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Hey, I am Country Girl, and I am just like any other teenager in the world. I like shopping and giving advice! I spend most all my summer days with freinds 24/7 and I just like to be out there and crazy! I guess you could call me a fashion fanatic, seeing as people think i am an expert at it tee hee!I have a younger brother, 9 years old of age, who is mildly autistic so I can answer questions about that or eating disorders, from my own eating disorder experiences from the past. Feel free to IM me on my screename kennyismine4ever or email me at countrygirl6571@aim.com. I am open to questions of all kinds and I specialize in Fashion and Styles, Relationships, and Family and Friends.
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I'm 15, freshman, still havent gotten my frist kiss! Ugh so frusterating! But in this area like 50% of people havent gone out wit someone yet or kisses someone. Is this weird? and makes me frusterated! Wat can I do? (link)
don't rush into things. your first kiss has to be special, not something you rush into just because you think its weird that you haven't. first, get a great guy and take things slow. the right time will come I promise, just don't pressure yourself into kissing somebody you don't really like. hope this helped you!
~country girl~


i really want to redecorate my room. problem--not everything i like matches. about 2 or 3 years ago i got a new carpet so i can't replace it. it's like a periwinkle color lol. colors i like- purple, hot pink, lime green, turquoise.. i'll accept some blues i guess :] does anyone have any suggestions on what would look good with a periwinkle colored carpet?? and have any comforters i might be interested in or websites? (already looked at pbteen..) 14/f. i like floral patterns, stripes, etc. not really into polka dots or solids. thanks!! (link)
well, you say your fave colours are purple hot pink, lime and turquoise?why not use only 2 of those colours? like alternate and use random splashes of color everywhere! a dash of pink here and there, and some other colours mix in. you can be very artistic with this :] peace, countrygirl.


Which part of America would you reccomend moving to? (link)
If your'e looking for hot shopping go to Cali or New York.
If your looking for i guess you could call them "discreet states" That dont get alot of action try none other than South Carolina! Its COLD in the winter, but HOT as hell in summer...not to mention humid! nut i guess its nice and down here in pawleys, Southern Hospitality takes over! Everyone is so nice and well....Southern! We have nice little coastal bistros and cute shopping villages! I just love it here!
Hope i was of any help!
~country girl


Hi all,
I just got a new iPod:)!
Can I have some help transfering my music from Limewire, or at least into an area where I can put it onto my iPod? (link)
go to your LimeWire playlist > Click explore > drag songs onto a blank playlist in Itunes!
This works for me and i have had no problems whatsoever with it!!
~country girl


well i like this guy, but he has a gf that is a good friend of mine. people say he's trying to make me jealous. like he always flirts with me and he wants to go to the pool with me a lot. should i tell him i like him? because i know he won't care, but i don't want him and his gf to break up. what should i do? (link)
Well, you said his gf is a good friend of yours. Tell her that you think he likes you and flirts with you alot and always asks you to go to the pool. Not in a ha-ha-in-your-face-way, but just nicely and tell her to confront him about it. If the guy says that he loves her, wants to be with her, etc. then he is just a liar! Then YOU have to confront him about it say something like "Why do you always invite ME and not your gf to the pool and stuff?" that should bring up the subject and solve your problems!
Hope this helps and if it does tell me gurrl!


I was wondering what some of ya'll think is the best method for teeth whitening. I have heard of baking soda but how would you use that like applying and preparing it, etc.? Or any other brands that have worked the best?
Thanks! (link)
I have heard that strawberries AND baking soda together on a tooth brush work... and then you clean out your mouth with whitening toothpaste, like Aquafresh. DO NOT use crest white strips, they leave white splotches and the instruction thing SAYS its normal, but it stays...
Hope i helped :)
~country girl


i just got the noxema pads and its the small container with 90 pads and with an orange top and i was wondering if those worked for oily skin and i have like little pimples on my forehead but they arent red and arent big.. and how long do you think i will see results (link)
I have the SAME thing and NO it does not work for me, it only CLEANSES not fights the pimples. I mean, you can't erase them or anything but i would suggest Biore or Clean & Clear!
~country girl


Has anyone ever purchased anything thing from Oriental Trading Company? I'd like to buy some party supplies from them, but I'm always weary of online buying. Are they a safe site to order from? They have a Hacker check. (link)
Go on thier website and get them to send you a catalogue. then you can order by phone, I think.
But otherwise, if the site is VeriSign Secured, your'e good to go!
~country girl


I was thinking of possibly going with side sweep bangs and having the rest of my hair cut into layers.

The problem is, every time I go to have layers done, I end up with something different (even though I ask for the same thing).

I was VERY happy with my first cut. It was sort of feathered and looked terrific even when left straight (my hair is very fine and it also made it appear very thick and full).

I want this back but I've been unable to find a photo of it to show to my stylist.

If you have any suggestions on layers (or bangs) PLEASE post pictures. I'm hoping I'll come across the first cut I had but if not, a few great suggestions will help as well.

Thanks!

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Try this style that Lindsay Lohan has:
http://www.impawards.com/2004/mean_girls_verdvd.html

She had it styled this way in Mean Girls and I think it is really cute!
Hope this helped...
~country girl


Does anyone know where I can get a good sized messenger bag for going back to school? I want one that looks good, but it can't be too pricey. (I'm 15/f) (link)
Try your local Vera Bradley Retailer or go to www.verabradley.com and see thier patterns. They have one called a messenger bag, I have it, and it is really good sized. I don't know if VB is in style where you are but it sure is here in Pawleys!
~country girl


I am 15 years old, female, and I wear a size DDD38. I need to know where I can find cheap strapless bras that are in my size range. I have a tube top that I want to wear, but I need to also wear a strapless bra with it, so that my bra doesn't show, I am wearing this top with some cute capris, because I am going on a date. If you can help me, please and thank you! (link)
Target has alot of cheap strapless bras and beleive it or not, they hold up, I mean, its target, right? Not the best trusted clothing store.... well good luck
~country girl


Hey guys.

