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Well the name is Warren (thats me on the left in the pic). My best trait is my ability to make people laugh, i view laughter as a blessing, even though my teachers dont seem to like it too much lol. Im 5'10", about 145, athletic/slender build, green/brown eyes, brown short hair. My passion is wrestling, i pretty much devote all of my time to that, and now is my senior year so i gotta make it the best one. Im currently single, my last relationship, even though it ended sadly, was the best experience of my life, but lets juss stay off that subject. Well i guess if u really want to kno anything more about me then u can post a question or somethin, feel free to ask me anything.

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i have had 3 b/f in the past 2 months. every time i meet sum1 new i fell like i am in love with him but then wen we break up i move on fast. i guess my question is how are you supposed to know when you really are in love with a person?
if it helps i am 14/f (link)
that is a very difficult question to answer...

i guess you really know that you are in love with somebody is when you cant see yourself without them... moving on really fast means that there wasnt any real love, even though it may have felt like it. when u get with someone that you really think you love, keep that in mind.


so theres this boy, we have a lot in common..like music, friends, ninja turtles, where we keep our baseball bats, and we even have a mutual favorite green shirt. well, weve only hung out twice, but i think i could be pretty into this guy..but im afraid one of his friends could get in the way, or maybe an ex who he happens to go to the movies with..siigh haha i just felt someone should know that this boy makes me..smile. kind of get it off my chest you know. (link)
ah yes, i know exactly what you are talking about. TRUST ME, i am in the same situation, but not with a boy, its a girl, you know, im not gay... seriously

but back to the main topic, this sounds like a really sticky situation, i mean, the chances are very good that he really likes you too, but his emo friend might get in the way (just a guess). my advice to you is keep seeing this boy, and if he really does make you smile, then what do u have to lose? if his friends are really his friends, they will support any decision he makes, even if they are a little irked by it at first...

and by the way, that ex he went to the movies with was probably REALLY boring, and not to mention akward, so i wouldnt worry one bit about her (again just a guess)

good luck with this boy, and know that he is very lucky to have the affection of a girl like you. Bottom line: keep seeing him, keep smiling, watch night at the roxbury, and everything will be alright.


I'm going to see an adolescent psychiatrist for the first time in about a week and I was wondering what I should expect. I'm going for depression and self-injury, if that makes a difference. I just wondering what I cn epect when I go there. Thanks so much. I'll rate high.
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they will deff ask about what do you think happened to make you feel this way and then if it is a person they will ask you about the person. dont worry because (usually) all the information is confidential and wont be shared with anyone. they are only there to help out so be sure to just be compliant, and let him do his job... trust me, it will be worth it

good luck with the psychiatrist!


Hey. So, I got into a fight with my best guy friend. And, we were yelling at each other over Aim...the thing is, i tried apologizing, and he was like why are you being all nice now etc. But, i wasnt the one that should have apologized,because only 1 thing was my fault. and he misunderstood it. My friend stays mad, at things...i dont want this to ruin our friendship...any advice? (link)
if you already tried to apologize to him, that shows me that you caer about your relationship with him. try to apologize and when he asks why you are apologizing just tell him that you value the relationship and dont want to jeopardize it with a stupid fight. if he doesnt accept your apology, just give him a little time to cool down, and try to talk to him about it later tonight or tomorrow... everything will be fine, friends have fights, and then they get over it, thats the only difference between a friend and an enemy: getting over it.

good luck with the argument!


I'm not big into church, I believe in God, but I can't stand going to church. I get bored out of my mind, and idk I just don't like going at all. I hate youth group too, everythings lame, and theres two girls there that are even close to my age, and I hate em both. My moms always trying to get me to go to church with her, but IDK how to tell her I don't like it at all! (link)
AHHHH i knew i wasnt the only one who was creeped out/wierded out by church!!! well my suggestion is juss straight up tell your parents that you dont like going to church, but be sure to give them reasons too. tell them that you do believe in a higher being, but that you dont feel the need to express your belief by going to church. remember, no one can tell you what your religion is except you, church should be a choice, not a requirement. if you ask me, it feels a little cultish, but hey, we cant all have piety. good luck with your parents!


