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Q: Male/17
Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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The reason there are divorces is because 1, people think a divorce will solve all their probelms, and 2, they are way too easy to get and not looked down upon as much anymore.
I think true love can exist between 2 teenagers. But the thing is, I think it can only exist between 2 mature, responsible teenagers. I can homestly say that I am one of those teenagers, and I have the same boyfriend for 2 years.
There was only one time when we broke up and that was because we were both scared since being in love at such a young age, and din't understand where the relatinship was going. We took time apart, and reevaluated our lives, but the feelings didn't fade. The love still stood there and our relationship feels just like it was when we first starting going out. We rarely fight because we know eachother so well that we understand why one of us is reacting to eachother or what we've said in such a bad way.
I just wanted to give some insight into the question from a teenager's point of view.
I do agree with you though, 13 is pushing it. When your 13 its called "puppy love." Its where you really really like someone and you probably spend too much time together for your age. I also don't understand why girls in middle school now are walking around pregnant. I used to think that was only a high school thing.
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Q: ok, im 13, and i don't no what to do, i want to start to wear makeup but i kind of don't, i mean if i do, how will i tell my mom ,and if i don't when do i start?
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instead of making make-up into a complicated things, just wear a little bit of cute makeup that goes a long way. i would just recommend an eye shadow and a lip color.. nothing more really. you don't want to get into the habit of wearing foundation, because that can lead to breaking out and then you were more foundation to cover it up. keep it simple, pretty and natural!
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Q: i was wondering what is a good sweet 16 present. my aunt asked me what special thing i wanted and right now i have no idea. im an anverage preppy girl i guess i love my hollister and would love a car but thats way out of the question. any ideas other than clothes or the normal stuff?
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how about a night out on the town..or she take take you and some of your friends out to eat..
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Q: my sister wears really slulty outfits, and i dont like it. i find it emberrsing and dont want her wearing that stuff. and everytime i tell her, she gets upset. how do i tell my sister to cover herself with out her getting mad at me.
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just turn the airconditioner up in the house and make it so cold that she has to wear more clothes...also just tell your sister your only looking out for her best intrests b/c you don't want her getting hit on by the wrong kind of guys or give guys the wrong impression.
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Q: can a doctor or whatever tell if u have already had sex? i mean how can they tell? cuz your hymen can be broken lots of ways other then sex.... and if they can tell otherwise.. then how can they tell?????????????
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Q: sometimes my face would get like really oily, and I'm starting highschool in september, and I really want to get rid of the oil. what can I use or do to get rid of excess oil for a long period of time, or atleast long enough to get me through 7-8 hours of school
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Try using a face mask, or a good scrub.
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Q: Does anyone have any tips for how to redecorate your room with very little money? I don't want to paint it or anything, but I want it to look less plain.
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I'd try moving your furniture and a different way and maybe trying to frame pictures and get them up on the walls.. also you can make and stuff your own decorative pillows. Also if you have old sheets and things that are colorful you could cut them and cover the nightstands in unique ways or other piecse of furniture. hope i helped.
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Q: I am a little over weight but my friends say I dont look as much as I do weigh.I never really seem to have time to go to the gym so what can I do around the house or neighborhood that will help me?
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Well, what I like to do and recommend for you is jumping jacks. It's good cardio wise, like running, but also works out your arms, legs, butt, and abs in one. Then you can do crunches, squats, lunges and push-ups (yuck), if you up to it. Just keeping your heart rate up for 25-50 mins 2-3 times a week can do a world of good. Drink water and try to eat little means throughout the day to keep your metabolism up. One last crazy idea, rent or by like a tayboe movie or kickboxing and start of with a beginners tape. Those can do a world of good too.
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Q: My parents won't let me remove the hair from my legs, but I do anyway because I use my dad's razor. I want to get my own razor or hair removal device but my parents won't let me buy them or else they will kick me out of the house. My friend gave me a disposable razor but it ran out and she is out of town until September. How do I get a hair removal device and how do I hide it from my parents when I have it? If it helps I am 13/f. I will rate high for good advice or a good try.
