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hey people.this is melia.um im really good at advice.especially givving funni advice!=D um i have reallyy good advice on STYLE and BOYS/FRIENDS.ask me nething.♥Melia

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so i was wondering how do i get FADES to save on AIM. copying and pasting them doesnt work

go to xanga and then blogrings.then type AIM fades...find a group.then if you find a good site you should c&&p the code it has under the fade.thats the only way it shows up.
♥MeLiA

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where can you get a playlist on your myspace? i tried webjay.com but its gay and wont even load lol
thanks

um wow.go to myspace music....like whr it says home at the top its like far right from whr that is.search music artists on thr.

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now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne?

i just notice it.nothin more.

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I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do?

well explain to him that you still have feelings for him,tell him to call you/send letters something to keep in touch with you while your gone.dont say go on a break cuz thats just about the same as breaking up.if hes true to you he wont cheat while your gone!=D

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i'm 19 years old and a female and was sexually abused when i was very yound by a babysitter. i am not worried about this and dont feel it affects me that much and i am quite open with this fact and the people who are close to me know about it all. The problem is that when a guy wants to get close with me i just seem to panic and just feel well out of my comfort zone. especially if its a boyfriend and its sexual. i have had sex in the past and the guys know about it and are very conciderate of it. But yet i still dont know when its affecting me like this. or even if it is that is the reason why. just finding it very difficult to get close to a bloke. i have loads of guy mates which i mess around with alot but i dunno its just so confusing. could you please enlighten me on this if its possible.

its pretty normal to freak out when people get close to you after a thing like that happening.
i would maybe just try not to think about the past and focus for the present!=D

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I wanted to buy a spray I can put on at the pool that'll make my hair smooth and non frizzy but like leave it in its natural curls until I can get home and wash it. I think garnier makes something like this, but do you guys know of any product that might be related to what I'm looking for? Thanks Guys =)

yeah garnier frutis makes like sleek and shine or sumthin like that.its pretty good but it makes your hair look really greasy/it feels greasy.personally i wudnt worri about it cuz your hair will just get wet and wont frizz until it air drys or you dry it with a towel after swimming.=D

♥Melia

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My friend gave me a bottle of purfume that she didnt want a couple of months ago. She doesn't know where she got it from, and im not sure whats it called. But im in LOVE with it. It smells awesome. It has a blue cap and the bottle starts at a blue at the top and fades to a pink towards the bottom. Its sort of tall and skinnier, not short and wide. It has 3 hearts on the bottom one inside the other. Right below the cap, theres pink chrome and the letters e s c a d a, seperated by hearts. im not sure wich order the letters are in because i dont know where the letts start and stop. if you could tell me what this purfume is called i will def. rate a FIVE and give feedback. thxx

hmm.well dontcha think that if it says ESCADA on it then its one of escadas perfumes.duhh.think here.go to google and go to images and type in escada perfume.see if any look like yurs.

♥amelia

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Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and my granny is in her late 80's,but I don't feel like it is an exusce for what she's been doing and saying to me.she tells me all the time that iam to fat for my own good and she talks really bad about my sisters.on my 17th birthday she told me my mom didn't care about me and I ended up going to my room and crying when my cousin saw me crying she tried to console me in anyway she knew how,but nothing she did or said didn't work.when I don't make my bed just right she yells at me or when I don't fold my dirty clothes she fusses at me.when my 68 year old aunt cooks my granny tells her how to do things in her own house and when my 35 year old cousin is folding clothes she stands over her like hawlk I think she can fold clothes she's 35.T

aw thats mean.um maybe shes just bitter cuz she might be sick or dying? sry if that didnt help.

♥melia

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Haha, I need someone to analyze my behaviour a bit, cause I have no clue why I do the stupid things I do.

1) Whenever I like someone, I offer to hook one of my girlfriends up with him! Wtf? O_O

2)There's this guy I like, and we've been e-mailing this whole year (since he lives on the other side of the planet haha) so for some reason I told him my computer was being taken away, by my dad, and that I couldn't keep in touch anymore, WHAT? I LIKE THIS GUY! Why in the world would make up an excuse to NOT talk to him anymore?

