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Heyy guys!! A little bit about me: I'm your average 13 year old girl. I'm really outgoing & love to have a good time. I love to hang out with friends, play sports, shop, & basically anything. I can relate to many things that people will ask me... ive been through a lot of rough times in my life... dont feel embarrassed when asking me anything.. i'm really good @ giving advice and i will try hard 2 help you in your situation.. and if i'm stuck on something i'm happy to do research on it and learn for myself also!! so dont hesitate to ask anything :)!!
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this sucks my boyfriend dumped me a month ago but now we like eachtoher again. i dont want to like him but i do i just cant help it it feels like its like meant to be or something. we go great together but the only conflict is that were at different schools. ive never felt this way about anybody and i know this is right. should i go out with him? i dont want to risk getting hurt again.
hey.. this is a tough one and i know exactly how you feel. you like him but you really really don't want to but you just can't help it. I think that liking somebody and not being able to control it really shows strength between 2 people. You should definately go out with him if you 100% like him alot and feel as if it would work(from what you're telling me it sounds like it!) If you're not completely sure, wait a little bit. Things will all fall into place when you let everything ease through. If you're really feeling him, do it. I hope i helped and good luck!
(you guys sound cute!)
okay i was on this website and this guy got my aim s/n from it and we started talking. he kept askin me so many questions like what do you look like? how old you are? where i go to school at? and if i have a b/f. so i answered everything not honestly cuz i dont no if he is a stalker.lol. then he finally asked if we could meet sometime. my question is should i continue to talk to him because it seems like he wants a relationship which would mean we have to meet. and i do not want to meet with him in real life cause of all those sick people out there. so should i continue to talk to him or what do i do? will rate high. thanks!
hey i really dont think you should continue talking to him. first of all its really really dangerous and also if hes a junior/senior in highschool he obviously has no life and is searching for younger easier girls. stay safe and good luck!
i'm really shy and i have been for like ever.
i'm always known as just the "shy one" and i'm really sick of it. im not shy in front of people im comfortable around and people that im frends with, but im shy around big groups of people and just cant get over it!
i really wana b outgoing and everything even in front of people i dont really know and in front of large groups, but how?
please helpp!!!
you just have to be confident in yourself.. if you have no confidence then you cant be outgoing. just try hard to go with the flow and dont think of what others say, just talk how you feel and do what you want. you have to be true to yourself. you should be comfortable around your friends too! so just dont be shy to speak what you feel! good luck!
Ok. so here's the deal..... My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago on the last day of school. I think the reason why was because I was kinda being a jerk that day because my mom made me REALLY mad the night before. Well anyway.... I WANT HIM BACK! He was the sweetest guy that I had ever met. He might have thrown some little fits here and there since he's used to getting his way, but most of the time he was very affectionate. His birthday is coming up in a couple of days and I want to ask him back out as a present. The only thing is, I'm not sure if he'll take me back and how I'm gonna ask him. Any suggestions?
the best thing you can do is just straight up tell him what happened and that you didnt mean to be moody. explain how much you still like him and that you made a huge mistake and it wasnt the real you.
and for the gift... make him a cute birthday/apology card(make it yourself)
he'll love it!!
good luck!
I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do?
dont break up with him.. if you like him that much you should never leave him just for distance. Call him daily and keep in close touch and keep telling him how much you miss him. things should work out after that. Good luck!
Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.)
I have also tried having a civil conversation with her as well. She gives me a one word answer, and acts as I'm not worth her words. I'm tired of feeling like shit over this..PLEASE HELP.
thats a tough one. fights like that are pointless and stupid and you need to explain to your friend that she's really important to you and you couldnt imagine not being bffs with her. shes just being over dramatic. if in a few days and she still hasnt said anything to you than shes not a good friend to you. she cares but she wants to look rougher than you and make it seem like she doesnt give a shit. dont get yourself too worked up. dont be as low as her, still talk to her and try to apologize but dont kiss her ass too much. hope i helped... good luck!
