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ok well last night i went somewhere and after, i went to this guys house.. we were alone and stuff and we did some sexual stuff... but like i mean i have a boyfriend... and i totally hate myself for doing this to him... i dont want to tell him, but what if someone finds out and tells him...help?
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I think you should tell him. If someone does find out, that would suck, but also if someone does find out they might tell him, and uhmm that may not end well. I think it would be best comming from you, he might be mad for a little, but he will eventually calm down and maybe you guys can work everything out?
I don't know if I helped, but I hope I did.
Good Luck!!!
-erin
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go girl u lil player
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I've been in the same situation. I did some stuff with another guy while I had a boyfriend. i felt so guilty so I had to tell him about it and he didn't break up with me and everything is great now. You need to talk to him about it. Just sit him down and say that you need to talk. Tell him exactly what happened and why and how you feel. Try to work something out and I hope it goes alright. Good luck!
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Maybe you should tell your bf first, so you don't have to be stressed about worrying if someone else told him. Plus if you don't tell him the guilt will probaly catch up to you and make you feel really bad.
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you cant keep it from him forever, you might as well tell him, but i didnt say that u might get to keep him, you might lose him for something that you did with another boy and it will hurt you forever if you dont tell him
-Suzanne-
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You should absolutely tell him..you do not want him to find out from someone else..he will maybe understand more if you tell him and talk to him about it..you should tell him how horrible you feel..i hope everything works out..<3
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you should tell your boyfriend. It would be very bad if he found out from someone else other than you. And plus a relationship is suppose to have trust, and if you dont tell him and someone else does, he will never trust you again. so if i was you, i'd tell him!!
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You should tell your bf because if you don't tell him and someone else does...he'll be really mad!if you tell him he'll realize it took u a lot of courage just to tell him.Then he'll forgive you!
Casey out
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The least you can do is tell him, I mean, he needs to know.
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you should really tell him before he finds out. if he confronts you before you get to tell him, dont lie or it will lead to more lies. just dont let it happen again. <3
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That's why it's best to be upfRont about these kinds of things. See, if he somehow found out fRom someone otheR than you, you honestly think he'll just be so willing to foRgive and foRget? It's possible he can foRgive, but he won't be happie about it, and theRe's no way he'll eveR foRget. He'll appReciate knowing this occuRRed, and he'd like it to be fRom you. Place youRself in his shoes... You Really ought to sit down with him and calmly discuss it like adults and figuRe out wheRe to go fRom theRe. I wish you the best of luck whateveR you decide to do. Hopefully I've been of some help. Know that I am always heRe if you eveR need a second opinion. Take caRe! =D
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That's bad. You should really tell him before someone else does. Sure, he will be mad at you, but he will be even more mad finding it out from someone else. Tell him you are really sorry and you made a mistake. Hopefully, he will forgive you. Good luck!
-Brianna
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That sucks! Dont tell anyone about it and hopefully this guy wont say anything eather. If no one finds out just keep your mouth shut. If you tell some people they might tell your boyfriend. I hope you didnt mean to do that to your boyfriend tho. And if for some reason he does find out explain to him. Tell him you defenetly didnt mean to do that and that you had no clue what you were thinking. x0
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