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so yea i kno your gf and yea she is hot haha dats pretty obvious. so i kno, well im guessin, you guys prolly did stuff together so i thought id ask you a quesstion.
how long does it usually take for a girl to orgasm? or what is the best position? i need some tips and advice on what to do to better please my gf, cuz dATS what im all bout. if you can help id appreaciate it' thanks
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Sex is very special thing that shouldnt be taken for granted or thought of as only for "Fun." It is something you share with a person you REALLY Love and Care about. I tell this to all when I get ?'s like this. Dont Be offended
It depends on the girl really how long it takes Iand Also what you do. Dont be afraid to ask her what she wants and or feels good. Most girls love when guys go down on them IF you know what your doing, otherwise you just kind of annoy them. The Key is being Patient if your down on her dont get impatient and just shove urself in her. take your time.
If you can get her to cum here you will have her in so much pleasure she not going to want you to stop. Keep it up, u might get her to have multiple orgasms. Wait till she asks you to put it in or attacks you lol.
Positions: if your she has a sensitive ,doggy style's good. if she really only gets off by clitorical pleasure, her riding on top is good. or the old fashion missionary.
Try doing two things at once. rub her clit or nipples while fucking her. YOu need to learn how she works and what feels best for her. Experimentation is the key.
A big part of it is also How "Into it" you are. If you go down on here and you seem and/or are bored it wont be exciteing at all for her.
Your excitment in doing any of these things plays a big part in pleasuring your gurl.
If you got any more ?'s email me a Demere10@msn.com
I could help you more that way. We can get to more specifics and such.
Hope this helps
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I'm a teenage girl. I'm single, and a virgin. (and sick of it) For the past five years of my life I have wanted to commit suicide because I have recently discovered that there is no point in living.
I'm very overweight and I'm ugly. The one boy who has ever loved me was a liar and he had a mental problem. (not being sarcastic) I have no friends and I really want to die. I've been working as a stage actress for a while but I realized I have no talent at all.
My point is: No one loves me and no one ever will. I can't live any longer without being loved. What should I do? How can I survive without love?
Everyone treats me like I'm seven years old. I look a lot older than my age and most people ask me if I'm in college. I hate my life so much. Oh, and I do masturbate regularly so don't say that I should try that. It's not a substitute for a partner or for real love. Also: all of my peers have boyfriends. So I'm the only one who's single and a loner.
By the way, no one ever listens to me when I talk so that's another reason why I want to kill myself.
Please give me advice. (link)
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My Friend,
Suicide is not the answer to your pain. There was a point in my my life where I was dead set on taking my life. I see know that it would be a stupid decision cause I see all that I have know. Do no think you are alone in the pit of depression. Also make sure not confusing sex with Love. There is a Girl I Know Whose Boyfriend said that they loved her but sll they were trying to accomplish was getting in her pants(they never did). I say this cause lets say when a guy dos come your way you have to make sure he is interested in you. THere is a guy out there for you, you must be patient though. You are still young and there is plenty of time. We all need love. And it is so worth waiting for. I'd like to keep in touch with you if you'd like. I am a person who cares about others. I just want to be a friend. Im on myspace at myspace.com/Musical_Xeno
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Hey you answered a question for me and it really helped. i guess i just needed a little support when it comes to these things. but i went to the football game at my school with him. and we ended up hanging out the whole entire time. I didn't ask him out yet but i'm going to homecomming tm w him. (link)
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Im glad. =)
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i cant get my camera to connent to my comp anymore. it used to work fine and then i didnt use it for about a month cuz i lost my cam but then i found it and tried to plug it in. it said the 1st 2 ports i tried to use [USB cord] were overloaded so i hit reset like i usually do but it still didnt work but it said i had 4 remaining empty ports soo i used one of the ones on the back and when i plug it in it just sits there not doing anything at all, help !? (link)
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You might need tobuy a new chord. Thats what it seems like to me
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Hi im 15 and i really like this guy. he is a grade younger than me. so when i hang out with him i don't get nervous or anything but i guess just self concious about like making a move since i'm older. i know he likes me cause i asked him out as a joke and he said yes. i went to the beach with him today in the ocean, and he kept grabbing me and puttting me on his lap. i'm ok with that but my sister was there so it was weird. he would start to pull his hand away from me around my stomah but as soon i put my hand on his he froze and just kept it there. but then i would relize what i was doing and i would pull away. so i guess i am just scared of getting rejected idk what i should do and how i should not pull away. (link)
