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hey, whats a good name for a female golden retriever? my family is getting a puppy but we need to give her a good name... any ideas?
thanks in advance
Abby, Maggie, Daisy, Lily, Rosey, Sadie....
thats pretty much the best ones i can think of
~Steph
Okay, My name is melissa, and i'm fifteen. Theres this guy at my school who keeps calling me fat. He says that i'm obese and that i should just stop eating!!! The problem is, that i'm 5,4 and i'm 105 pounds. I dont think that's fat, and all my friends say i'm stick thin....but, i dont know. If he calls me that, do other people think that? And...if not, how do i get him to stop?
Please help! I rate high!
~Melissa~
what a total JERK!!! 105 for your age is a wonderful size!! you are definetly not fat....i highly doubt other people think that about you, if he doesnt stop soon just tell a counselor or tell him that he shouldnt waste his time in life telling people whether their fat or not....he sounds extremely stupid
Good Luck
~Steph
i need a super cute idea for how to ask someone to homecoming! but i'd really like it to be orginal.
get a bucket and fill it with swedish fish or any kind of candy fish..buy a cheep kid fishing pole to put in it and hook a paper on it that says "I'd be the happiest fish in the sea if you would go to homecoming with me" at night, set it on their doorstep and run...
Good Luck!!!
~Steph
Alright I have been battaling eating dissorders for about 2 years now.. but i have thought i was fat sense i was about 7.. I thought i was done with the whole problem until i just made myself puke.. It would help if I just had someone to talk to =/ Im not sure what to do. Im not going to tell my parents or any adults or anything cause ill go to a hospital! please help me!
I highly think you should talk to an adult...just because if it gets too far it can be deadly...i'm sorry you have this problem, but sometimes it can be serious..so maybe you should really rethink not telling your parents or if you are religious..try praying about it, if you're not religious ignore what i just said..anywayz i hope you take my answer into consideration
Good luck, i'll pray for you!!!!
~Steph
Is it true that if you drink a lot of water at night you'll look healthier and your eyes will not look so tired in the morning??also...is there a such think as drinking TOO MUCH water? thanks!
water is definetly a great way to look healthier and be refreshed...but drinking too much water like a gallon a day...not that anyone really would but...it can cause your brain to expand somehow and it will have no room so you will die...i'm sure you'll be fine tho, cuz it takes quite a bit of water to die....it actually sounds hilarious to say that you can die from drinking too much water...who would've thought?
anywayz i hope you take my answer into consideration..good luck!!
~Steph
If your spouse passes away, when is it appropriate to take off the wedding ring? I realize that this is dependant on the specific individual, so if I may rephrase this:
How do you know when it's TIME to take off the wedding ring.. if there IS a such a "time"?
i think you should take the ring off when you feel ready, and if you plan on meeting new people
~Steph
Okay, I am a catholic and christian. Have been for my whole life. I go to church every sunday, and pray every once in a while, not as much as I should. I do believe in Jesus Christ and have strong faith, but lately I have become obsessed with exorcism rituals, paranormal, and OBE's(out of body experience rituals) I have tried many times to have them and they actually work. Sometimes I feel like something is trying to enter my body when I do this, but before hand I come out of it like Im fighting it off.. I am scared that I could possibly one day become possesed myself. After I saw the movie The exorcism of Emily Rose it really made me intrested...so I am asking is this wrong and what can I do to stop this before I get deeper in?
I dont think its very good to do that, especially because of your faiths, just think...would God really want you to be possessed by the devils demons, i highly doubt that...
~Steph
I have never gone tanning and I'm kind of confused. I'm not really comftrable with people seeing my body and such, so how is it like?? Is each tanning bed in one room or all together? Do I use lotion? Any tips. Thanks a lot. I have gone mystic tanning but I can't go now.
my sis works in a tanning place, so i have seen it. ok there are seperate rooms with doors and tanning beds in each one, so it is private. so ya, but big warning, tanning can increase your chances of skin cancer, and kills brain cells...so dont say i didnt warn ya.
