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my mom is acting like a little girl whose a spoiled brat
i feel like my mom is my little sister. she acts like a little girl that likes to look through all my stuff just like a little girl would do. and it really is like she's a little sister because i get blamed for all of the things she does. everybody tells me not to let her do this and not to let her do that. so, i'm confused. because, on one had she is my mother, so i do have to listen to her but on the other hand, she's acting like a little girl so i'm constantly arguing with her. i can't handle the way she's being
what can i do?
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First off her going through your stuff sucks and while she shouldn't there is not alot you can do about it except make sure that anything that you don't want her to see is either hidden really well or on your person. As for others blaming you for her behaviour and telling you not to allow her to do things, remind them in a very clear way that YOU ARE THE CHILD NOT THE PARENT.
If she can't handle being a grown up then the people who are telling you to be one need to confront her.
Hope this helps.
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If you really have nothing to hide from your mother then just let her go through your stuff for a while and maybe talk it out. Talking it out really is the best thing to do so she knows how you feel and maybe she will listen. It may take a while to work, but in the end she will like the fact that you could come to her and she will maybe stop arguing with you. And also, let her win arguments sometime or dont argue about the little things. She may be really stressed so just let her get away with some things sometimes.
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You have to sit with your mom,ask her why does she go through your stuff,that she should trust you,have respect even though she's your mom that she needs to respect your privacy,that you are tired of arguing with her,that the only way to keep things in peace is if she has a little consideration for you,that you love her but would appreciate if she just,be's a caring,lovable,respectful mom,and that you want things to be better with her.
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