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I've gone through many things like most teens, so feel free to ask me about anything! ill be happy to answer your needs. A few things about myself

-i hate hypocrites although i can be one sometimes
-i just moved to a new location, so i can totally relate to anyone who goes through the same thing
- french vanilla ice cream rules

-my friends are my life

-BOYZ

-i cant live without my ipod

- or my razr

- i think happy bunny is awesome

- soccer is life

-im gonna be a freshmen

-i can be sarcastic, so dont ask stupid questions

;]
Gender: Female
Location: california !
Occupation: freshhhieee
Age: 14
Member Since: July 30, 2006
Answers: 15
Last Update: September 21, 2006
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I have long, straight, red hair, blue-ish green eyes, and ivory colored skin. What would be the best shades of Eyeshadow and Lipstick to go with my features?

Thanks!
^_^ (link)
you sound like a beautidful girl !
i suggest light green to match your eyes. maybe a shade of pikn lipstick, but lipgloss sounds better on you..like a shimmery one!

hope i helped


i am going to be a freshman in high school this year and i am starting to panic, will someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
sweetie sweetie...
no need to panic! im actually moving to snob central and started panicing, but then i took a coupl breaths and thought that high school was going to be an adventure. think of it that way too. youll feel better. im gonna be a freshmen too,so i know what your going through. just hang in there and dont worry about anything! much love

xoxo


My life pretty much sucks all thanks to this one girl Linda. This is why ; In 3rd grade she took my #1 best friend away from me. Soon, I got over it. Now all thanks to her I met this guy Paul. I can hardly even stand him. Because May 30, we went out, and then he broke up with me 5 days later. I was crushed. July 21, he fell back inlove with me. [Again], 5 days later he broke up with me

Here is the worst part. Today was Linda's party. I tried and tried to loose weight, but my stupid body is to fat. Anyways I went to her party. Amy was there. Amy is really pretty. I really dislike Amy. She was like "ooh, i hate fat people, thats discusting" infront of my face. Paul was there. Paul did not speak to me at all, but he kept starring at me. He is really cute.

Linda's away message [on aim] said she`s going to the movies with Amy and Paul. They were making fun of Paul before.

Sometimes I feel like there is noone to talk to but god. I don`t know why that whatever I say everybody thinks it`s pointless. It has a meaning to me.

Anyways my mom doesnt seem to care about me, at all. But im fine i guess. My father passed away about 5 months ago.

I woke up today at 1. By 2, my day was ruined. Well, I imed Paul, and he blocked me. I was talking to Tyler & Tyler was like now he knows your fat.

Well guess what the 1st day of school, [Aug. 15] I am going to wow everyone. They are going to wish they never made fun of me. Nobody knows how bad I feel. It seems like nobody on this planet loves me. Also, I feel like I cannot trust anyone. Anyways, I fouund out Paul & Amy made out in the movies for 30 minuetes. Oh, how I wish i was Amy. Kyle said Linda was hot. I have to agree with him. Everyone is hot, but me. I am deffently going on a diet. =]



Right now, I don`t know how I feel. All I know is like I hate Amy. Yesterday and today were the worst days of my life. Right know it seem as if my mom hates me. Whats new? I really need to improve my life. One day im going to snap.


Right now im pretty cheered up. Guess what! Paul hates Amy! After she made out with Paul she made out with other guys. Paul apologized to me.


THIS WAS IN MY JORNAL EVERYTHING UP THERE.

Now this is just me typing. Everything seems to be so confusing. I feel unloved by everyone. Please do not recommend conseling. [sp?]

Sorry it was so long. ! (link)
oh sweetie...im so sorry.

i felt like you too. but for different reasons. i had a friend who backstabbed me and everybody hated me. i would cry and cry, and felt like dying. but i got through it. im moving to a new city and am starting over like you are starting over for a new school year. there is always somebody in this world who loves you. perhaps your mother is too depressed to express emotion. give it time. she loves you. and amy and linda or whatever, who needs them? paul is a jerk, and hes worth nothing. its all about personality. if they think your fat or whatever, screw them. im so happy at least your changing yourself and becoming more confident. your just going through a tough stage in life that everyone goes through eventually. i hope i helped. much love!

xoxo


My sweet sixteen isnt untill feb. but i like planing things ahead of time or at least starting to think about them and i dont know what to do yet. any ideas for a party? i was thinking maybe doing it with one of my friends bc her bday is in feb. too. any ideas of what to do? we dont want too high of a budget. (link)
you could have a theme. like a hollywood theme with a red carpet at the door or something. or if any of your friends make virggin frinks, that would be cool too. you could have a VIP list for your closest friends and give them a cute necklace or any sort of trendy non-expensive gift. if any of your friends have a band, ask them to perform. otherwise, just burn a disc with your favorite songs or have a dj be one of your friends or family members. hope i helped!

xoxo


ok, well i have 2 brothers 1 of them is a twin with me and we share a room. The second one is always an asshole and never leaves me alone, my twin and I are about to lose our heads!!! We try letting him in are room and work things out but he is so anoying! we are all about the same age 13-14 the ass hole is 14 but we dont get along! You know how when you say that you hate your mom or dad or sibling, well i really hate my brother! Ive hated him my whole life! What can i do to resolve this issue? (link)
wow i go through the same exact thing.my brothr annoys me to the point where i attack him. you need to talk to your parents about this. but dont go screaming to them, do it the mature way. explain to them that he is bugging both you and your twin, and they need to do something about it. if that doesnt work, just try ignoring him, or locking him out of your room. ignorance helps them stop annoying you. hope i helped!!!

xoxo


hey my names tory! my sn is pinkchica118
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cool ill send you a messege sometime!!!

