Here's the deal, I like this guy at school, and we have one class together. I'm not even entirely sure that he likes me back, but I'm willing to pursue a relationship with him if it comes up. Thing is, he's a senior, I'm a freshman, and if we considered dating each other now, summer would come and end all too soon and he would be off to college. What should I do? Get to know the guy and possibly get hurt in the near future, or move on and possibly pass up a wonderful oppurtunity to get to know someone.. Please help, I'll rate!
Signed,
Dilemma
me and my friend [ michele ] think you should go for it..cuz ull get over things lke that...nd if you're ment to be then you'll continue seeing each other, even after he goes to college, and if you're not then...you had a great summer didn't you!? lol
But trust us, if you don't go for it..you'll always be thinking of the 'what if's'.
Hope we helped!!
good luck!!
♥ erin & michele ♥
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There's this guy I like... he's amazing. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend. Hes a good friend of mine and he used to have a crush on me, and we still flirt but I keep reminding myself hes not single. I don't know what to do. On top of this he and his girlfriend never kiss, or hug or do anything girlfriend/boyfriendy stuff with eachother..and they have nothing in common.Do I wait it out? Or is there some other thing I can do to stop driving me crazy every day?
I think you should wait it out. If you tried to steal him away from her that would not end well...she could get aggresive/possesive.. and you wouldn't want to be known for boyfriend stealing would you?
Hope I helped.
Good luck!
♥erin
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait?
Personally I think you should do what's best for you. Don't let your boyfriend pressure you if you don't want it. Don't do what you don't want to do if you know you'll regret it. That would just pain you forever. I say go with your wishes!! =]
Hope I helped!!
Good luck!!
♥erin
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Ok this might sound bad, but I want everyone to think about it. I want to become anorexic, and it's not because I want to be skinny. I'm already pretty thin. The problem is my cheeks(yes face cheeks). They are chubby and not cute at all. I think not eating would make them thinner right? I'm not going to make it a big thing and not eat until I die. Once they get thin ill eat regularly again. Theres no other ways to lose weight in your cheeks right? I mean I know it sounds really dumb to do that but I'm kind of desperate here. Is it that bad? Do you think I can get really sick? Will it work if I become anorexic?
Are you really serious!? ANOREXIA!? Let's see, reasons why NOT to do this:
1. You WILL NEVER WANT TO EAT AGAIN.
2. YOU MIHGT END UP KILLING YOURSLEF THIS WAY.
3. THERES NO WAY IN FUCK YOUR CHEEKS WILL GET THINNER THAT WAY, WELL UNLESS U SHRIVLE UP ND DIE.
now that we have seen the three reasons why not to do this, lets give some fun facts (YEY FUN FACTS!!)
Fact for #1.
Your mentality will change and though you may want to eat, you on't be able to. Your mind is like NO FOOD DUMBASS!! so uhmm you WILL die from this.
Fact for #2.
You might end up killing yourself this way because anorexics die because they neglect themselves. They do this because they think they will become preetier if they becom skinnier, (your cheeks won't get skinny this way)they deprive them selves of natural needs...not good AT ALL.
Fact for #3.(whoo hoo fun fact #3!!)
Your cheeks won't get skinnier this way unless, unless you consistantly don't eat till you die. You will not realize it untill it's too late.
Please don't become anorexic, I'm positive your cheeks don't suck.
Hope i helped you...GOOD LUCK!!
♥ erin
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So my boyfriend and I started officially "going out" on wednesday. Whereas before we were just dating and such. We were never really talked on the phone before other than for him to call and make plans and to tell me he was coming to get me. So anyways I would really like to talk to him, I texted him yesterday but he hasnt called me yet. Do I just wait untill I see him again or untill he calls or do I just get over it and call him.....(thanks)
If it were me I'd most likely call him. But that's just me. I don't think I would go crazy trying to get him on the phone, but I would at least try.
His crazy work schedual may be why he hasn't responded yet, but I think you should call him.
uhm hope I helped.
good luck!!
-erin
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ok well last night i went somewhere and after, i went to this guys house.. we were alone and stuff and we did some sexual stuff... but like i mean i have a boyfriend... and i totally hate myself for doing this to him... i dont want to tell him, but what if someone finds out and tells him...help?
I think you should tell him. If someone does find out, that would suck, but also if someone does find out they might tell him, and uhmm that may not end well. I think it would be best comming from you, he might be mad for a little, but he will eventually calm down and maybe you guys can work everything out?
I don't know if I helped, but I hope I did.
Good Luck!!!
-erin
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ok, so i am/was really good friends with this girl. she was new to our school nd just because she was new and not totally ugly, every guy fell in love with her, and is in love with her. but, she really isnt that pretty at all , she has big boobs, but i have the same size, she is no skinnier than me, she is a size larger, and im a better cheerleader than her, but they still like her only because she is new. its not her personality cause she is kinda annoying. and she is leaving our school next year but for some reason they think they still have a chance with her. but, i still dont get why everyone likes her better? please help me understand. i rate 5 for not bad advise.
