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my jealous ex
ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend about a week and a half ago then i left for a trip and got back the other day. when i got online i was telling him all about it b/c he imed me first and he said he still wanted to talk to me b/c he wants to stay friends. so i was telling him about everything but i left out the part about this guy i met at camp b/c i didnt want to hurt him. he got mad anyways and was like " all you talk about is yourself" but he never talks about him even if i ask so i was like umm im sorry? then he went into detail about how he got drunk, and went to his best friends exes house and hung out w/ her in her hot tub. then he was like im gonna go its hard to talk to you b/c i still love you so much. then he signed off. i was so pissed! what the heck is wrong w/ him? i got so mad that i sent him an email that was like " why would you tell me about u and that girl and then tell me you love me? " it just pissed me off! so then i was like "fine, ill tell him about the guy at camp!" so i did and w/ great detail just to piss him off b/c i wanted to give him a taste of his own medicine. i know that was wrong but it just really made me mad about what he did? what should i say to him later when he ims me and gets mad? i kno he will, but i just dont know if i should say sorry a million times, or be just as angry at him as hes gonna be at me. thank you so much im sorry this was so long!
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hello,
what you did was wrong, but also what he did was wrong also. he told you about that girl because i strongly believe he does still "love" you, and he is hurt by the break-up and he is rubbing in your face saying "this is what you are missing out on." what you did was just to get back at him, and what you should have did was say you don't talk about yourself so i don't have any choice but to talk about myself, and if you want to talk about you go ahead. you should not have to apoligize. and defintilty don't say your sorry a million times. that's what he wants you to do. he wants you to feel guilty so that you will go crawling back to him. i don't know what happend to stop your relationship with this guy, but apparntly he still cares about you. i say you talk to him and see how he really feels/ thinks and tell him why you did what you did. if you come to the conclusion that you were both wrong and you still want to be friends good, but if you want to try to be together again, i would advise some major communication skills added. because you both don't have a strong enough relationship right now with the small communcation skills that you do have. you need communcation skills friends or more. so talk, tell him why you did what you did, get his side and move from there. good luck. :)
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lol. cant you just block his bitchass?
fuck'em. if he's gonna treat you like shit, dont settle for that. you've both moved on.
guys like that just try and get laid
good luck
btw, never forget karma.
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haha yeayuh! you're welcome
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Your right you throwing things back in his face was wrong. Really the best thing to do here is to just not be friends and not to talk. It will simplely cause you headaches. Being "friends" after that simply wont work. Tell him that its better you two dont talk and leave it at that. If he still tries just block his IM and ignore him. Seems kinda harsh but its the most affective coarse of action.
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