My computer is pretty old so im planning on getting a new one. I have over 700 songs on my iTunes/iPod and when I get rid of this computer they will all be gone. Is there any way to get the songs from my iPod onto my new computer so I dont have to download them all over again?

thanksss
ill rate 5's (link)
there is no way to pull music off of an ipod, but what i suggest is that you send it as a zip file to your new computer


So, I gave my boyfriend a handjob and after I did it he had to "adjust himself." He didn't cum, but I am worried about precum. He fingered me after that and ahh I am all paranoid that I could be pregnant. What are the chances that I am?
Thanks. (link)
virtually no chance, dont worry at all


I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ I WILL GIVE 5'S TO ANYONE WHO TRIES!
okay so im 15/f. ive had a bf now for a year and like we've done a lot of stuff if you know what i mean but not all the way. its getting really serious, and he is 16 and a grade older than me. the other day i walked in on his room and like there was this other guy there so i started to make out with him because he was hot, but then my bf walked in but we stopped so he didnt see us making out but so then i left to touch up my make up and when i heard a bunch of like noises from his room and then when i came back they were both in his bed in different clothes than before and they were like really close. like really. so it was kinda like weird. but later that day he when i asked my bf about it he was like, sorry my friend is a drug dealer and is trying to get unaddicted sorry. but then i heard from my friend that the boys at our school when they say drug dealing they really mean gay. so like was my bf and him like making out while i was gone? what should i do? cus this would also mean i like madeout with a gay guy, and almost had sex with another gay guy..what should i do?!??!?!
PLEASE HELP!
I RATE HIGH!! (link)
first off why would you just make out with some random guy when you have a boyfriend?? If your relationship is really that serious i would think you would at least be faithful to him, but thats juss me.

i really doubt that juss because your boyfriend and this guy changed clothes they are gay together. i have played football with gay guys and i changed in front of them and i am not making out with them... nothing is wrong with your boyfriend, you two have a very strange relationship i guess. there is nothing to worry about, continue with life, and good luck to you two!


Ok. so here's the deal..... My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago on the last day of school. I think the reason why was because I was kinda being a jerk that day because my mom made me REALLY mad the night before. Well anyway.... I WANT HIM BACK! He was the sweetest guy that I had ever met. He might have thrown some little fits here and there since he's used to getting his way, but most of the time he was very affectionate. His birthday is coming up in a couple of days and I want to ask him back out as a present. The only thing is, I'm not sure if he'll take me back and how I'm gonna ask him. Any suggestions? (link)
TRUST ME!!!! i have been in the exact same position you have been in, and once a relationship is over once, it is over for good. you can go back out with the person as many times as you like, but it will always end up the same way: over


Ok so when I go underwater it always hurts my nose, anything tips you can give to help me? I am not trying to wear those geeky goggles or plug my nose everytime I submerge! I cannot blow out of my nose underwater just incase your were wondering! so if so anytips? is there a feeling I should get to know im readyy and my nose isnt gonna hurt? (link)
i used to have the same problem when i was younger... i know you said you cant blow water out of your nose, but give this a shot...

while you are standing in a pool, close your eyes and breathe in

exhale though your nose, keeping your mouth shut, and slowly submerge your head

as you run out of breath resurface, but make sure you are still breathing out once you get out

if your nose doesnt hurt, reapeat over and over again until you can do it with your eyes open/moving/diving etc.

if this doesnt work, just wear the nose plugs and get it over with, they are kind of kewl anyway


