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stalker...
okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you
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talk to him first and hopefully he will understand,thats horrible.. just tell him he needs to chill out and you like him as a friend and he wouldnt want anything bad to happen, and if he doesnt stop then your parents will know and possibly the school, goodluckxox
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Wow! You should tell your a parent or adult you really trust. Talk to a guidance couselour at your school or something. You need to get help right away. That's a really hard thing to deal with, i feel terrible for you. What you really need tho is an adult!
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Tell your parents. Let them deal with it for you. :)
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TELL SOMEONE!! Not just anyone though, tell someone who WILL do something, like your parents or the police. This dude has some serious issues. If you don't do something now (not to scare you) he could get worse, and possibly dangerous if he isn't already. If you tell your counselor, they might call him in and that could piss him off. That might not end well, but if u tell ur mom and/or dad they WILL call the police and they WILL protect you from him. Then you should get a restraining order because it would help a lot. Until then I think you should not show in any way signs of leading him on, or anything like that.
Hope I helped!!
Good luck!!
-erin
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i think you should tell someone b/c if not it will get worse and you might get scared even more
luv nicki xxxx ♥
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Mention it to a counciler, but don't count too much on it. They won't do anything. Go stright to the police after school and explain everything to them, tell your parents, and make sure you lock your doors and windows. The police will take you serously most likely. Also, make sure you do abolutely NOTHING to even hint at leading him on. Make sure you talk to the cops.
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OK this kid is a freak! what kindof person stalks their crush like that?! i mean ya staring at them or trying to talk to them is normal, but wanting to die for you and knowing everything about you is pretty freaky!!!!! stay as far away from him as you can and talk to ur parents or a counselor
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Contact the police immidiatly! You and him could be in danger! You both need protection. he needs counselling and you should get a restraining order on him so he cant come near you. I hope everything works out.
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he is definantly a stalker... the way you are discribing him... you should tell someone... no one wants anything to happen to you... go to the police or a councelor... do this asap... hope i helped... good luck
Gomesy
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Wow! If it scares you that much, tell your mom. Maybe you can get a restraint order. That is harassment. He could just be like in love with you, but that can get out of hand and he could get possessive. Just give it some time, and if he gets worse (like acting more creepy) deff. tell your mom or someone! Good luck and stay safe!
-Brianna
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