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Hey beautifuls !! im here to help and i will do the best i can to answer every question you ask! okay so ask away and i promise i wont judge you!
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ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 3 months, but we havent made out yet. we hold hands and kiss, but not open mouth. we've said that we love each other, and idk. is there a problem with this? i mean we talked about it and said we're ready, but like we just cant find the right time cuz of school and stuff.
the best time would be when you leave or he leaves just hug him then go for the kiss. i mean if he sed hes ready i think that would be the easiest.
Ive got 2 friend, Tamsinn and Ben and theyre a couple. Well Tamsin wants to break up with Ben because she says he's annoying and all that...but Ben is trying to kill himself now that he heard that...I need help because i really dont want to lose a friend.
Thanks
kill hiimself? i think he needs some help .not to be rude.. but i mean thats kinda serious. i mean she shouldnt have to stay in this relationship just bcuz this boy is trying to kill himself. but i mean if he really loves her enough to commit suicide? i think she shold talk to this Ben kid and tell him she loves hiim and doesnt want to see him hurt himself. first get this all out of the way until he is calm. i mean then maybe a week later after he is calm break up with him? i dont know cuz that might make him actually kill himslef. i think the main thing rigt now would be to get help for Ben b4 its too late.
SORRY THAT IT'S LONG
Today my friend and I were sitting together in the gym and we were getting in our groups for our graduation trip. We promised each other we'd stay in the group together - just us, we actually even needed 2 more people in the group -since about three months ago. Well, we wanted to be in a group with 3 other girls, but you were only allowed four per group, but they made an acception of five if you really had to. My friend and I asked if we could room with them- they said no - two of the three girls like me.
About 5 minutes later.. she gets called over by them. I'm sitting there by myself talking to other people and she "sends a message down" saying that she's gonna stay in their group. Luckily, I found another friend to room with.
Do I have the right to be pretty ticked off, and if she apologizes or not, should I say it was rude?
yes that is incredibly wrong- i think you should consider whether or not she is a good friend. i would be incredibly pissed off. i mean if she totally i mean TOTALLY ditched you to be with other ppl? i would say yo have every right in the world to be upset. 1st off- friends dont ditch friends
2nd - she actually broke a promise !!
i've been getting headaches alot and really i mean ALOT!...ive had 3 today and ive been having them like everyday. does anyone know what could be the reason?
i used to get daly migranes and i had to get an MRi and like 10 diff. tests to see if something was wrong with my head & brain.. i didnt .. but a lot iof it was caused for both stress and certain lights. like overhead lights hurt my eyes. etc talk to yuor parents and/or a doctor
I have had a cough for 6 months after i had the cold the cough stayed i have had anti biot from the doctor but this has not stopped it when i cough i start to gag and can not get breath it is as if i am chocking.
do you have asthma?
sorry is this is long but I really need help so please don't skip over it
Ok my parents have been divorced my whole life I don't even know who my dad is. Well my mom has serious problems with finding guys. They usually beat her or cheat on her. I've had about a dozen stepfathers and all of them treat her like shit and she doesn't deserve that. Well my newest stepfather Richie has been with my mother for 2 years now and she is really happy with him. I've never seen my mom this happy before. He is soo nice to her. But the thing is he has a son (my stepbrother) who is constantly hitting me and raping me. I tried talking to my mom about it and she said that she would talk to my stepdad and my stepbrother. She did and then it stopped for a little while but then he did it again and it was even worse than it was before. He had a couple of his friends over and they thought that it would be fun to beat and rape his 14 year old step sister. I talked to my stepdad and he told me to stop making things up. He told my mother that I was making things up and they sent me to a shrink. Needless to say my stepbrother continued to do these things to me. I confronted my mother again and she told me to talk to my stepdad. I did and he told me that I was lying and that even if I wasn't I needed to get over it because we are a happy family and we all have to make sacrifices I told him that that was wrong and he hit me! Now he's been hitting me too when my mom isn't around. I don't know what to do. She is soo happy and she deserves to be. I don't want to ruin this for her. My question is should I just deal with this so that she can be happy or is there anyway that I can get help without ruining this for her?