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Well, at 13 your parents should let you shave! Just walk to a nearby store or stop by a store with one of your friends and pick up a good razor thats not disposable that will last you a long time. An average razor can go quite a ways. Just keep the razor put away when your not using it and only take it out to shave every few days or so. Hope i helped :/
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Q: I have a problem. With my jansport backpack, I have 7 folders and notebooks, and I cant seem to fit all of them. The backpack is pretty good sized, but I mean, I can only fit my binder (medium sized),7 folders, and like, 3 100 pg notebooks. What should I do? I mean, dont just tell me to try to fit everything in there and then try to zip it. Believe me, I tried that. So..what should I do? Is there anything I can do??
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Well, remember you could used a locker. But, what I usually do when that happens is that I carry my binder (since its not really heavy) and leave everything else in my bag. You probaly use your binder more and would have to pull it out of your bag more frequently.
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Q: I'm actually underweight for my age and height. I need to gain weight, and i want to gain HEALTHY and SAFE weight. any suggestions?
thanks! -i rate-
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eat your recommended portions of each food group for your age and weight (which you can find on the internet) also lifting weights can increase muscle mass and give you healthy weight, if you eat well and lift weights and workout you should gain weight in a positive way on your body
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Q: how do i scrunch my hair?
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put gel in ur hair when its wet (or mouse) and hold your hair from the botton and bring your hang up like your hair is a slinky and scrunch(squeeze) it. do it all over until its curly
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Q: People say opposites attract, do people who are alot alike attract just as well?
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yes, they do and its just a saying
usually ppl that are opposite attract and later realize they have alot in common
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Q: I need a new word to substitute for "amazing" because I use that wayyy too much. Any ideas?
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how about "wicked" or how about "A to the dizzle"
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Q: I have and always have had really sore breasts, like, people poke me alot in them and it hurts soo bad, and even like if you touch them they'll hurt really bad. Im a really tiny A and im 15..are they growing? How are they growing if there still really small?? My mom's a C..will i eventually be a C, too?? Thanks for neone who helps me!!
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its probably just puberty. also sensitivity is increased b4 and during your pd.
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Q: Around what time should you take a pregnacy test? Days before your period? after your period? or at any time?
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a few weeks after your period
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Q: i straighten my hair all the time and it's just silky and straight. i have a band banquet to go to this friday and i need to know how i should do my hair. pictures would help! i'm asian with long layered hair down near my boobs. hope this helps. thanks in advance!
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oh i think it would be cute if you used a crimper on your hair and just did the layers on the top!
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Q: Ever since I started shaving I've always gotten pimples on my legs and thighs. It's really annoying because I don't get any on my face just my legs! What should I do? And why is this happening?
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Its more razor burn than pimples, but there are a few things you could do. First of all, it all depends on the kind of blade your using, one idea may to be to change to a kind that is gentler on your legs, another may to try different shaving creams and lotions after you shave. I used to have that problem and found that it was because I am allergic to shaving cream! So now I use shower gel and just shave carelly and everythings fine. GL!
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Q: I have had a cough for 6 months after i had the cold the cough stayed i have had anti biot from the doctor but this has not stopped it when i cough i start to gag and can not get breath it is as if i am chocking.
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You have crap stuck in the back of your throat. Sounds like allergies to me, with your snot goign down the back of your throat when you breath. (sorry to make it sound growse thats just the words i use).. try finding a decongestant.
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Q: okay so my hair is black and i wanted to die it brown but whichever product i tried didnt work out.. only my roots turned out medium brown and then once it gets towards my tips.. it starts to fade into black. but what am i doing wrong?
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your not doing anything wrong! Your hair is simply too dark and the store bought stuff isn't strong enough for you, or the particle brand you bought isn't strong enough. I recommend having it done by a pro or askingfor their advice on what the best storebought brand is for you hair.
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bio
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I love to give adivce I'm pretty good at it!
My names Amanda, I live in Texas and I'm almost 17! I know alot about relationships, love, sports, and just about any topic you can throw at me. I'm a junior and have aspirations to be vet, and hope that someday I could be famous for modeling or dancing.
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: texas Occupation: student Age: 16 AIM: MSN: silverstar912@hotmail.com Member Since: December 26, 2004 Answers: 151 Last Update: August 20, 2005 Visitors: 12114
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