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For a long time I had this huge crush on this guy, about 3years. And I'm almost %100 sure that he liked me back. But here's the problem, I haven't seen him for two straight years! Now he's in my gym class, looking better than ever if I might add. But... I suck in gym.. I cant run a mile, or even around the track once, and I'm afraid I might get nervous and trip or do something stupid and he'll see. So really I have two questions..
How can I get more energy asap, you know not loose breathe quickly?
And what do I do about him? I just know something will happen.. Should I keep going after him? I mean he IS girlfriendless. HELP!!!! (link)
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I dont know what you should do about the energy stuff, but i think you should go for him.
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My best friend really liked this guy, he wasnt technically her boyfriend but they have been on and off for about 2 months now because he liked another girl. My friend finally had the last straw and asked him to pick between her and the other girl, and he didnt know what to do. She left for vacation for a week and we started talking...a lot. We both realized we were perfect for each other and another week went by, and we finally decided to tell her. She hung up the phone on my and told him she never wanted to see either of us again. What do i do?!? I dont want to lose my friend but I never get what i want and we both really feel strongly about each other and we want to be together. (link)
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If she was a true friend, she would understand your situation. Tell her you are sorry over and over again. If she wont listen to you, leave messages or mail her or something, just let her know how sry you are. Let her cool off for a while though. It may help.
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im 13/f and i finally found a guy i would like a long term relationship with but my friends are just laughing at me and makeing fun of me like guys are not an very important factor in my life but i dont know how to show them im serious. Please help.
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If your friends just laugh at you, they arent really good friends, but if you really want them to know you are serious, then just talk about him all the time and about your future and that you can see him there with you and stuff like that.
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I wouldnt say that I'm frightened of death, but I am very frightened by the process of dying, particularly thru illness. As with most people, I have unfortunately known people in my life to have developed cancer or something similar, and died from it.The thought that this can happen terrifies me, and I cant understand why no one else seems to feel the same way. Can anyone tell me; generally, do you know if you have a cancer early enough for it to be treated? Is it common for a cancer to develop inside you and for you to have no idea until it's too late? Thank you, I rate fives. (link)
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My mom got breast cancer. She found it early is ok now. Usually people notice it early enough. Also, when you have your physical, doctors check for that kind of stuff. And even if you do get cancer and may soon die, live life till the end and enjoy every minute of it.
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My boyfriend is moving to a new school, and ever since then, he has changed a lot...
Before, he cared about me more than anyone I have ever known... but now, he expects me to pay attention to him, understand him, call him every night, and to support him... and everytime I do what he wants me to do, he'll say that I'm too sensitive, and then he'll ignore me. I mean, he doesn't even appreciate my feelings... and he doesn't try to understand me! Why do I have to understand about everything and he doesn't?!
I really really want to break up with him, but I can't... I still love him, and I know... that no one cares about him except for me.. I'm the only person who ever cares about him and understands him, because he's a very lonely person... if I am not there for him, then no one will... and that kills him...
But now, I don't even know what to do... I'm mad at him to the greatest extend and I feel sorry for him at the same time... Because in his life, his parents are always away and I am the very first person who ever makes him happy...
Please, tell me what to do... or at least, tell me what he might be thinking by now.. because I can't stand it!! He loves me but he pays me no mind... help me!! (link)
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First off, he is moving to a new school and is probably really nervous and stressed. Wait and things should get better. And maybe talk to him about it. Tell him you love him, but there are some times when u want to break up with him from the way he acts and stuff. Every time you critize him, make sure to say something nice otherwise he just feels hated.
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i feel like my mom is my little sister. she acts like a little girl that likes to look through all my stuff just like a little girl would do. and it really is like she's a little sister because i get blamed for all of the things she does. everybody tells me not to let her do this and not to let her do that. so, i'm confused. because, on one had she is my mother, so i do have to listen to her but on the other hand, she's acting like a little girl so i'm constantly arguing with her. i can't handle the way she's being
what can i do? (link)
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If you really have nothing to hide from your mother then just let her go through your stuff for a while and maybe talk it out. Talking it out really is the best thing to do so she knows how you feel and maybe she will listen. It may take a while to work, but in the end she will like the fact that you could come to her and she will maybe stop arguing with you. And also, let her win arguments sometime or dont argue about the little things. She may be really stressed so just let her get away with some things sometimes.
