Ok. Before I start this, I want feedback on everything I say in this if possible... And even opinions if you want. Here goes.
Well, I'm probably going to sound just like all of the other girls my age. But there's this guy I like. Yep, I even get the butterflies and everything. The problem is- I've never had a boyfriend before. He knows this, and that's probably a good thing. He's great. He's got just about every good qualities I could want in a guy. He's funny, understanding, interested, smart, witty, sweet, and his looks definately don't hurt. He's not too much of a conversationalist though, that's the only thing that bothers me. Of course we have that awkward silence. I told him a joke about it, so now I can break it. The joke- Whenever there's an awkward silence between two people, a gay baby is born. I think it's prety funny, and so does he. But other than not being a conversationalist, he is very confusing sometimes. I can never tell what he's thinking! I got my one friend to ask him what he thinks of me. She said that he said: "we're friends for now. but i could definately see us together in the future." when she told me that, i was sooo excited! but now it's kind of weird, cuz i kind of asked him out. how could i kind of ask him out? i just did. but only kind of. and he said sure. so i told my friend on my softball team that we might go out. and she asked him about "us" as he said, and he told her that we weren't goin out. i talked to her, and she was set strait. but now he thinks i told people we were going out. it's kinda confusing now. so i still talk to him a lot, just not as much as before my friend asked him. and anymore, i don't know if he feels the same as i do, but i kind of feel awkward. does anyone know how i could find out if he does or not?
ok and the big question. how can i figure out whether he likes me or not?!
confused18 answered Tuesday July 25 2006, 11:06 pm: omg just ask him. stop having people do it for you. just talk to him and let him know everything your thinking. if hes so amazing im sure he'll understand and if he doesnt than move on. but for now just tell him what your thinking.. thats the only way the relationship will grow [ confused18's advice column | Ask confused18 A Question ]
Th3skyisfalling answered Tuesday July 25 2006, 11:05 pm: well, you must observe. is he single? is he intrested in other girls?
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