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I understand what your going through mentally. Many people are afrraid of being rejected. But rather then being scared you need to take a chance. Just be careful that he is a good guy. And there is nothing wrong with you asking him out. I say go for it. Tell me what happens
Good Luck
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I met a person on Advienaors that gives really great advice and their name on it is Musical Xeno. I'd like to be able to talk to them over email or myspace. Do you by any chance know their email adress or myspace name? (link)
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Hows it going its me Musical_Xeno
Hay you can reach me at myspace.com/musical_xeno
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I'm not allowed 2 date [period] and I was wondering if you could help me convince her 2 let me date @ 13 like reasons ideas 4 dates etc. Like she had some issues with her dating xpieriences so yea but like what is a bf @ 13 yrs old what's the difference between a 13 yr old dating and a 16-18 yr old? Like dates what you do when you date (at 13) and what I should tell her.. I know I'm asking a lot but I really need a LOT of advice so if you would PRETTY please
Best wishes, B (link)
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This might no be what you want to hear but Im going to be honest with you.The purpose of Dateing is to get married one day. Dating at such a young age can cause you to make decisions that you could regret one day. Ive seen a lot of girls get hurt dating young and when they are older they are bitter and it becomes really hard to trust a guy or believe that a guy could love you. I really think a good time to start dating would be at 18. Thats what I did and I found the love of my life and am now engaged to be married.
I hope I helped
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i want to change my image. i want to be more known as hott, im not really ugly, im medium mostly except sometimes i look hott. but how can i act more hott or preppy... i dont want to act dorkish any more. i dont know why some people conclude that because if you know me, im really awesome and nothing what they thought..so how can i get people to think that im who i want to be, i mean who i am? (link)
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You shouldnt be worried about waht people thing about you. Just be you. thats the key to eing happy with yourself. Do think you have to impress anyone. Your real friends are the one that take you as you are.
About your looks: Be confident and just learn to feel good about yourself. We usually view ourself less then what people see.
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14/f/8th grade
I went to the dentist not long ago and they said I might want to get braces because one of my teeth were starting to overlap another, and I have a slight overbite. I don't really know if I should get them or not though. I don't want to be known as Metal Mouth all through highschool. But then again they will just get worse from here and I could have them off before my senior year, right..? But I have a boyfriend and you know we makeout and everything. Well we dont 24/7 we go to the movies and do other fun things. But can I kiss (not with my mouth closed) with braces?
Please help. I need to have some answers soon. I have to got back in a few days and I want to think these anwers over. (link)
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Yes you can kiss. It will be wierd for the both of you though. An addition like braces will make it feel really different. Be careful at first cause you dont want to cut him or anything. Best thing though is to ask you dentist.
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I loved your advice so I'm asking you another question. You seem much older than I am. I'm only 13 bout to be 14. My boyfriend is the bestest. He is home now but he is definately hiding something. He asked me to dinner and the movies so we could talk about something he wont tell me til then. I'm scared. I think he really is lying to me. What do I do? (link)
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Im 18 if u were wondering
If he has something negative to say he wants to have a good time with you before hand. Remeber sometimes there are things that are out of his control. Give him the benifit of the doubt until you know for sure. If you assume things a relationship can go real bad cause the trust will disapate. Try to enjoy yourself and make the best you can of it. Let me know what happens. I real feel for you. I knwo when I was your age people always told me "your so young, you have so much time". its true. I was patient andI found my true love. Im actually engaged. shh...not a lot of people know. lol. IF you 2 are meant to be then it will be so. Dont b bitter if what he tells you is out of his control.
If you end up getting hurt. tell me about it. Ive helped my friends with stuff like this all the time. Pain can do alot to a person.
All you can really do is wait. Act from there.
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this mite be kinda gross but does it seem weird that when it comes to like oral sex/fingerin/hand jobs ya kno all that [not sex tho thats a whole nother level!!], i wouldnt mind havin it done to me but the thought of doin it to my bf or whatever grosses me out !?!? is that normal ?? (link)
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Some of us guys dont care if our gurls ever did that to them or not. But here are some guys that will try to pull a guilt trip saying if he does it for you and u have to for him.
But when it comes down to it, it wont be that enjoyable anyway if it is not something you want to do. I say try it once. and TELL him you are gonna try it. You might be suprised and enjoy doing it.
I say if you dont enjoy doing it and are just doing it to please him just dont. If the guy really loved you he wouldnt care.