xoxo


I am going to be a freshman as of aug. 24 and i really want to make a good impression on everybody.What would be a good outfit to wear on orientation and the first day? i wear mostly peppy clothes i guess rather pricey brands: like a&f ae juicy and hollister but i am going to a school that is very mixed so i dont want to look like a snaob or a slut.
Also what type of back back is best for HS right now i bought a northface backpack that is all black. would a messanger bag be good what is trendy? (link)
omg im having the same problem!

im going to be a freshmen and am still thinking about what to wear to orientation and such. as a matter of fact, i wear the same clothes you do. for orientation, dont go all out. wear cute shorts, trendy tank top with a cute necklace. its casual and isnt too much. for the first day wear something classy. like jeans with a non revealing top. this is the day you show yourself, so wear one of your best tops. who cares what others think? you wear preppy clothes, and it doesnt make you a snob or a slut! i know im gonna wear preppy clothes on the first day of school. messenger bags are cute, but i like the northface backpack. its perfect for HS. send me your sn so we can talk. my school begins on the same day too! hope i helped


xoxo


well i was raped when i was younger and i just wanted to talk to someone who has been raped before as well... is there anyone out there that wants to talk? it would help both of us... (link)
oh sweetie im so sorry.

i have never gone through it before, but you need to see a therapist to cope. you will feel much better. i agree with the person below me. did you tell your parents? because if you didnt, you must NOW. you will feel better after


much love and best of wishes

xoxo


well i like this guy, but he has a gf that is a good friend of mine. people say he's trying to make me jealous. like he always flirts with me and he wants to go to the pool with me a lot. should i tell him i like him? because i know he won't care, but i don't want him and his gf to break up. what should i do? (link)
you must be in a tough situation hun.

the truth is hard, but shes your good friend and she comes first. i know you dont want to hear it. but if you make them break up, you'll los friends. they wont trust you, and they are so much more worth it than some guy. just play it safe and cool dont give any extra attention to him. dont show hes making you jelous. you will be stronger that way.

hope i helped!!
xoxo


what color should ur gums be? & if i have bad gums, what can i do to make it better? (link)
they should be a light pink. i have problems with my gums because their a draker shade of pink and puffy. my orthodontist told me the solution to puffy gums is to squeeze them. bleeding is good to get the extra blood stored in ure gums out. if their dark pink or red, brush them a lot with a soft brush in a rotating motion. also, if it bleeds while you brush, you may have sensitive gums. that gives another reason to use a soft brush. ask these questions to your dentist or orthodontist for better information. hope i helped love. =]

xoxo


13 Female.
School starts in 10 day's, and I want to come back with a splash. I'm getting braces tomorrow (finally) my hair's grown and taken an adorable shape, and my boob's have gone from being a 34B to a 36C. I've done alot of shopping and my face has cleared up.

Now I want that personality to go with it. You know, friendly, outgoing, confident, cute, and flirty. I'm sick of being too loud, or too obnoxious. How do I tone myself done, to be the calmer, cooler, collected girl I am? Thanks! (link)
hun.

everyone has their imperfections. if your thinking of changing yourself for someone else, who are you really inside? maybe certain things could be controlled, but not everything. be the person everyone loved before, but it you want to tone down being obnoxious or loud, think before speaking. take a deep breath, then talk calmly. but dont change everything! if you do, your nobody.


im 13/f and i finally found a guy i would like a long term relationship with but my friends are just laughing at me and makeing fun of me like guys are not an very important factor in my life but i dont know how to show them im serious. Please help.

sleepiesheep (link)
if their good friends they wont laugh at you
just because there not so important doesnt mean their not important at all! you should tell them that.

if that doesnt work, their not worth it sweetie

xoxo


please please help me. my hair has been horrible my whole life and i absolutely hate it. it is extremely thick frizzy wavy and coarse. i try straightning it and it gets straight but then it just gets frizzy. i think its damaged. i dont know. ive tried all kinds of frizz control and shampoo and conditioner that makes your hair smoother but it doesnt work.do you know of anything that will help my hair? i dont want to go to a hairdresser or anything but is there just really good hair products that you could get at like walmart or something? please help me. i really need your help. (link)
oh sweetie

i go through the same thing!
it seems like theirs nothing to do about it.
before you straighten your hair, put a bunch of hair product that makes your hairr a bit more manageable and comb through it. then straighten it so its not as damaged. bed head might work well, but i got my straightener and hair product from my hairdresser. although its a hastle and expensive, the hair products you get from your hair dresser are best to use

best of luck!

xoxo


1)okay so this girl first asks for my email add then my phone number,then one day i waved at her in school and she was absolutely shy and looked down the whole time.Now we are talking on msn.so does she like me?or is she just naturally shy and wants to be just friends?

2)But what i don't get about girls is that you know how some girls are outgoing and super friendly?So she may talk to you a lot and like you or maybe just talk to you cause she is just being friendly to you as she is to the other guys.So is their a way to know?I mean,if a girl talks to a guy a lot,does that mean that she's interested in him?cause it doesn't really make any sense for a girl to talk a lot to a guy since girls mostly mix with girls and vice versa, plus girls mostly talk about girls stuff which guys know nothing of,unless he's gay. (link)
1) I'm exactly like the girl your talking about. She does like you, but is very shy about it.

2)if she shows any signs of flirting like touching your arm or anything like that, it could be a sign of being more than friendly. If they talk about girl stuff she may be nervous on choosing a topic to talk about. So make the first move!

xoxo


what are other ways i can get rid of body hair other than shaving and waxing that won't cost much?

thanks in advice. (link)
you could also use hair removal cream. i used Spa Gel Hair removal for body by Sally Hansen and it works great. Hope i helped!

xoxo




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