Let's start with that and I'll ask you the deeper stuff if I thought your advice ont his was good =) hehe, thaank you people! AND good luck with yor future "shrink" careers ;)

♥♥♥

hm.maybe yur a lezbian?just a thought.

♥ melia

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hey my sister has recently cut my hair and i really dont like it i think its too short, i was wondering if anyone has tried any hair products or has any tips on fast hair growth. thank you.

jest get extentions instead of trying 2 use chemical products....♥MiLLiE

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hey is there any way I can put on eyeliner so that it wont come off after a few minutes? I think I may have watery eyes or something but it all runs to the outer corners a few minutes after I put it on and i use a top quality one too (Rimmel London)

is there anything to help?
thankx luv
rach xxx

umm well im not sure that there is like a waterproof one sry lol but yur eyes are probly watery and jest dont rubb yur eyes..you cant really help it if its just yur eyes.. sry if i didnt help..♥MiLLiE

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Okay Me and My boyfriend have been going out for about 2 -3 months wait well i don't know really. So my ? is that lately I have been noticing that I've been getting jeleous because i know a couple of girls that said if you weren't going out with him i would like him and then a girl told me that she liked him. I feel lucky to be his girl but I also feel like he would one day get tired of me and dump me and then go out with another girl. Is there any way i could forget about it or am I just being stuck up and Jeleous????

well i no i get jelous sumtimezz too..i mean hoo dusnt but no yur not being stuck-up..i think yu mite jest be a lil parinyod....thats not really bad but maybe just take all the jelousy off your mind..one time i got a threat from a chick hoo liked my old b/f it was really weird..lol but ya grlz mite flirt with your boyfriendd n stuff but he likes you n thats y yur goin out n if he dont then hes a major jackass...hope that helped!
♥Amelia

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i know this is weird but why are some mean people popular, why would you wanna be friends with a mean person

just wondering?

um your question is stupid and doesnt make sense.
♥MeLiA

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Okay I am doing really bad in Spanish and I dont really know what to do. I know the words and everything but my sentances arn't good at all. And I dont get how to put all the words together. Help por favor!!

Gracias

well my one friend sam noes one easy sentence in spanish its....YO FIESTA IN LOS PANTOLONES...haah
♥MiLLiE

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Im a 13 year old girl and i was wondering if anybody knew any good work-outs for abs. i'm not considered over weight or anything, i just have a little bit of stomache fat i would like to get rid of. any ideas other than yoga would be great
thanks in advance

my boyfriend says to do 500 sit ups and push ups every day!♥MiLLiE

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ok should i wear i water bra because my boobs are just to small

hha wtf??um i wudnt no!?...♥MiLLiE

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do lg phones get a lot of service and are they good phones that are worth buying?

LG stands for lifes good its just a brand i think cuz i have a cingular LG so it doesnt really matter i think or its the service you have...♥MiLLiE

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ok i have writen before about me not wanting to be lesbians but i just cant help it. i like boys and everything its just that when i see a girl i look at her booty, her breast, her face, and i see how big her breast and nipples are compared to what i really like. i dont mean to but it is natural i guess. anyway how can i stop being lesbian and if i cant stop how do i find a girl that is my age in my area without everybody knowing? please help me!
i rate high for good answers!!1

WHOA THERE!!!!!!!ok just stop now!i think you might be lesbian if you look at ALL of that stuff im not tryin 2 be mean but that pretty much sounds like it...your probably a bi-sexual not a lezbo..hah ok sry!hope that helps!
♥MiLLiE

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hey when im downloading songs to my iPod or just charging it... it always says "Do not Disconnect" when on my computer it says "Ok to Disconnnect". What does this mean, and what can I do to make it stop? Thank you in advance

well i have an ipod too and i wud guess that yyur ipod will be updated and then maybe its charging the battery?if not then im sorry i dont no!♥mELia

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will u go out wit me

haha umm i dont no hoo this is and i have a boyfriend sorry!♥MiLLiE

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