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I posted this earlier but i need more responses
22/f
I went dancing with a couple of friends of mine the other night. Now we have to drive an hour to get there and recently we see a friend (Brent) of our that we dance with down there. well I really like him but not real sure how to let him know, or if he even likes me. On the way down My friends were teasing me how I would never have the guts to dance with him (very riska) the way my other friend does. Well that day I figured well since I am playing hooky from work why not? It wasn’t immediate though. I had to build up the courage. Brent kinda helped me though. we were all sitting and this one song came on and I was the only one that went out on the dance floor because I liked the song. It was a 2 step song and suddenly Brent comes up to me and said he was going to teach me the 2 step. I was such a dork, but eventually got it. And I felt so comfortable with him. Then a little bit later the perfect song came on later for me to make my move. My friend Sabrina had just been dancing with him and she said she had to go to the bathroom. The song “pretty Woman” came on and I just went for it. Just about all out. I had never done it before but it seemed natural. we did this mostly for the remainder of the evening. Couple times I was even toying with him. It appeared as though he was liking it but also driving him crazy. And every time a slow song would come on he would actually ask me to dance instead of assuming it. Once even, when I was sitting out because I was tired and Brent was dancing with Sabrina a slow song came on and he was dancing with her,( I had no problem with that because she is married and was just dancing) a second one came on right after that but they were coming back to the couch and I hear Sabrina say ” Well I guess you will finally be able to take that break you wanted” (she hated the country song that was playing) but instead he surprisingly offers his hand out to me very charmingly and wants to go dance again with me and I hear Sabrina say ”okay I guess not” We were eventually sitting next to each other more into the night. He even was stroking my arm very casually. Little at first then more. He even had the guts to when I would lean forward to talk with Sabrina he would have his arm up on the sill so when I leaned back he would have his arm around my shoulder. We got closer too. He would start playing with my fingers and I would respond with same and eventually we were holding hands with one and the other I was all wrapped in his arms all cuddled up. I was really relaxed and comfortable until my friends said that we had to head home since it was getting late. They thought I was falling asleep because Brent was also massaging my head and neck and it just felt so good. I was so not tired. My heart was definitely racing. Afterwards we always have this tradition of walking next door to this 24 doughnut place to get doughnut holes for the ride home. It helps me be more awake for the drive home since I am the driver. Well We start walking and I said I was cold and he wraps his arms around me to keep me warm. I thought it was cute. We get our doughnuts and eat for a minute and start to head in the car. I am not sure if this worked but he gave me an extra long hug and out of umm last second thought I kissed him on the cheek very quickly and got into the car ( It was raining.) And he watched us from under the beam until we left. So what do I do now? Do you think he like me? Do you think there is any chance between us? He also lived an hour away from the club but in the opposite direction, meaning we are 2 hours apart. With our constant flirting now what? Was I giving off the right vibe? Was I too much? Please help me!! I need LOTS of answers! Thank you very much for your time!
Some of you might be familiar with my previous questions. they were about being envious of my friend and her dancing and not sure how to tell this guy how I felt. If you want to the whole story feel free to reefer yourself to those questions. (link)
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you can rate me like a onee, but it's soo long. nobody reallywants to read itt.
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14/f
im not fat but i wana loose weight. for the past week or two, ive been running for atleast 15 minutes a day on a tredmil (plus cheerleading and volleyball), and cuting down my meals. i eat 3 meals a day and try not to snack inbetween and i dont eat sweats. i weighted about 123 but i think i might weigh the same or a pound less. should i be seeing results better or am i being impatient? what else can i do? (link)
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You're doing everything rightt! You're running and everything. What i would do is run a bit slower but for a bit longer. Distance is more important than time. And for your weight-- you're at a greatt weight don't worry about it!
I have a food nutritionist, and they told me that it's better to eat smaller portions but more times a day (like 4 or 5 and eat maybe half a sandwhich.) This will speed up your metabolism. It really works! Just eat healthy foods excersize a little bit longer and you'll see results!