I really want to start wearing heels with my outfits..but I don't really know any heels that go with outfits that are affordable and are in reach (i.e. macy's, nordstroms, penny's.) Links to websites that have outfits with high heels in them would be nice.I already have a pair of black heels..does anyone know any thing I could wear that with? Thank you!

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WELL, if they are pumps wear them with jeans in late FALL and WINTER, any other time is OUT-OF-SEASON! But yes, black heels go really well with jeans! Some places I can think of that have heels are Merle Norman and Saks. Have fun...
~country girl


Yesterday; I had a really bad stomach ache; then at like midnight I threw up. This morning I felt fine and now i feel sick again. What can I do to get better? (link)
HEY PEPTO BISMOL! try it it helps! i know its pink and it tastes like god knows how bad, but it really, really helps!
Feel better!
~countrygirl


Im going school clothes shopping next week and i dont know what i should really look for. I dress kind of plane jane but this year i want to look more stylish and look more grown up. I want to look completely different but not like goth more like preppy. Also, I have no idea what to wear on the first day...we cant wear spagetti straps or skirts above the knee. Thanks in advance :] (link)
if your looking for PREPPY stunning things for the first day try:
Lilly Pulitzer
Vineyard Vines
Chanel
Hollister
abercrombie
POLO ralph lauren

use palet colours and light pinks and greens. i would def. go for lilly pulitzer on the first day, its so original and you will be the best dressed! :)

~countrygirl


I bought this whipcream that's in a can that has a nozzle. The first time i tried, the whipcream came out, and now it doesn't, but I have no idea why. It says if you bend the nozzle, it comes out, so I did it and last time it was perfectly fine, but this time, I can't get the whipcream to come out. Please help. (link)
Tilt the can upside down and tilt the nozzle forward, you know like upside down so you can pig out on the whipped creme straight from the can,into your mouth its the shizz CRAZY good try it lol =)
have fun
~countrygirl


Im getting my hair done on Monday and I want something new but Im not sure what. I have straight dirty blonde hair almost to halfway down my back. I have side swept bangs but they look kinda bad because I tried to do them myself. I dont want short hair, anything about the shoulders is too short. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
try getting layers done. it will accentuate your features and get the hair dresser the re-cut your bangs! it will look so hot!
~countrygirl


My dance teacher just said I could make up my own jazz/hip hop routine for my 12th year recital. Anyone have any good ideas for songs? (link)
choose the song PROMISCUOUS by nelly furtado and timbaland...its a good beat and you can really dance to it!!
~country girl


I'm from Germany. I have to wacth a autistic kid and make sure he goes to sleep how can I do it while getting sleep? (link)
ok first of all how old is the kid??? you should probably read him a bedtime story and give him specific time warnings for when he is to go to bed and let him know (for his own personal security)that his parents will be "back before you know it" hopefully this will help and if not, lay down with the child and simply wait there for him to go to sleep ( you may get some sleep as well!!!) hope this helped alot.
good luck,♥country girl


I've always been close to my mom and told her everything. It's only now I'm realizing what she's doing to me.
For example.. she's told me to stop being friends with so many people. So I stopped being friends with this group of people because she was constantly saying bad things about them, and now I'm hanging with someone else, she's criticising him constantly too, calling him a "troublemaker" and now I'm getting put off him.

Well this same guy.. last night I went over to his place... we've been friends a long time and recently got together. I told her a few people were coming so it was a gathering. Only a couple of people turned up, but I didn't think it'd matter. When she found out, she forbid me to ever go over to anyone's house again, saying I lied to her by telling her it was a party. But I don't think that's why she's mad. She said I'm young and should be "going out" and its not appropriate for me to go to anyones place. She won't let me go to anyone's place unless their mother is home, but his mother WAS home. When I said this to her she said "you think his old mother would help you? She'd laugh if all those boys tried to rape you" This really upset me because his mother was very nice. She said this guy should "take me out" instead, but we DO go out..

I'm seventeen and very responsble. She knows I'm not having sex (marriage for me) but she says I have no "self respect" by going to boys houses. Right now I'm in tears at what she's doing. I don't know how to please her. I've always done everything she's said in the past. I've cut people out of my life when she's told me to, stopped speaking to people, etc but this time I can't stand for this. Can someone give me some advice? I realize she's only overprotective because she loves me, but this is going too far.

thanks. (link)
Show her this very message. It tells all of us advice columnists how you REALLY feel, so show it to her. Let her know your'e resposible enough and that she cannot control who and who are not your friends, and that is very rude. Tell her that you dont appreciate her bashing your friend's mom and stuff. I really hoped this was of any help remotely,
~country girl~


My boyfriend says that he will always love me no matter what even if we break up!!! I think that that is a little ...um, weird. Do you think it is, i mean i d/k but he i always like " I LOVE YOU" alllllll the time. And the thing is, I'm not really into him. What do i tell him to make him back away?
Thanks,
rAcHeL (link)
This is classic, but tell him you DONT feel the same way anymore. Just tell him firmly that you dont want to be around him anymore and remind him of that qoute he said " i will always love you even if we break up." Tell him to,like, dont do that, because its not worth loving someone who DOESENT love you back!
~country girl~




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