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i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse. (link)
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Two of my cousins were like that once. They were both 17. They were debating doing stuff together, but they both met someone else. There would be many medical things wrong with an innocent child if you got pregnant and it is illegal. I really doubt anything good will come of it. If you feel you really cant find someone else or that you absolutly must do that, then do it, but maybe think about the consiquences first.
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Ok so if my brother is always being stupid like always in my stuff he wont leave me alone he's younger than me and how or what do i do too get him to stop please help me he's driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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There are multiple things you can do. The best thing to do would be to get a lock. If not, then maybe talk to your brother, i know that hardly works when they are so young and stupid, but its worth a shot. Then, maybe you should make sure you give him attention and play with him throughout the day or he will feel like you dont like him and he will crave attention. If you do all that and it doesnt work, then ignore him and maybe he will leave you alone and if not, then just make a deal with him as i do with my brother. Say stuff like, if u leave me alone for 10 minutes ill do this or this. I hope i helped!
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i have a bf. im crazy about him. i think about him constantly. we had sex for the first time. and everything was really weird, so we did it again and it wasnt so weird. we have finally told people about us dating. pretty much everyone knows. im still really weird about some people knowing. his parents know that were dating, but mine dont. they think that after my last relationship. that i should wait till im 16. which is in july. how can i tell my parents. adn another question i have is, how do i keep things going as good as they are now. me and my ex dated for a long time. and everything was good. then after 8 months everything crashed i dont want this to happen again. so help. pleez. ill rate high. (link)
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I think the best way to tell your parents about him is to just say that you finally found a guy you like and you want to start dating again. About keeping your relationship going, I wouldn't flare things too much. Maybe keep it kinda simple and as things progress, heat it up more and then go from there. I hope I helped.
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I'm doing a project for science on cellular respiration and i can't think of a good idea (it needs to be creative, i can't just outline the steps) does anyone have a good idea? thanks!!! (link)
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Maybe you could draw out a huge picture and label it. If you have to present it, maybe make it into a game. Like say, "What is this?" and point to a part of it and if they get it right, hand out some small candy or something. Grab their attention and make them wanna listen. I'm not sure what else if it's not a presentation. Cellular respiration is pretty much outlining the steps. I'm sorry if I didn't really help. Good Luck on it! :-D
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hey everyone .. i recently saw a picture in a magazine of ashlee simpson and she had her cartiledge pierced two times i already have mine pierced 1 time but i was just wondering if ashlees blonde hair compliments it because i have dark dark brown hair almost black and i wanted to know if you think it would look good with my hair color and your opion about the piercing thanksin advance = ] i rate 5s (link)
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I think hoops would be really good with your hair color. I think you would most likely look fine with your ears double pierced.
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I have been divorced now for almost a year and still I find it hard to approach or pursue women I find interesting. How do I let a woman know she needs to be aggressive without sounding like a jerk? How do I get into a game I haven't even considered for ten years? (link)
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Give it time to sink back in. You'll get there. Even if you find it hard to approach a women, do it. Trying over and over will eventually get it to sink in. How to let a women know to be agressive, I'm not sure. Maybe try to give her some signals like that. I'm not sure. I know you can get back in the game!
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Alright, I'm 21, and I'm married to a 22 year old Air Force man. We've been married for about a year and a half now. Anyways, we both work. We only have one car, so my hubby often times has to take me to work, and take me home from work. We live off base, and work on base. Sometimes there won't be a whole lot to eat at home, or I'm really wanting to eat out, and I'll suggest it. Then he'll say,"We don't have enough money, just make something at home." And he'll go to work(the same day), and eat out on his lunch break when he could bring something from home, or come home to eat instead of eat out.
It just pisses me off, because I'm always stuck at home eating left-overs, or scraping something together because we need to go shopping, and he gets to go out to eat. I talked to him before about this, but he CONTINUES to do it. I don't know what to do. I'm sitting here hungry, because there's not much to eat(and nothing good). And I packed him something to eat for when he went to work, but he didn't take it, and ate at Burger King instead(after yesterday he told me we couldn't eat at Burger King because we didn't have enough money). I am at my wits end. He doesn't seem at all sympathetic or sorry when I explain to him my feelings.