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Hey well i have naturally straight and thick hair and i love scrunching it. Problem is that my hair would only stay scrunched for like an hour or two and i really want it to stay scrunched for a whole day at school. I've tried sleeping with two buns in my hair and i've also tried the whole french braid thing. Don't even bother the whole tip your head over and just scrunch thing cause my hair won't work that way. Oh, and i definetly don't want a perm so any tips? Thanks in advance. (link)
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If you use a gel.. any gel for hairr. it should say on the frontt.. like scrunching or curl defining. Make your hair wett.. not too wett and just scrunch a lott! Put like a glob at a time. Like scrunch wait 30 secondss and scrunch againn.. do it like 5 timess.. && make suree you're hair isn't dryy.. it'll make you'ree hair poofy=]. There's always directions on the back of the bottle!
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Why is it that when woman orgasms it sometimes shoot out this watery looking substance... I thought it was pee when it happened to me at first... but it dosen't have that urine smell... Is that normal? What is it cause it was a clear fluid.... and if this happens every time does this mean that your having an excellent orgasm or somthing? Just curious.... (link)
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It's called cum.. err comee=]. It's whenn a girll orgasmss it's like a lubricantt.. we make it ourselves so the penis goes in easierr.. some women get it&& otherss don't! It's totally normal!
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Okay, well... I guess you can say I`m one of the go-to-girls in my school. A lot of people look to me for advice, and i`d say I have a lot of freinds but, few of them are with me on making the right descisions, my school, my grade; its so stupid! everyone`s two-faced, no ones honest... everyone in my grade [and I`m a Freshman] has done drugs, drinks on a regular basis, and/or has had sex or done something sexual. when I was in eigth grade, I had some amamzing teachers with whom I connected so closely with. They were like family; they always encouraged me to make the right descisions. well I am I mean, I`m not a goody-goody, I mean I flirt with guys and I mess around but I`m not even considering loosing my viriginty. && when it comes to drugs & alcohol? no way! thats just stupid. its trendy in my grade to get fxcked up and look like a mess. I don`t wanna get into that, not smoking, not drinking, not drugs. Its hard though when everyone thinks you`re a p*ssy because you won`t do the stuff they want to. I need some encouragement, or even advice, please. (link)
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First of all I would like to sayy that i'm proudd.. && i haven't even met youu! Hahaa! It's really hard to go against the crowdd.. especially when your whole grade is the crowd!
I just want to say you're doingg the right thingg. My brother did drugs & he almost commited suicide. Consider the consequences of drinkingg.. so you're right. Smokingg.. that's just ridiculous! Sex.. do you really want a babyy? I'm so proudd.. you're doing everythingg right. If people think you'ree a babyy .. whateverr you're the one that went against everybody! You did this for yourselff.. ! Maybe now you'ree not in the groupp.. but when you grow up it'll be good to tell your kids what you did, and you'll be proud you did it.
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I get made fun of a lot because I have red hair so people call me firecrotch AND Im not very pretty. I look like a fish. Anyway, guys on my bus are always making fun of me..and I want to know what I say to them. Swearing isnt working - they just mock me and it just gives them a reaction. (link)
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Omgg..you aree soo cutee! I have no ideaa what you're talkingg aboutt!! Aww..! No lieee.. i swear i wouldn't say anythingg if it wasn't truee.
anyways for the guyys on your buss.. they prob just likee you!! too immaturee that's all!! hahaa. The last thing you said "they just mock me and it just gives them a reaction." That's what they want a reaction- ignore them. They want you to get mad && respodd.. but don'tt! IGNOREE! && againn you'ree soo cutee! Omgg!
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umm yeah i feel dumb asking this but my boyfriend reallly wants me to have phone sex. ive never done it before....so help! (link)
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You shouldn't be akwardd askingg. this is what it's forr! You should only havee phone sexx if you'ree readyy! It could be akwardd if you're nott=]. Phone sex is like you describing what you would do if you were really having sexx.. ya knoww? You touched this then you did thiss.. but like more detail=]. Have funn. If you're not readdy tell himm.. he should understand!
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A mean , rude, jerk.
He's mean to me, he calls me fat etc.
