and she isnt a good friend.

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lizzielovesyou answered Monday July 31 2006, 9:04 pm:
well to me shes not a true friend i would ;leave her another comment saying "i didnt like you deleting my last comment seeing how i did prcticly your whole profile,i think i deserve a little bit more respect" a true friende wouldnt ignore you.
let me knw how it works out
lots ofr love,lizzie

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savannagreenway answered Sunday July 30 2006, 8:34 pm:
u should tell her how it makes you feel and then say we can be friends when we r alone that way it won't ruin our reputation although i think she shouldn't care about wat ppl think bout her if she can't be your friend out were eryone can see b/c if she can't be friends with you because it will ruin your reputation she is not a good friend b/c it look like she cares more about her rep than she does you

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Friday_im_in_love answered Sunday July 30 2006, 12:41 pm:
She could have easily just made a mistake, I'd do what everyone has already said (Posting another one) and see what happens. But if she did do it because she thinks shes "popular" whynot give her a little bit of "nerd" revenge & screw around with her myspace? (nah that's not a good thing to do .. but if I was in that situation I would deffinatly do that lol) If she does say that, you should deffinatly talk to her about it & how if shes going to be two faced .. your not going to help her with anything on myspace & that she should get a life and stop being so full of it. - Meg

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NoLies_JustLove answered Sunday July 30 2006, 12:31 pm:
Don't jump to conclusions. Since you are better with computers and made her myspace, she could have deleted your comment by accident. Try posting her another comment, and if she deletes that one, then talk to her. Just ask her why she's deleting all your comments and tell her she shouldn't do that, especially since you are friends and you did her the favor of making her a myspace. If Sarah thinks she's too popular to talk to one of her real friends, then she doesn't deserve to be friends with you and you should move on. Good luck =)

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uisforukelele answered Sunday July 30 2006, 10:17 am:
because it's her first myspace, maybe she didn't know that it's rude to delete comments. think about it: when you check your email, after you've read a new one, you delete it. well, maybe she thought it was the same kind of deal. so go easy on her and ask her what happened to the comment. if she deleted it because she was embarrassed to have it on her site, then she probably isn't worth your friendship. but if she feels bad about it, then try to be friends with her again. it seems like you're drawing conclusions a little too early, and i think you should talk to her about it before you call the friendship off.

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chakra answered Sunday July 30 2006, 9:38 am:
It might just have been a mistake so ask her casually what happend to the comment.
If she did delete you because you not in the popular gang then don't forgive her. You did her a favour and most importantly she's meant to be your friend. if she's too shallow and embarrassed to let people know you are friends and hang around with you in school then she's no true friend.
Dont let her treat you this way, you deserve way better!

Chakra xxx

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