~steph
13F (4'10 and 85lbs) I really really want to get my belly button peirced, the thing is my mom said no I think I'm old enough but she doesn't. I'm getting to the freaking point where I'm going to peirce it myself because my mom is such a bi0tch about it. Is it safe to peirce it myself? How can I convice my stupid mom to let me get it peirced? How much does it hurt to get it peirced. And where can I get a belly button ring?
Thankks I'll rate 5's!
if i were you i wouldnt do it cuz you most likely would get an infection, and it would hurt super super bad, wow you are super small, wait til you get bigger
~Steph
how do i add someone as my favorite columist
go to their advice column, and on the left side it will say "Add as favorite columnist"
~Steph~
hey thx for ur answer, but the bump that i talked about is not in the middle its on the side of my right breast. thx again if u know anything about that please let me know. thx again.
hi, i havent been on this website for quite a while, but anywayz....do you know wut the bump is yet?
i need a web site of a place with really really cool dress cay=use im picky so can anyone help?
it cant be shipped so it needs to be a store 2!
Heres a list i bet at least most of these stores have websites:
-American Eagle
-Wet Seal
-Abercrombie
-Hollister
-Pac sun
Thats really all i can think of right now
Hope i helped!
~Steph~
okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you
OK this kid is a freak! what kindof person stalks their crush like that?! i mean ya staring at them or trying to talk to them is normal, but wanting to die for you and knowing everything about you is pretty freaky!!!!! stay as far away from him as you can and talk to ur parents or a counselor
hey im 15, and i was wondering can teenagers get breast cancer? like on my left breast i feel like some bump on the inside or something but i dont know if its really a bump and it hurts a little in that area. i was wondering could that be breast cancer? im really worried and i want to know, if any of you know what can that be, maybe its just that my breasts are still growing or something i really dont know. please help me.
I actually read a book because i had the same problem, it said that it was normal to hurt. if the bump is like poking out...then there may be a problem but if it is like in the center than it is suppose to be there.
~Steph~
(13/f)
I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do?
It is your choice who you want to hang out with and if your friends diss you for it, then they are not really your friends. As long as she is fun and you get along well, then who cares if she isnt popular..it is your choice.
~Steph~
In school there are about 10 boys that pick on me they call me names and I hate it , Once I tried to kill myself but they laughed more Please help me!
Wales Bullied
The boys probably are trying to be cool. if it doesnt stop tell the counselor, if it is so bad that you tried to kill yourself then it is serious. they can get sespended for it. Just ignore them and think about all the good things in life. please please if it gets anymore serious talk to the school counselor or principal.
~Steph~
Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???
And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high
Gomesy
I dont think it is a turnoff cuz it might actually relieve boys into having to ask you out..i am a girl and i just asked a boy out and he said yes. I did it on IM. it is easier to do it like that or to write a note, or to have your closest friends do it for you. or if ur not afraid of maybe being embarassed, just go right up and ask him.
~Steph~
Anyone have any good recipies for brownies WITHOUT nuts? I can't seem to find a good one!
Betty Crocker has some that are chewy and chocolately without having nuts...i hate nuts too dont worry.
~Steph~
I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day...
This sounds like me, but to help me do it i figured out the pros and cons of doing it and found out doing homework is better than not doing it...and if you do it right as you get it or when you have time..you will have plenty more time to laze around the rest of the day. plus you wont have to worry about it once it's done, and if it is too hard consider going to your teachers after school for help.
~Steph~
O.k so my freiend has feelings for me (love feelings). I 'm not sure what to do. When she told me I told her I was flattered and I was but its been really awkward trying to make conversation since. We used to mess around and call each other "sexy," so I assume she got the wrong idea. The other day she sarted feeling me up and iI told her it was wrong and Iw asn't into girls as much as she is. I don't know what to say or do to make her realise I don't fancy her. Any advice,I rate a five for any good advice.
p.s I'm a 16 year old girl. Don't reply to this if your going to give me shit about being shallow, cause I don't care what you think!
Thanxs. xox
That would be really awkward...first step is to maybe tell her that you are not interested in girls and that at the moment you just wanted to be friends and if that doesnt work just try to find her another girl and she'll probably forget about you.
~Steph~