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Break up.
Ok. so here's the deal..... My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago on the last day of school. I think the reason why was because I was kinda being a jerk that day because my mom made me REALLY mad the night before. Well anyway.... I WANT HIM BACK! He was the sweetest guy that I had ever met. He might have thrown some little fits here and there since he's used to getting his way, but most of the time he was very affectionate. His birthday is coming up in a couple of days and I want to ask him back out as a present. The only thing is, I'm not sure if he'll take me back and how I'm gonna ask him. Any suggestions?
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well..you should explain to him what happened and why you were being a jerk. then apologize. if he forgives you don't ask him out right away. cause that might freak him out and make him think you just said all of that to make him take you back. just like hang out with him go to a movie or whatever like shopping and all, and then when the times right ask him out. hope everything turns out great and have a good summer! bye
.christina*
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well first you should talk to his friends and girls dont normally ask guys out considering that i am ur age and no what ur dealing with but talk to him and appoligize and ask him if hell forgive u
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the best thing you can do is just straight up tell him what happened and that you didnt mean to be moody. explain how much you still like him and that you made a huge mistake and it wasnt the real you.
and for the gift... make him a cute birthday/apology card(make it yourself)
he'll love it!!
good luck!
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Well i have an idea if his birthday is comming p then maybe send him a card through the mail and do not put a retearn address say you are very sorry and you want to know if he would forgive you and go back out with him. I know one time I had the same issue over the whole summer he came back to me on the first day of school and wanted to go back out with me by then I had found another guy who we have been going out for quit the some time now. Also you can make him want you by ashowing him how good of a person you really are just say your sorry but dont over do it on a web site one time there was a poll and the guys biggest complaint about girls was that they bega nd say there sorry to many times once twice or even maybe three will be the winning one or maybe he was becomming un intrested and was just waiting for a reson but hopefully thats not the case! Good Luck. Hope I helped!
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The best that you can do is be open and tell him upfront what happened. Explain that your mom really ticked you off the night before and that caused you to be in a really bad mood and importanly you are sorry.
Don't expect him to take you back or accept your apology. If you are truly sorry, you'll tell him and you'll let him decide what conclusion he comes to. He may accept your apology, but not want you back. It's a possibility.
You can also let him know that you truly feel bad and you think he's a really sweet person and want to give this another try.
If you already told him you are sorry and everything, then you have to let him be. If he's the one who ended it, you should back off and let him find you if he discovers more feelings for you deep down. I know it hurts to be going through a break-up, but just take everything one day at a time and you'll come to realize that it's not as bad and you can heal from it.
-TheTeenGirl
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TRUST ME!!!! i have been in the exact same position you have been in, and once a relationship is over once, it is over for good. you can go back out with the person as many times as you like, but it will always end up the same way: over
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