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------5/21/05------Woah! I haven't updated forever! And I'm reaaalllyy sorry. =( But I'm now answering ?'s asap!The baby picture: Thank you www.dolliecrave.com

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Hi everyone. I recently bought GHD straighteners and they're fantastic. The thing is they're really really hot and my hair is badly burning when I use them I have tried many hreat protective sprays example L'Oreal but the heat seems to be to intense. As i'm from the U.K i may need somebody who lives there but maybe people from the U.S etc can give me some web sites. thanxs alot. Im scared my hair may fall out!!!!

The only thing I can think of is that you are straightening it too much. Only straighten it one time a day at the max.


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well i found out that this guy likes me and ive liked him for ages but he never knew that. well anyway weve been txtin each other and chatting a lot and he know that im interested b/c i told him i liked him when he sais he liked me. well this was like a month ago and nothing happened. he hasn't asked me out or anything. we were going to meet up to go to the cinema but he sed he couldnt go at the last minute b/c he was grounded. so is he interested or not? i just feel like hes messing me around and i really dont want that but i dont want to give up on him if he is just shy (which i hear he is) so is there hope or not?
please help

Maybe since you are more than friends now, he is not as comfortable. He's proboblly scared that he will lose you. So always have hope. Call him on the phone, MAKE him hang out with you sometime.


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I really need help. I need to get over this guy. i was until he told me he missed me. i hate for it. then when i confront him about it he says"i dont need anything from you anymore". i know hes a slimball.. i need to stop thinkin about him and i cant. i find myself always thinking about him, and how it used to be when we went out. A MONTH AGO. i need to stop this and move on. help me out please. i have to stopp srying over him.. hes dumb.

thanks

Well, first, have you thrown away every picture of him? Anything he gave you? Any stuffed animals to chocolates?
Now sit down and write a list. A list that has ALL the negative things about him. Even the tiniest things. (Example-He has giant nose hairs...EWW!!) Read it over when you are done and laugh at him.
Then feel a little better for taking a big step to forget about him.


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ok...theres this boy and would giving him a question sheet like "would you go out with blahblah? ______" be a bad idea? Would he not answer the questions or something?I need some creative way on paper to ask him out...plz help!!

Well, don't make it too long, it might freak the guy out. But put enough info on there too. Put something like this:
"Hey *his name*! Wanna grab a slice of pizza sometime?
PS Call me at *number* and maybe we could arrange something.
From,
*name*"
Short and sweet, and a bit mysterious. That isn't too much info for him to know EVERYTHING about you. If babbled on and on, then he would NOT be too excited to meet you.

Sorry took forever to answer.

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At like the middle of the school year, I noticed this guy who would always stare at me. I've totally fallen for him. He stares at me every day, and sometimes when I look back he has like a weird smile on his face. When ever I stand by him I can see him blushing. It's almost the end of school and I want to let him know that I like him. I'm really shy so if I could get my friends to help that would work out better. Any suggestions?

Well, you could write your # in his yearbook, if he gets one. Or you could give him a note, but if you are REALLY shy, have your friend(s) give it to him. Have it just say something short and sweet, not long and draggy. Good luck!


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I need a work-out routine that will make me loose a little weaight, but I want more like a flatter stomach (I'm really stressed & thats where the stress seems to go) & a 6-pack, & maby some arm musscle, I'm fairly thin, I'm 14/M & I'm about 5'2 & I weaigh about 110 or 115, & I'm not doing this cos I wanna be on a sports team, but cos I'm made-fun of alot, & I think if I possibuly looked better, maby that would decreese, so alls I want is some arms mussles, a flater stomach, & a 6-pack. & I wanted to know a good routine that I could use for that & a good diet. I'm 14 & so I don't have SO much accses, like I can't go to the gym, but I can go for walks & stuff

thanks!

Run. Stretch for 30 minutes doing the crunches, push-ups, hamstrings, quads, triceps, biceps, ect before you do your running. Set up a goal each time time you run. Example-I will run 2 laps in 3:00 minutes. Start from little, and make the experience fun. Run with headphones on! =) If you aren't enjoying this, try something else easier like just stretching or going to the gym.


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so I've never been kissed but pretty soon its gonna happen and well, will he know? I dont wanan tell him just because its kinda embarassing. But can he tell? !! thanks.

The moment will come soon, and you will both know it is coming. Relax, it will be fine!


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ok so people keep thinking im in like 10th/11th grade when im only in 7th(im 13) and its really weird and it just started happening like a month ago...and these older guys will try to pick me up..and when they ask my age and i say 13 they go...ur kidding right? i know this should be like a good thing but its kinda creeping me out

Hey, it's better than having people your age thinking that you are five years younger. That's how it is with me.