-jazelle
Jazelle, you seem a tad jelous. I think you need to stop thinking about how much the guys like her. She is leaving your school next year right? So just ignore her, no one ever said yo had to like her/get along with her. Also why do you care if the guys like her? Seriously...you said she was annoying so once they see the true her they'll go back to you, DUH..lol...no but seriously, don't worry about it, everyone has their 15 minutes of fame and hers will end soon.
Hope I helped.
Good luck!!
-erin
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O.k so my freiend has feelings for me (love feelings). I 'm not sure what to do. When she told me I told her I was flattered and I was but its been really awkward trying to make conversation since. We used to mess around and call each other "sexy," so I assume she got the wrong idea. The other day she sarted feeling me up and iI told her it was wrong and Iw asn't into girls as much as she is. I don't know what to say or do to make her realise I don't fancy her. Any advice,I rate a five for any good advice.
p.s I'm a 16 year old girl. Don't reply to this if your going to give me shit about being shallow, cause I don't care what you think!
Thanxs. xox
Hey! Well if you don't like your friend tell her. It's not right to let her go on thinking "something" could form or happen between you two. Telling her you don't "fancy" her maybe the only way to cool her down a tad. So if you go on with out telling her, she may get the wrong idea and continue with her way of thinking.
I really don't think I helped at all lol but uhm I hope I did!!
Good luck!!
-erin
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!
*depressed and sad
Ok well, I'm really shy too. But sometimes after I finally do annoy myself, or my friends annoy me enough I go and talk to the person. I start off with 'hi', he usually continues the conversation. I don't know if your person is like the people I've talked to but after 'hi' nd him going 'hi' nd me going 'what's up?' the conversation usually carries on from there.
I would say try that, hopefully it will work for you.
Hope I helped!!
Good luck!!
-erin
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ok so i have this friend and she went to this one school untill the end of 6th grade and then she moved to my school and she is my friend now (im in 8th grade now) and so we went to the track meet and i met some of her friends from her old school and so i talked to them and then when i got home i taked to them on the internet and asked them who they thought was hotter and they said that i was and so when i went to school the next day she wanted to know what they said about who was hotter and i told her that they said that i was hotter then she was and so was like no seriously what did they say and i told her that they said that i was hotter and she goes stop lying and i was like im not lying b/c that is what they said and she was like no tell me and i said it again and she was like oh well then they must have just said that to make you feel better about yourself and i was like no b/c i talked to them on the phone too and she was like im sure that they were just making me feel better and they thought that i was hotter and my friend (lets call her Lee) well lee isnt that pretty she weighs more then me and her hair is all frizy and i am 5-2 1/2 and weigh 105 and my hair isnt frizzy oh and she has acne too and i dont ppl keep telling me that i am prettier then her and her boyfriend told me that too so i dono y she would say that they were lying to me and i am a teen runway model can someone tell me whats wrong with her? i rate 5's for good and not stupid answer
Wow
Ok well, your friend obviously thinks she is god's gift to the world. "Lee" is most likely a little jelous because people she has possibly known all her life like you better, or well at least think you are hotter. There is nothing wrong with her except the fact she is cocky and possibly has a big ego and thinks higher of herself then others. So if she tells you that people were lying to make you feel better about yourself, don't listen to her she probubly has a jelousy problem, and a big one too!!
Oh well, i don't know if i helped, hope I did.
Good luck.
-erin
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okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you
TELL SOMEONE!! Not just anyone though, tell someone who WILL do something, like your parents or the police. This dude has some serious issues. If you don't do something now (not to scare you) he could get worse, and possibly dangerous if he isn't already. If you tell your counselor, they might call him in and that could piss him off. That might not end well, but if u tell ur mom and/or dad they WILL call the police and they WILL protect you from him. Then you should get a restraining order because it would help a lot. Until then I think you should not show in any way signs of leading him on, or anything like that.
Hope I helped!!
Good luck!!
-erin
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Hi my name is aaron. i used to have alot of friends most were girls and lots of girlfriends. But now none of them relly pay attention to me do any girls know what i can do to get them to like me...i have hered about ignoring them
IGNORING US??
Uhm no, if you are being ignored by girls then how is ignoring them back gunna work? [lol]
NO dont ignore the girls seriouisky...it is something that will suck...we hate being ignored. maybe you should try to talk to them...i think that just mite work..i mean if i were being ignored id kill sum1 lol no jk but i wud hate it sooo much nd i wud hate the person too.
but i think you shgould talk to them, try to be friends, and flirt.
hope i helped.
♥ ERiN
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Hey theres this guy that really likes me and i like him too alot... but online andon the phone in person hes not that great looking..at all .. most of my freindsare like eiww u can do better but i feel so bad for him cus thats just so shallow of me but i cant help it that im not attracted to him.. i just feeel bad.. shouldi go out with him anyway?
If I were you I wouldn't care what my friends said. If I liked the dude, I'd go out with him!! You say you like him a lot and yet you say ur not attracted to him.[does that make sense?]
So I think that if you do really like him you should go out with him. But, if you don't, I think you should stop leading him on. [If you continue to lead him on, you'll feel worse till u tell him.]
Good luck!
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