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i know this is really weird, but nobody i've ever dated was really into the neck kissing thing, but my current boyfriend is. and i have no clue what to do while he's doing it. sorry if i sound like a completely douchebag. haha. (link)
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I kiss my Girlfriends neck all the time. She closes her eyes and ejoys it. She always start runnin her hands through my hair. It makes me feel real good. try it.
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Ok. I think my boyfriend is lying to me. First he told me he would be back from his dads Friday. It'd Wednesday and he still isn't here. I miss him like crazy. I talked to my best friend who is his ex. She told me that when me and my boyfriend talk on IM he sends her our conversations. I asked him about it and he said he would never do that to me. But a while ago he told me he was gonna move in like 2 years. Now I'm hearing he's gonna move whenever his mom just feels like getting up and going. He said he really doesn't know when he's gonna move. I love him. What do I do? Trust a guy who could be a bad boyfriend or dump the love of my life? (link)
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It doesnt really seems like everything here he is lying about. the IM thing is a maybe but the moving part is out of his control. He might actually know when he is going to move but is scared of losing you if you find out that is really soon.
My girlfriend stuggled with this whole threat of me moving away for college. It didnt happen but when it was still up in arms she was torn cause she loved me and I her.
If he had a choice in staying and you know he would now that he was a good guy. There's one problem: you only find out what he tells you.
You really need to sit down and think about this. Depending on how old you are this Love may not be everything you think. I dont know this though. Follow your heart. When it comes down to it you just need to ask yourself:"Do i trust him?"
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is growing acne on your penis normal? because i have a huge zit on it (link)
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It can happen. Make sure you washing really well. Popping will be the best thing and keep it clean. It will hurt like hell but it will be worth it cause itcan pretty painfull if you dont.
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Sometimes my mom will say hurtful things to me and not even realize it.
"How can you possible have that many texts, you don't have more then 3 friends!"
(Keep in mind, this was after I just lost my boyfriend, best friend, and almost all of my friends so I was very upset from losing them)
"I would buy bigger jeans, you're getting fatter"
Even though I'm a size 1.
I've talked to her about this numerous times, but she just doesn't understand. What should I do? (link)
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I know exactly where you are coming from. Parents many times dont think about what they for the simple fact that they "dont have to" cause they are in charge and they are right. I had almost the same situation going on for me for many years. Though it is no excuse I found out some things about my mother's past that made her bitter and easily angered and stuff. I would really like to know what your mom says when you talk to her. Let me know and I can help you on a bit further if you'd like.
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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend about a week and a half ago then i left for a trip and got back the other day. when i got online i was telling him all about it b/c he imed me first and he said he still wanted to talk to me b/c he wants to stay friends. so i was telling him about everything but i left out the part about this guy i met at camp b/c i didnt want to hurt him. he got mad anyways and was like " all you talk about is yourself" but he never talks about him even if i ask so i was like umm im sorry? then he went into detail about how he got drunk, and went to his best friends exes house and hung out w/ her in her hot tub. then he was like im gonna go its hard to talk to you b/c i still love you so much. then he signed off. i was so pissed! what the heck is wrong w/ him? i got so mad that i sent him an email that was like " why would you tell me about u and that girl and then tell me you love me? " it just pissed me off! so then i was like "fine, ill tell him about the guy at camp!" so i did and w/ great detail just to piss him off b/c i wanted to give him a taste of his own medicine. i know that was wrong but it just really made me mad about what he did? what should i say to him later when he ims me and gets mad? i kno he will, but i just dont know if i should say sorry a million times, or be just as angry at him as hes gonna be at me. thank you so much im sorry this was so long! (link)
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Your right you throwing things back in his face was wrong. Really the best thing to do here is to just not be friends and not to talk. It will simplely cause you headaches. Being "friends" after that simply wont work. Tell him that its better you two dont talk and leave it at that. If he still tries just block his IM and ignore him. Seems kinda harsh but its the most affective coarse of action.
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i let my bf down by not going to see him i didn't mean to but it took me awhile to get to the first place i was going...well now he's actin funny when i talk to him and he hasn't called me i have to call him. I'm really sorry but i keep doing dumb s**t and sayin sorry and i think the word is a little overused. Please help me i really don't know how to handle this i think it's going too far. (just to say i'm 14/f and have know him since 4th grade,i'm going to 9th) (link)
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For guys at time it gets frustrating when He always go to her and it seems like there is no attempt to try and see him. In reality though if your relationship is serious he should be able to get over it. Give him time and space but dont think you have to ill ur self makeing apologizing for something you couldnt control.
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