Ok, so theres this guy and I like him. He flirts with me a lot, but idk if it's intentional or not. We have a really small class and I'm the only girl he admits being friends with. We used to talk a lot. He told me he thought I was the prettiest girl in our class {but keep in mind we have a super small class}. Then, I wanted to go out and he pretty much said no bc he thought I was ugly. Since, then we're still friends, but I have no self esteem. Guys give me compliments, but it doesn't matter bc I always think back to what that guy said. I'm just confused because there's always "accidents" in which he'll hit my ass or boob, but I'm the only girl it happens to with him. Everyone thinks he likes me and that I like him. I just don't know what to do, I moved on but then he kept coming back and flirting so, what should I do? sorry its long, I do rate!!
He's definitely not worth it. Even if he DOES like you, thats not the way to show it. Hes being too forward and you need to tell him to stop if that happens. You can do better than that.Good luck!
so there is this boy i like named brandon. and he just got out of a long term relationship with a girl who treats him like shit. he has liked me and i liked him for the longest time and he invited me over to play video games with him tomorrow. Since he is finally single and willing to make out and stuff i dont wanna just play video games. i wanna make out with him what should i do?
play video games for a little bit then make an excuse that youre bored... wind it down and ask if he wants to just talk.. then things should go good from there. good luck!
hey. ok im like really scared because my parents have already been in a divorce once and i think it's going to happen again. my step-dad smokes pot and my mom is like an alcoholic and always comes home late. he always says that he's moving out and going to get a lawyer but he never really does anything. and like if he moves out then me and my mom have nowhere to go because my dad moved away. and my mom is also like really mean to me. i dont know if she cares where i am or what i do but im just scared where im going to end up, advice?
im really sorry about your situation.
are you an only child? if you arent and have an older sibling you need to talk to them about it. if you are then you really need your dad right now. call him and tell him whats going on. also if that doesnt work you should go to a social worker/therapist to work through your issues with your mom. i really hope things get better for you... good luck!
ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!!
i think youre just unsure of what you want right now. i was the exact same way with my bf of like 4 months. i dumped him and started liking him again. he STILL likes me after dumping him 2 times. you should wait awhile before you really know if you still like him or not, bcuz if the same thing happens then his heart will be broken. good luck!
Hey, I was wondering if annyone has a good exercise plan and eating plan for a more healthy diet. Im not fat, Im about 110 llbs, but my goal is to get a flatter stomache and toner bod. Any ideas? Thanks!
Hey-- a good way for a flat stomach is pilates and eating healthier. watch your calories and do crunches every night.. it really helps.. good luck!
14/f. My boyfriend of about two weeks is named Dylan. I really like him and I love being with him but the problem is my friends (both girls and boys). They ALL don't like him because of mainly two reasons. One is that he is sort of mean to them (jokingly though). And two, they say I ditch them for Dylan. I actually only ditched them once for him but still. It was so much easier when I was single to hang out with my friends and have a good time and remain part of the group. All of my friends REALLY make it seem like I have to choose between Dylan and them. And when I asked them about it, they said they didn't know what I was talking about. But their actions speak louder than their words. I know if I break up with him things will be a lot easier for me but I would still like him. I feel almost as if my friends have forgotten me because I'm with him. What do I do?
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I know exactly how you're feeling. My friends were not a big fan of my boyfriend of about 3 months. You need to explain to your friends that Dylan is very important to you and point out the good things about him. You should tell Dylan to be more respectful of your friends because theyre very important to you. Also you should take some time from Dylan and hang out with your girl friends more often. Don't break up with him if you two really like eachother. Hope i helped and good luck!!
I'm 13, 5"1, and 110 lbs. i know... a little chubby. i used to be pretty happy with myself until i started gaining weight. now that summers here i really want to look good in my bikini.. any tips? thx alot
I know exactly how you feel. I struggled with the same thing.. unhappy and felt i was overweight. i think in your case you should try pilates to target your stomach and thighs... its really relaxing and helps alot. just stay active and eat healthier and u should be on your way to losing about 5-7 lbs in a few weeks. good luck!