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I stole my best friend's boyfriend :(
My best friend really liked this guy, he wasnt technically her boyfriend but they have been on and off for about 2 months now because he liked another girl. My friend finally had the last straw and asked him to pick between her and the other girl, and he didnt know what to do. She left for vacation for a week and we started talking...a lot. We both realized we were perfect for each other and another week went by, and we finally decided to tell her. She hung up the phone on my and told him she never wanted to see either of us again. What do i do?!? I dont want to lose my friend but I never get what i want and we both really feel strongly about each other and we want to be together.
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If she was a true friend, she would understand your situation. Tell her you are sorry over and over again. If she wont listen to you, leave messages or mail her or something, just let her know how sry you are. Let her cool off for a while though. It may help.
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well before u did all that u should of asked her first!!!1 but since you have already fallen in love here is what you need to do(is you need to tlk to your friend and tell her how much he means to you,and try to help her understand say your sorry and if that doesn't work say if your going to stop being my friend b/c of a stupid boy than your not a real friend
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you should always pick your friends over guys, no matter what, well to me you should. ya know, he could do the same thing to you. he could have told your friend that he had strong feelings for her and then he found another girl. he could do the SAME thing to you. i say try to get your friend back before you do lose her forever, and forget the guy. but just go with whatever your gut tells you to do.
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I know this is very hard for you but you have to choose the guy or your best friend because you can't always have both.Let me tell you why if you apologize to her then you're going to have to lose the guy in order for her to give you another chance but it's a 50% chance because some people never forgive betrayal so it's a big risk or take the guy and lose your bestfriend but perhaps you already did.Think this out carefully and calmly to figure out what your decision will be.
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