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a wee bit over 3 months
ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 3 months, but we havent made out yet. we hold hands and kiss, but not open mouth. we've said that we love each other, and idk. is there a problem with this? i mean we talked about it and said we're ready, but like we just cant find the right time cuz of school and stuff.
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u should wait until the time is right. if u rush into things ur relationship wil end quicker. dont b afraid 2 wait. u'll know when the time is right
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the best time would be when you leave or he leaves just hug him then go for the kiss. i mean if he sed hes ready i think that would be the easiest.
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don't worry about it! When the time is right, it'll happen. In my opinion, not going too fast is better because then when something does happen, it means much more because you've waited and waited and then it finally happened. It's a lot more satisfactory than just sexing it up the first date lol. So chill out for the time being. It'll happen when it happens and don't concern yourself with it.
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aww thats a cute reliationship really! Don't worry you'll kiss when its time and you will know when to! The faster you rush into a relationship the faster it ends. I'm glad to hear your taking it slowly. Enjoy it and do worry so much. If you want to make-out tho I'd recommend kissing him on the neck when you two are alone..that says alot.
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Why not set the scene make him take you to the movies or a meal or even a walk on the beach and then you'll be ready and it will be great. Its alright to not make out with someone if you've only been going out over 3 months thats very normal because the first kiss is always hard in a relationship.
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Don't worry about doing other things, just enjoy each others company. The other stuff will come when the time is right. There is absolutley nothing wrong with waiting a while. :)
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why don't you have him over for dinner at your house on friday, I'm sure he'd love to meet your dad.
-hitler
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it was at least 5 months before i made out with my gf. we did the same things.
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Uh, yeah there's a problem! If you think that holding hands and kissing at three months isn't enough, you need a slap upside the head. Gah, I can't be the ONLY person with half-a-lick-of-sense, can I? Look, you're lucky to have someone to hang out etc. with. Pray about it, don't push the line. Don't have sex. The time will be made if it's meant to be. Be happy with what you've got. You'll realize that what you have is alot more than what other people have, and you need to be thankful. I know this is pretty blunt, but, it's the truth. Be glad that someone loves you. It's really special when someone loves another human; we're so imperfect, it's amazing that someone could love us.
-FunnyCide
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Wow! Go to the movies or something like that and you should just make the first move if he hasnt relized it by now!!!! And have one of your good friends talk to him!
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maybe he is waiting for you to make the first move! some guys are liek that! wlel good luck hope everything works out! =) x0x
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ha.. it really isnt that big a deal if you really like him then it shouldnt really matter... just wait till the time is right... you will be glad you did.. dont worry about it!!!
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no there is no problem, since you havent made out it means you care about what the other is feeling even if you both think you are ready you may not actualy be in your heart . . so wait a little longer and maybe it will just happen on the spot . . i hope i could help i hope you and your boyfriend stay togther for a long time
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