well i like this guy, but he has a gf that is a good friend of mine. people say he's trying to make me jealous. like he always flirts with me and he wants to go to the pool with me a lot. should i tell him i like him? because i know he won't care, but i don't want him and his gf to break up. what should i do?
the truth is hard, but shes your good friend and she comes first. i know you dont want to hear it. but if you make them break up, you'll los friends. they wont trust you, and they are so much more worth it than some guy. just play it safe and cool dont give any extra attention to him. dont show hes making you jelous. you will be stronger that way.
countrygirl6571 answered Tuesday July 25 2006, 11:15 pm: Well, you said his gf is a good friend of yours. Tell her that you think he likes you and flirts with you alot and always asks you to go to the pool. Not in a ha-ha-in-your-face-way, but just nicely and tell her to confront him about it. If the guy says that he loves her, wants to be with her, etc. then he is just a liar! Then YOU have to confront him about it say something like "Why do you always invite ME and not your gf to the pool and stuff?" that should bring up the subject and solve your problems!
Hope this helps and if it does tell me gurrl!
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Th3skyisfalling answered Tuesday July 25 2006, 11:09 pm: okay, if you're truly a friend to that girl, you wont consider getting involved to the point where the relationship breaks.
if he's trying to make you jealous, you're not into the right kind of guy. it is possible/questionable that he could be the guy that is recognizing who he could get farther with.
you shouldnt tell him, it could ruin the friendship with the girl, and if the guy truly liked you-he would of told you and would of asked you out instead.
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stay friends, dont get me wrong. i think the best thing would be to try and find someone new.
many people think there are no other people out there in the world, but only because they dont try looking ;)
confused18 answered Tuesday July 25 2006, 11:08 pm: i wouldnt do anything to break them up cause if you do someone can find out its you and than the kid you like can just get mad at you and thats not good so id just wait it out and keep hanging out with him so that if he is just doing it to get you jealous than whent hey break up he'll come to you instead of you to losing touch becuase you guys didnt stay friends. [ confused18's advice column | Ask confused18 A Question ]
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