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okay so whenever i tell myself to not eat some kind of food i end up eating it and whenever i promise my self to go run i cant.. so how can i keep these promises to myself and go out for a run and not eat certain kinds of foods ?

Well, you could tell your parent(s) or sibling(s) to nag you on about it. That always gets me going! And you could clear away all of the food that you shouldn't eat into a certain section somewhere, blocked off.


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Alrighty... well I'm 14 and I weigh 90lbs and I'm about 5'2"! Well I can find some pants that fit me in my thighs.. I usually go for 0s but I have to find the ones with really skinny legs so they will fit tight on me! I wish my thighs were bigger.. and if I like try to eat fatty foods I'm sure that it won't all go to my thighs, so.. I wanted to make them more muscular so they can fit tightly in all my pants! What are some exersizes I could do to make my thighs bigger? It's almost summer break and I was thinking I'd want to go into 10th grade and have more muscular legs..so I could work on it! Any ideas? Thanks in advance

Well, eating fatty foods, like you said WON'T do anything....it will just make you unhealthy! That method doesn't work usually. So I would suggest the quad stretch, the hamstring stretch, and maybe running up and down your stairs, if you have them. Good luck!


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I used to be in gymnastics but I quit and I lost all my flexibility, now my dance teacher is expecting me to do the splits and I can't!
I can't even touch my toes without bending my knees anymore!
How can I get my flexibility back apart from practicing loads, haha?

Well, the only advice I can give you is practice makes perfect.


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how do i get rid of stress. like a stress reliever. if it matters it is over boy troubles. Thx!!!! plz answer.

Um, any sport maybe...or taking a bubble bath...or listening to music helps me.


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i was practicing with using tampons. ive never had my period before. i just wanted to know how to use them before my time comes. after i had used a few, i finally got the hang of it and completey inserted one. i pulled it out and it had bllod only on the tip. what is this? please help.

Don't use it if you haven't had your period yet!


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a lil longer answersplease?

huh


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what is the meaning of life?

A journey towards home (heaven)


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Well I'm an A-cup and it's really hard for my to find good, ok-priced bras..Victoria's Secret is cool but it's too expensive! But anyway, where can I buy a bra that I can wear with tank tops...don't say strapless because they'll fall right off of me! Also, don't say walmart or target..:-\ Just tell me what kind of bra I should wear! Thanks

A sport bra w/ thin straps.


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Me and this guy are thinking about going out in a week. He has a lot going on, and wants to make sure he'll have plenty of time for me. I have a friend, SC, and we hang all the time. I think she might like "Eddy" but I'mm not sure. She makes fun of him sometimes, but gets jealous when i walk, talk, or hang out with him. He asked if she would get mad if we went out, and I'm afraid now she will. Should I go out with "eddy" anyways, and hope she gets over it? Cause i really really like him, but i really love my friends most the time... Should I come right out and ask her? I rate high. thank you!

She's proboblly jeaolous cause you have a bf. It's natural.


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I think this guy is really hot. He's in 11th grade and very preppy, I'm in 9th and well... average. We've never spoken or acknowledged each other, but I figured that it would be cool to become friends with him or make an attempt. Should I try to approach him to be FRIENDS ONLY (I don't want to date him. I mean he's really hot but it's no way possible.) but I'm not sure if he may be creeped out. If I should try to approach him, how should I do it? All of my friends say go and talk to him and become friends, so does my little sister, but I'm really shy and I'm scared that someone as hot as him might not want to be friends with someone as average as me. So I'll be "rejected" in a sense. Advice? Realise we've never talked, we have made eye contact before in the band-room so I can't say he doesn't know I exist haha. But yeah.

Start random convorsations w/ him. FLirt. If you don't approch him in any way, you will regret it.


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ok so i have this bf for about 3 months...he is being mean to me..in the halls he says break up with me jokingly n tells me he would rather hang with his frinds to go airsofting than hang with me...i really like him still n all but he doesnt care about me like i think a boyfriend should...should i talk to him maybe he will change or should i dumb him...my guy friend has said to me that my bf doesnt care about me n that he is being an ***hole towards me.im confused b\c i still really like him n if i break up with him i might regret it...im confused on what to do..

Dump his ass.


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ok well last night i went somewhere and after, i went to this guys house.. we were alone and stuff and we did some sexual stuff... but like i mean i have a boyfriend... and i totally hate myself for doing this to him... i dont want to tell him, but what if someone finds out and tells him...help?

The least you can do is tell him, I mean, he needs to know.


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