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Member Since: June 4, 2006
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Last Update: June 4, 2006
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Ok, so I have a boyfriend and I really, really like him. There's only one problem...I'm not allowed to date until I'm 16. I'm not really sure if just haning out at school is considered dating or not. Plus, I always feel embarrassed having a boyfirend, or guilty because I'm not supposed to. I really don't know what to do. My mom knows we're "going out" if you could call it that since we don't really do anything together since, well, I can't date. My sister doesn't have a problem "dating" a guy before 16 but I do. What should I do? (link)
I don't see anything wrong with waiting. I myself personally have the same rule but i'm not going to stop hanging out and having fun with a guy. Hey, if its meant to be nothing will stop that but it's all up to you. Are you ready for the complexities involved in a relationship? Would dating him be any different from what you are doing now? In my mind a good boyfriend is a good FRIEND first and foremost.
And one other thing, i don't know what kind of person your mom is but she sound okay. Let her in on what your feeling and maybe she may have some info tha may help.

I hope this helps.


Hey. So, I got into a fight with my best guy friend. And, we were yelling at each other over Aim...the thing is, i tried apologizing, and he was like why are you being all nice now etc. But, i wasnt the one that should have apologized,because only 1 thing was my fault. and he misunderstood it. My friend stays mad, at things...i dont want this to ruin our friendship...any advice? (link)
Hey,

You tried to apologise. What else can you do.
Give him time to cool down, if hes really your friend he will realise that a silly arguement is not worth jeopardizing your friendship.

Good Luck




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