I recently sent some pictures to a male friend of mine. They were of me dressed up as a bridesmaid at my cousins wedding. Well I looked REALLY nice- normally I'm just a casual person. I had my hair done; makeup on; and a beautiful strapless empire gown on. I also had been dieting before the wedding and was slim and trim. Well I just got an email from him. He said that I looked awsome and that he could barely recognize me all dressed up; then he thanked me for the pics and said they were GREAT! My question is do you think he's attracted to me by what he said? (link)
dont take this the wrong way, but when a guy gets pictures of anybody, he will say that they look nice, whether they do or dont. now im not saying that you didnt look nice, but i am saying that i think you are looking a little too far into something that was probably meant to be nice, and thats it. If he was really into you, we would show it more than just one email. im a guy and i know how guys think. generic responses are guys' specialty: "yes dear" "Ill clean my room" "uh-huh, sure", sad but true

im not trying to be mean, im just trying to help, well good luck!


okay my friend she's 15 and she really likes her boyfriend and stuff and she talked to his friends and they said that he is only dating her for 2 reason: to make out with her and to make someone else jealous. I would try to help her more but i don't know what to do. She then asked him if it was true and he got mad. If you guys read this answer asap i need your help as soon as possible. If your a "guy" then i'd love to hear your advice to thanx :)
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first of all shame on this guys friends for telling his gf that he is just using her, true or not it is still gossip and none of their business... secondly i can totally see why this guy got angry when she asked him that, if you are really into someone and they have doubts about it, it hurts. lastly, and this is the sucky part, no one will ever know the truth in this dillema, because the only person that knows the truth is the guy, and he would never admit to using his gf. this girl needs to follow her heart on this one and not listen to all the gossip around her. if she never suspected being used before, why would she just because some people said so? if i said the pope isnt catholic, he just likes to wear the hat, the pope wouldnt question me, because he knows the truth...

but enough about the pope...

only the girlfriend can determine whether or not she is being used, so if you are really that concerned about it, ask her. it couldnt hurt.

good luck!


Okay. So there is this guy. I was always attracted to him, and at times I really liked him, but it was just there, never acted on it or anything. Well he was a little wasted and he told me that he has feelings for me and that he likes me. How do I know if he was just saying that or he really meant it. When guys tell you that they like you and have feelings for you, are they telling the truth?? Now that I think he likes me, I am beginning to like him also. A lot. So if a guy tells you that he likes you should I take it seriously. The biggest problem is that he is in college and i am only a sophmore. So guys do you really mean it when you tell girls that you have feelings for them? (link)
ok well i AM a guy (and have been drunk before), so i can deffinatly answer this one for you. first of all, guys do say some wierd things whne they are drunk, and they can be one of two things: either the purest truth in the world or the biggest lie ever, you just have to determine how each guy acts while they are "impared". since you have a crush on this guy, chances are he can tell, and in turn, has developed a cruch on you. guys are not ones to admit crushes under normal circumstances, so getting drunk mat have been the key that unlocked the truth. honestly, the best thing you can do is talk to him about it, and get the sober truth. since he has already admitted to liking you, he shouldnt have any problem telling you again. good luck!


hey,
I recently just got over this boy because i know i had no chance with him but now i like someone new and there two completely different people. The new person i like, vinnie, is my best friend's cousin. This best friend has liked me since kindergarten so i obviously can't tell him that i like his cousin that would crush him. I would try to get over Vinne but we kissed and we got close a lot but my best friend said he asked vinnie if he liked me and he said "i love her as a friend" hearing made me wonder what that kiss meant. Should i talk to Vinnie about it? And should i tell my best friend about it? Please help me. I'll rate for any type of advice. Thank you very much. xo (link)
Its perfectly normal to be so concerned about your best friend's feelings like you are, and good for you. but, you also have to realize, if he is really your best friend, he should understand if you like his cousin. Talk to your friend before vinnie about this, tell him that you have a crush on vinnie, but break it to him gently. go to him just as you came to us, looking for advice. if he is REALLY your friend, he will help you out.

oh and by the way, vinnie was just covering his ass when he said he loved you as a frined and thats it, guys say that all the time.

good luck with you and vinnie!




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