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i think i'm bout to loose him
i let my bf down by not going to see him i didn't mean to but it took me awhile to get to the first place i was going...well now he's actin funny when i talk to him and he hasn't called me i have to call him. I'm really sorry but i keep doing dumb s**t and sayin sorry and i think the word is a little overused. Please help me i really don't know how to handle this i think it's going too far. (just to say i'm 14/f and have know him since 4th grade,i'm going to 9th)
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i think if i where in your shoes i would robably pick a date and get all dressed up go to a little movie or something ,and when he asks "whats all this for "say "for all the dates i missed i am really sorry and i wanted to let you know how much i love you ".If that dosnt make him smile then he has to have somethin wrong with him .lety me know what happens
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yes, the word sorry is overused. a relationship is a 50 50 not 50 to nothing. he is not doing his part on the relationship, and making you feel like the bad guy. it's just not right. talk to him tell him you have noticed him acting diffrent, and that he should call you sometimes, because you have noticed that you are doing all the calling. or just say i have noticed you are acting diffrent and i would like to know why. and don't call him at all, let him call you. he has your number, he has fingers to dial the number. let him call you. if he don't change his attitude, or change his ways of not ever calling i would say go find a guy that will give his time to you. you can do so much better than this guy. but don't do anything unless you make sure you don't call him wait 2 weeks or a month see if there are any changes. good luck and hope this helps.
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For guys at time it gets frustrating when He always go to her and it seems like there is no attempt to try and see him. In reality though if your relationship is serious he should be able to get over it. Give him time and space but dont think you have to ill ur self makeing apologizing for something you couldnt control.
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Well i think you may want to end this relationship because its going to far you guys just are not rite 4 eachother
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i think you should try and make it up to him. show him that you really do like/love him and prove it. if that doesn't work maybe you didn't do anything wrong and he is just ready to move on.
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