.. this sounds a little fake.. but i will take it seriuosly in case you really are in desperate need of help -- you need to sit down with your mom. like dont just casually bring it up. like sit down with her and tell her that u are happy that she is happy and you love her. and tell her that your step brother is seriuosly hurting yu in ways. and bring up the pregnancy or w/e. but like tell her you want the best for her but you cannot be around your step brother anymore. and actually stay away from him. dont ever be alone with him. and if your paretnts are goig somewheere and leaving you 2 alone -- ask if you can come too or go to a friends house. or if he starts to hurt yo then leaves -- call 911 and tell them your alone and your step brother is hurting you and you need somewhere to go.
okay i'm a redhead and i HATE having pale skin. i use a fake bake called "neutrogena gradual tanning lotion" and i really like the color it gives me but my back always seems to get messed up. no one at home can help me with it b/c the only one who could doesn't like me tanning and just got out of surgery. so how can i get my back a more smooth color instead of jagged. i already exfoiliate and use lotion before i apply the tanning lotion. either that, or a way to tan naturally without going to a tanning place and without getting a sunburn. i rate good.
i go to a tanning bed -- but yeah high risk of skin cancer.. but yeah - i dont know good ones but i know do NOT use the neutrogena foam stuff, gosshh it turned me BRiGHT ORANGE
my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13
just hang out with friends and stay busy it really takes your mind of of it.. i mean i am totally in LOVE with this boy - but he doesnt even want to be friends with me . let alone like me as more than a friend. i mean i know how you feel. so just keep your head up !!
me and my friend want to do a duet for solo tryouts. but we dont hav a song. can you plz give me a few ideas????. thx
~natalie and hannah~
only hope - mandy moore ...my immortal - evanescence ... aint no mountain high enough - aretha franklin .. concrete angel - martina mcbride ?
Ugh I'm chinese..yeah yeah..the first thing that comes to mind are those tiny tiny eyes..whatever..but yeah i'm so insecure of myself.. is there anything i can do to make them look BIGGER?! pleaseeee..(don't say surgery!..im only like 13) but yeahh please help..here is my ratins system: (5)-great advice, (4)-ok advice but somewhat questionable :-\ (3)-about to fall off the curb kinda ok but useless advice, (2)-unhelpful and useless,(1)-if you critisize me or basically give useless advice..thanks in advance!
have you tryed eyeliner ? i am not chinese. but i have smallish eyes. like noticably small eyes. and like when i out on eyeliner and a darkish eye shadow my eyes pop. but they also somewhat look smaller. i dont know really sorry -- but it works for me .. and dont worry about ur eyes. i happen to like chinese eyes. i think they are very unique! i mean dont hate your eyes ! they are part of your backgrouns and who cares if other ppl say stuff? no one cares what they think. and if you have low confidence and are insecure just make and talk to close friends who will support you and you can talk to them about anything and everything.
I am a 27 year old female. I don't know what to do. I dated someone for 7 years and we broke up. I got married and the ex and I avoided each other for a long time. Then one day we see each other and he starts unloading how bad he feels for what happened with us and that he got hurt by a girl and realized how much he hurt me. Well, I felt I would have the opportunity to unload and now, he won't talk to me. I don't feel I can truely move on with my life. He is all I think about. Please help.
sometimes people never ever get over the people they once loved .. get a hold of him and tell him how you feel .. i mean just be friends with him - that can help a lot when you're hurt. or if you dont think you can manage being friends with him- do your best to avoid him -- just remember you only have one life to live. and you should live it the best you possibly can. do whatever it takes to be happy & live your life to the fullest
Anyone have any good recipies for brownies WITHOUT nuts? I can't seem to find a good one!
is there a recipes.com lol i dont know if there is. but its worth a try haaha.
Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
ashley
well i dont mean to be rude but i am considered one of the "popular girls" and people always talk about me and my friends.. and i dont know if it is because they are jealous? or what. i know that one girl went off on this huge thing bcuz she sed that i came up to her and hit her. which was totally not true. i confronted her and she broke down and sed she just wanted some attention and that i had it all or sumthing like that. which i find kind of sad that these girls are doing whatever they can just to feel liked and have attention.. so i told her i forgave her or w/e ..