And there are times even, when we're in the BX that I want to go eat at the food court, and the only place that's fast enough is Anthony's Pizza, but he doesn't want to eat there because he ate there the night before, so he takes me home so I can make something instead, while he goes back to work. I honestly don't know what to do anymore! (link)
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I know this sucks to hear, but sometimes men change after thet get married. If he has, there is no way to change him back no matter how much love and help u give him. As much as I wanna help, there is only so much I can say. I wish you luck with him and try to reason with him. Maybe make him see eye to eye with you.
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for losing weight:
is it better to run/jog consistently for a long period of time,
or to take short breaks in between?
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If you run, like sprints, it would be best to take breaks, if u jog, the longer the better.
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Well, my friend and I were supposed to hang-out this weekend. I have called her numorus times, maybe 3 or 4. Most of the time somebody didn't answer, the line was busy, and then one time, her brother answered and told me she wasn't home. But, sometimes her brother will say she isn't home, even when she is. Well the thing is, I really want to get intouch with her. So should I just keep calling; it has been about an hour since I called. Should I just not call and wait til' she calls me. Or does anybody else have anymore suggestions?
Thank you so much if you can help! (link)
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Maybe if she has a screen name on aim or an e-mail. I would call again since it's been an hour. Maybe call her cell if she has one. There aren't too many options.
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I'm a sophomore in high school...and I'm really..scared. I don't know what to do with my life!..I don't even know the college process..how do I apply? How do I apply for financial assistance? What's a major/minor? I don't know which classes to pick when I get to college..I don't know what I want to be when I grow up..Can someone help me figure all of this college stuff out? Thanks so much. (link)
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If you have councelors in your school, they would be a very helpful place to turn.
They help people with things like this everyday. Also, find out what you are good at. Go through to find different jobs that might interest you and see what kinds of courses you would need to take. Find a good college that you think you are smart enough to get into and find out about that school. What kind of grades you need, what score on SAT you need and such things. Good luck, you will be fine.
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does eating fruit make u fat? since its just like, putting more food into your body? (link)
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Eating fruit isn't really bad. If u replace it with junk food and bad candy and stuff, it will be good for you. But it does have a sugars in it and so if you eat too much, it might make u a little fat.
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ok,so,here is the deal,im going to the movies with my friends,there bfs,and this kid i like.my friends know him but i've never seen him in person,only talked on aim.im afraid he wont like (pretty wise)but i've seen a picture of him,and hes realllyyy cute.Im not confident around guys really,but i already know how to solve that. What i need to know is what should i wear for make up? (i have beige-yellow skin,brown eyes,black,long eyelashes and black eyebrowns,brown hair,pink-rosy lips.I look really itlian)I need something that makes me look soo awesome!! I have an ok complextion,some pimples.Would it be smart to go to the spa the day befor for a facial (to get rid of black heads) Thanks a bunch!!
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i would jsut wear skin tones. They are really natural and really you. I think maybe also some nice lipgloss to bring out your great rosy lips. If you use skin tone colors, then it will bring out your brown eyes and brown hair.
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Do you believe that "God" has already planned out our destiny, or do you believe we make our own destiny?
And do you believe everything happens for a reason, or do you feel that's just some clever line a thinker thought up to try to reduce the amount of stress and anger in our lives? (link)
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I believe that God has made our destiny and everything picked out, but I think we live out our life. If our destiny changes, God's destiny changes. I think we get to control most of our destiny, but God also guides us when we need help.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now. His father was diagnosed with cancer back in May and when the finally did catch it, it was too advanced.
Today they officially gave him 6 months to live.
My boyfriend was all out crying when he told me. I've known him since we were 12 (we're both 18 now) and I've never seen him cry.
His brother committed suicide in October and even then I saw no tears.
I don't know what to do here. I don't know what to say and I don't know how to act. You'd think that after I've known him and his family so long that I would. But I don't. Not even after his brother. (link)
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You can only do so much, you cant make anything all right again and you cant make everything go away, but you can help him get through bad times. Always be there for him and when he needs to shed some tears, let him and make sure he knows u want to help. And show sympethy. If he feels you don't care, it wont be good. Dont do anything that can easily hurt him at these sensitive times. Just love him and be there.
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