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My boyfriend has been lying to me
Ok. I think my boyfriend is lying to me. First he told me he would be back from his dads Friday. It'd Wednesday and he still isn't here. I miss him like crazy. I talked to my best friend who is his ex. She told me that when me and my boyfriend talk on IM he sends her our conversations. I asked him about it and he said he would never do that to me. But a while ago he told me he was gonna move in like 2 years. Now I'm hearing he's gonna move whenever his mom just feels like getting up and going. He said he really doesn't know when he's gonna move. I love him. What do I do? Trust a guy who could be a bad boyfriend or dump the love of my life?
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It doesnt really seems like everything here he is lying about. the IM thing is a maybe but the moving part is out of his control. He might actually know when he is going to move but is scared of losing you if you find out that is really soon.
My girlfriend stuggled with this whole threat of me moving away for college. It didnt happen but when it was still up in arms she was torn cause she loved me and I her.
If he had a choice in staying and you know he would now that he was a good guy. There's one problem: you only find out what he tells you.
You really need to sit down and think about this. Depending on how old you are this Love may not be everything you think. I dont know this though. Follow your heart. When it comes down to it you just need to ask yourself:"Do i trust him?"
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Well maybe something happend thats why he isnt home from his dads house. You could try to call him and ask him what is going on and why he isnt home yet like he said he was going to be.
The IM conversations it might be that his ex might still have feelings for him and might be trying to break you up. Or he might just be lying. Next time you talk to his ex girlfriend say did he even send you the part about "make something up that you didnt talk about" and if she says yes you will know that she is lying.
If you figure that out then i think you can decide on wether you want to dump him or not. He might not be the love of your life. It might feel like it now but you may find someone better who you love more. I know that seems impossible to you to hear now. But it is possible.
And if you want to trust him its up to you and i mean i would go with your gut feeling if you think that he is lying and not being truthful you could tell him be like i dont think you are being truthful with me and i dont think i want to be with someone who isnt being truthful. And you could just try and talk to him about the way you feel and tell him that his ex told you that he sends your conversations to her. im sure you will figure it out.
Good Luck!
hope this helped
♥ kayla
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Is he really the love of your life if he's lying to you? Don't believe what he says if he looks into your eyes, because anyone can just look you in the eye and lie. Talk to him about it: Tell him, "*your boyfriend's name here*, If you don't start telling me the truth or start giving me more details about where you're going and where & when you're moving and stuff, the I don't think I can trust you anymore." Give him some time and if he really cares about you, then he'll stop "lying"
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