I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do?
southernchick_1988 answered Saturday June 3 2006, 4:58 am: If you like him stay with him. 5 weeks isnt that bad. My boyfriend went to Iraq for 7 months and I stayed with him. He is about to leave in January for 6-8 months and you better bellive I will still be with him when he leaves and when he omes back. If you like him dont give it up because of 5 weeks not see him. It will fly by. Yall can talk on the phone and write letters. It will be romantic and not only that maybe the time apart will be good. Make sure that yalls relationship is worth keeping. [ southernchick_1988's advice column | Ask southernchick_1988 A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Friday June 2 2006, 11:26 am: 5 weeks is alot and you won`t see each other so things might get out of control so just take a break & go out after you come back. [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
MiSSbRoKeNheArTeD answered Thursday June 1 2006, 11:06 pm: well explain to him that you still have feelings for him,tell him to call you/send letters something to keep in touch with you while your gone.dont say go on a break cuz thats just about the same as breaking up.if hes true to you he wont cheat while your gone!=D [ MiSSbRoKeNheArTeD's advice column | Ask MiSSbRoKeNheArTeD A Question ]
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Thursday June 1 2006, 6:23 pm: If you love him, stay with him. Distance is hard, but if he is truly worth it, it will all work out for the best and make your relationship stronger. Think of it as a test..Hope this helps.
-cindy <3 [ CiNdYLoUwHoO's advice column | Ask CiNdYLoUwHoO A Question ]
soendearing answered Thursday June 1 2006, 5:46 pm: Nothing can stop love.
Distance shouldn't too much of a problem if it's not permanet. If you accually care, you won't break up with him, because you wouldn't want to lose him just because you have to go away for a month and week.
x3x3GRACiiE answered Thursday June 1 2006, 5:11 pm: dont break up with him.. if you like him that much you should never leave him just for distance. Call him daily and keep in close touch and keep telling him how much you miss him. things should work out after that. Good luck! [ x3x3GRACiiE's advice column | Ask x3x3GRACiiE A Question ]
barreldreamer101 answered Thursday June 1 2006, 3:30 pm: Hunny if you like this guy you need to stay with him you could call him and stuff like that but you dont want to mess somthing up over a trip. Ok say another girl likes himand is just waiting for yo uto breake up with him then you no wha he coud be gone and you may not have another chance with him! [ barreldreamer101's advice column | Ask barreldreamer101 A Question ]
Viviana answered Thursday June 1 2006, 3:19 pm: If you really liked your boyfriend,Stay with him.I know what your going through.5 weeks is a long time but over the weeks keep in touch with him call him or however you can talk or write to him.It will be awhile until you see him.When you talk to him tell him the plans that you should do as in going out and have fun and be together with him when you get back home.Once you do, do the things you planned to do with him.Hopefully this would work and if it does I'm happy for you it did. : )
TANNEDxGLAMOURx answered Thursday June 1 2006, 2:51 pm: The only reason you should break up with him, or take a break is if you think that during the five months that you are gone, you might hook up with someone else and you don't want to cheat on him. Or vice versa- like if you think he'll cheat on you while you're one. Stay with him if you trust each other. [ TANNEDxGLAMOURx's advice column | Ask TANNEDxGLAMOURx A Question ]
Koskoboy answered Thursday June 1 2006, 2:50 pm: okay, well this is a GREAT qustion for me to answer, i had a girlfriend who liked me a lot and i liked her a lot...something big happened and she wanted to take a "break". but we never got back together after a month, she always said one more day and we be back....but i feel different about her...if you completely deeply love him then stay with him even though you never will see him, write him letters, or emials, or pictures or anything that will tell him you love him still, AND if you think he will cheat on you, don't worry i am sure he wont, but tell a friend to keep an eye on him, but i'd think taking a break would change you two's relationship a lot so STAY together [ Koskoboy's advice column | Ask Koskoboy A Question ]
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