He hates me
But we used to be really really good friends
I still like him
No matter how mean he is
wtf
help?
14/f (link)
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This guy might be insecuree.. he might feel like all those things and takes it out on you! I know you can'tt helpp likingg a guyy.. maybe talk to him. It might be akwardd beingg like "what's up with youu?" noo hahaa but be like why do you say those thingss? He might get madd but in the long runn he'll be like woahh thankss
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I will try something on before i go to school, i will look good/okay in it at my house. Then when I get to school I'll look in the mirrors and I look fat/jiggly! Whats up with that? Is it just hte mirrors or do I really look like that :(
Also tips for a flatter/non jiggly stomach? Foods and exercises - fAST PLS! (link)
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Umm it might be afterr you eatt... or maybe you're rightt.. the mirrors. The mirrors in my school do thatt! Don't worry. Maybee you're imagining it=]
Lose weighhtt.. umm just runn and do crunches. Fruitsveggiess&& protein! Protein after and beforee you workk outt! ohh yeahh look at other questions because every other question is about losing weightt.. hahaa not your faultt just sayingg!=]
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i have been getting my period like every 2 weeks,
its been 6 months, shudnt i be used to it by now?
its really obnoxious. (link)
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It takes your period 1- 2 years for there to be a normal cycle! I wouldn't worry about it! If it gets too b way too out of line go to the gyno! That's what they're there forr! I'm suree everything is fine thoughh!
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im fat. all i ever think about is food and eating. i cant stay out of the pantry and fridge, and i eat when im bored. i dont want to be this way. i already work out and it helps some. now i just need to control my eating. how can i not be so distracted by food? i talked to my mom and i asked her to stop buying junk but i have 6th other family members..and this is not an option. help me please. (link)
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First I would make a list of things you want to do. Everytime you do it you reward yourself.. like a new outfit. Stay of junk food for 2 weeks (straight).. or lose 20 poundss! It's good!
You say you eat when you're boredd.. find something to do! Go out with friendss.. walk in the park shoppingg..!
On all the junk food put a picture of the figure you wantt.. that way you won't be as temptedd.
You need food.. fruits && veggies can be good. Apples and cherries as such are sweet like candiee (sortaa hahaa)
Veggies get some carrots && dip it in low fat ranch sauce! It will help!!
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So me and this guy have been going out for 3 months now, and we're 16. So when we're talking online, he tells me all these sweet things like how pretty i am, and how much he misses me, and stuff like that. But when we're in person, he doesnt talk about that kind of stuff. Ive asked him about it (on AIM), and he says hes just so shy. I dont know what to do to make him less shy, so he can talk about that type of thing in person. Any advice? Thanks. (link)
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hmmm, a shy guy! that's toughh! Try and do something he likes.. like baseball game or basketball! Something he likes so he'll havee funn and be more open! Make jokess.. (not like knock knock), and know he'll open up with time! The more time you spend the more opended up! I know it's been 3 months.. trust me! Same problem.. took a yearr!
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My tampons always leak. When I take it out, there is almost not blood on it! How did it manage to leak if it never soaked anything up? What can I do? (link)
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Buy a bigger size tampon like ultra.. you may just have a big hole (seriously hahaa).. and in the mean time wear a pad or something so it doesn't leak through!!
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i really need someones good adivice.so my mom came home from work and she caught me trying to sneek my boyfriend into the closet so that she wouldnt know that he was in my house after we had had sex. and then i told her that i have been having sex since i was 14 years old and i am only 15. this could ruin me and my boyfriends relationship because i could never get to see him again outside of school. and if she tells my father then he is going to try to hurt my boyfiend and blame it all on him even though it is not all his fault. and i am worried that this is going to jepordize my trust with my mom and my dad. i really need to know what i should do!! please help me!! (link)
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I think you should have a conversation with your mother, it might be akward but it could help. Ask her not to tell your dad, explain everything to herr! If you really think your dad is going to hurt your boyfriend you should tell a school counselour. Don'tt forget to tell you boyfriendd!! hahaa! Most importantly talk to your mom, if she already told your dad then talk to him after.
