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Hey. So, I got into a fight with my best guy friend. And, we were yelling at each other over Aim...the thing is, i tried apologizing, and he was like why are you being all nice now etc. But, i wasnt the one that should have apologized,because only 1 thing was my fault. and he misunderstood it. My friend stays mad, at things...i dont want this to ruin our friendship...any advice?
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well i can give you good advice on this problem before with my best guy friend. anyway. if you already tried apologizing and he was still rude, then you should give him some space. and then when it's the right time when he's calm and like friendly then you should talk to him about what happened and try to explain to him what he misunderstood. good luck on this problem. and hopefully he'll still be your friend
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You told him you were sorry, and he didn't take it. Instead he was still rude aboout it. You apologized about your one mistake. You sould try to talk to him again. Explain to him that it was a total misunderstanding,.. and that he simply just misunderstood what you were saying. If he is you BEST guy friend, then he will forgive you, and won't stay mad. Just try once again to explain to him, tell him how sorry you are, and that you don't want to hurt your guy's friendship.
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Once again, you told him you were already sorry.. reitterate yourself. Tell him again and again that you are truly sorry.. that the whole thing was a total misunderstanding.. I don't see why he wouldn't forgive you.. if you and him are such great friends. If he doesn't forgive you then you weren't as great as friends as you thought. Just try to work things out.. things will work out in the end.
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Hey, I've been here before, try and tell him you we're having a bad day. And tell him you are sorrry and think he misunderstood what your point was. If he is still mad at you, try having someone else talk to him. Hope I helped!
<3 Heather.
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Hey,
You tried to apologise. What else can you do.
Give him time to cool down, if hes really your friend he will realise that a silly arguement is not worth jeopardizing your friendship.
Good Luck
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Aaah, we women. So often, we find ourselves apologizing when we shouldn't, and submitting when we are the ones who really know what's best in any given situation. What you should do is let him know that he's your friend and that you still love him, but that you aren't going to eat an unlimited amount of humble pie. In other words, you should say to him something along the lines of,
"Look,(insert name) I know that what I said to you hurt you, and I'm sorry for it. But please undersatnd that you misunderstood me, what I really meant to say was (insert explanation). Plus, please understand that you said some pretty hurtful things to me as well, but I'm more than willing to forgive you, and to restart our friendship on a clean slate. I only hope that you can feel the same way about me".(insert any extras,in jokes, et. al., as you see fit).
Basically. all you can do is tell him that you love him, and that you hope that the two of ypu can still be friends. Above that, there's not a lot that you can do. Take care, and good luck.
Lucretia.
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if you already tried to apologize to him, that shows me that you caer about your relationship with him. try to apologize and when he asks why you are apologizing just tell him that you value the relationship and dont want to jeopardize it with a stupid fight. if he doesnt accept your apology, just give him a little time to cool down, and try to talk to him about it later tonight or tomorrow... everything will be fine, friends have fights, and then they get over it, thats the only difference between a friend and an enemy: getting over it.
good luck with the argument!
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Have you told him that he misunderstood what you said? Because he'd probably better understand the situation and change his attitude if you did. I'm the type of person that holds grudges and I stay made at things as well, but I always get over and I think he'll do the same. Especially if you two are like best friends. =]
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