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Well, I got my report card a few weeks ago, and I had all A's.. BUT ONE B. I worked so hard! And guess what.. It was in Gym. So, because of that, I didn't get high honor roll. My mom already had a conference with them, but I still got a B, because apparently "I don't try hard enough." & I argued by saying that mostly everyone playing were guys (the girls don't do anything) & how I can't play against guys because that's not fair & that a lot of times I didn't feel good (to which the teacher said he could run a mile on two hands if HE didn't feel good - whatever), and blah blah blah. I guess the teacher just doesn't like me that much. Anyway, there's nothing to do about it anymore I guess. I will try harder next time, but I'm a perfectionist..
SO my question is: How can I get over it? It just pisses me off so much! (link)
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First of all good job! Those are awesomee gradess! && I'm glad that you learned that you need to try harderr! I think that's all- keep your grades up and that's what will get you to the top! It might be a lesson that you have to try hard in EVERYTHING.. even gymm.. hahaa! I dunno maybe you could ask your gym teacher for extra creditt?? Hahaa? Just be sure you'll make it next yearr or quarterr err whateverr.. i'm sure you will!
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I like this kid.... lets call him *bob*...... bob had a gf but she broke up with him cuz he cheated on her...... lets call his ex gf marie.... and the girl he cheated with alex.....i don't know why but i still like him....all my friends say i shouldn't like him because what he did to marie but i still like him and he's really nice to me and alot of people say he likes me, and he's gunna ask me out..... should i go out with him? (link)
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In my opinion i wouldn't! I promised myself if a guy every cheated on me or wouldd urr wtverr.. i wouldn't go out with himm! That's justt mee=].. i guess if you really like this guyy?? I meann && you think he won't cheat on youu.. && you trustt himm suree whyy nott?? Just don't get hurtt!!
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how far in advance should you ask someone to a school formal? (link)
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I wouldd sayy aboutt 2 weekss or moree.. prob. moree! If you ask the guy/girl be like i knoww it's totally short noticee but i was just wonderingg if you would go to the formal with mee.. && be like i'll go get the stuff with youu! I know it's really short noticee! Good luckk .. !!=]
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how do u get cleavage? (link)
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If you got to victoria's secrett && ask them to sizee you up they will! They're really nicee! && they do it over your clothess! It workss! If you go get a push up bra they're usually padded so that will help!! Try getting a bra that's just a little small on youu- i wouldn't wastee your money on a small on but see if you have one laying aroundd, they make them "appear" biggerr.. hahaaa magicc wordss! anywayss.. good luckk withh your boobss!
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i wanna lose weight. the thing is, i'm hardly hungry but i've got a horrible appetite for anything and everything fatty - chocolate, ice cream, fries, if it's bad for you, i crave it constantly. how do i tame my appetite? or at least not yield to it all the time? help! (link)
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You like those foods becausee they tastee good=].. duhh! So find some fruits that tastee good! Lots of them do! You could make a cake out of them! Like a pie- google low fatt piee! It'll workk! Have a reward system like you eat healthy all day (&& i mean superr healthyy) reward yourself 4 oreos or 4 hershey kisses! && that's it! Don't keep them in the housee.. then you'll eat themm! Maybe on your way home fromm work or school or whateverr stop by && get some or ask yourr parents to only give you 4 (depends who you livee with && suchh.
Better yet take it all out of your housee.. you might crave it for 3 dayss but then you'll move onto better thingss!! =]
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how do you know that you have black heads? cuz i have black dots on my nose and my aunt keep talking about buying me medicine but i looked really close in the mirror and it seems that it's hair because one time this girl leaned really close to look at my face and she asked if i shave my nose =( (link)
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Hahaa.. i totally know what you'ree goingg throughh!! I was likee to my brotherr woahh what's with your nosee? && i'm likee you have blackk heads he's likee no that's hairr! && i'm like is thatt better?? Hahaa anywayss! You can by stuff at the super market && it's like black head remover like gel or strips. If they don't work for like a month go to a dermatologist cuz maybe it is hairr! My dad has hair growing on his nosee!
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