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Is this wrong?


Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 2:41 pm

Okay, I am a catholic and christian. Have been for my whole life. I go to church every sunday, and pray every once in a while, not as much as I should. I do believe in Jesus Christ and have strong faith, but lately I have become obsessed with exorcism rituals, paranormal, and OBE's(out of body experience rituals) I have tried many times to have them and they actually work. Sometimes I feel like something is trying to enter my body when I do this, but before hand I come out of it like Im fighting it off.. I am scared that I could possibly one day become possesed myself. After I saw the movie The exorcism of Emily Rose it really made me intrested...so I am asking is this wrong and what can I do to stop this before I get deeper in?

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Additional info, added Tuesday September 13 2005, 12:30 am:
I know some have said to just stop and think what God would want, well I do. I always do. I love God, but these thoughts keep entering my mind. I even repeat Jesus's name in my head a million times when I have these thoughts, it doesn't work. They come bad. It's horrible.
Okay here is additional information for the person who asked for it.
Yes there is self-mutilation involved. I cut sometimes and pull out my hair. I wish I could stop all the time, but I always get urges and tension builds up and I can't stop pulling out my hair and slicing my arms.
I have tried to pray alot. I do it all, fold my hands and pray to God, ask him for help. I am scared that isn't enough. Or scared I am not really trying, which I think is the case. I try to pray to God and really focus but my attention wanders. I can't help it either. No matter if I sit alone in my room no disturbances my mind still wanders to evil thoughts when I pray. It's horrible. I try and fight it but it doesn't work. It's like someone is in my mind trying to take over. Sometimes what I even say to myself like everything I am describing sounds so silly to someone who doesn't believe in this. It's hard to actually think this stuff can happen, and I never really believed until these thoughts of mine ocurred.It has been going on for too long. For about 2 months. At first I would have weird starnge thoughts, then cutting began, then pulling, then I had thoughts of wishing I would be possessed and even found myself going onto websites to get OBE's and looked up exorcisms and became weirdly intrested in it. Now everytime I look at something I see it in a form of satan. I see images that remind me of demonic possesion all the time. The only thing is I don't know how I got into this position. I feel like I am going crazy. I can't stop. I'm addicted. I pray all the time, go to church, I love God......I'm just so afriad pretty soon I am going to be feed into this full force.
I'm serious when I say OBE's really do happen. It could be a dream maybe, but at least there is the possibility that it's very true. Everything is possible. But when I say I feel myself and see myself above my body I mean that. I know what I feel and I want help. I wouldn't make this up. I just feel all my muscles very tight in my body and even sometimes want to scream out while sleeping but can't. I try and move and I feel if I dont fight it I will die. Its so weird, and some doctors say it's called sleep paralysis, but I don't know. So many things are going on with me. I have OBE's, demonic encounters and thoughts, I have so many hallucinations, sleep paralysis, cutting, other self mutilation, I suffer from alot. I bet someone took me into a laboratory they would flip at all the manic obsessions and thoughts I have. I even have thoughts of suicide, I feel like something or someone in my mind is telling me to do this and someone is telling me to hurt someone else.
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DaNcE_In_ThE_RaIn answered Saturday October 22 2005, 10:26 am:
The only answer is Jesus Christ.Have you fully relyed your faith in Him?He is the only one who can help you..When these things start to happen just say no and start praying.God is more poerrful than satan and you have to understand that only Jesus can help

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thund3rstruck answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 3:16 pm:
well possion is sumthign taht catolics and christion protestns all believe in as you know the arc-diasence allows exorsicms but to do any of this rituals and not be ordained well you should go to confession and talk wit your parish priest and then stop this it may be consedered witchcraft witch the lord is against ...i dont think so buut the church is against it

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mylordwon answered Monday September 12 2005, 6:53 pm:
This is very serious. You are in a full all out war for your soul and you can't let the evil one win.

You say you called out the name of Jesus and it didn't work. I don't know what you expected to happen, but Jesus isn't going to wave a wand and make this all go away. He has the power to do that, but you have choices to make to access that power. Here is what the Bible says about conquering spiritual warfare:

Eph 6:11-17 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and
blood, but against the rulers, against the
authorities, against the cosmic powers over this
present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God,


The Belt of Truth is Jesus...Jesus is Truth. The breastplate of righteousness covers your heart. Cover your heart, protect it. Peace on your feet means walk in God's promises and you will have peace. In ALL circumstances take up the shield of faith....that means even this requires faith. Your faith will act as a shield against the arrows being thrown at you. The helmet of salvation protects your mind. The sword of the Spirit or the Word stabs satan, so get in the Word of God and start stabbing the evil one by speaking it.

You say you are a Christian, so I am assuming you are born again; that you found salvation through Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. And you believe He is the only way to heaven. Not by works or praying to Mary or going to church or anything else, just God's grace through Jesus. If this is you, then you have all the power you need to fight the thoughts satan is planting in your mind. Satan can't make you do anything; he can only influence you and try his darndest to get you to choose him over Jesus. Don't let him get you; choose Jesus!

When Jesus was in the desert being tempted by the devil, He fought off the voice of satan with scripture. You must get into the Word of God and read, Read, and READ. Pray for the Holy Spirit to show you. Here is a scripture verse that you can use as a weapon. Say it over and over again. The evil one can't stand the Word of God:

2 Corinthians 10:5 We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God and take every thought captive to make it obey Christ.

Stay in contact with me if you want. I'd be glad to do what I can.

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x_C010rMyW0r1d answered Monday September 12 2005, 4:57 pm:
Well i dont know how to answer your question .. but how do yooh do that ? like .. OBEs ? ive never heard of anyone doing that before im just curious.. But maybe if yooh explain what your doing i might be able to help ?

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Skez answered Monday September 12 2005, 1:32 pm:
Sounds like trichotillomania. I'd seek professional help, this has little to do with religion and more with your brain. It's nice (in my opinion) that you're trying to get God's help, but sometimes God can only do so much...

I'd make an appointment with a psychologist -- these things that you're seeing, feeling, and doing could have roots in depression, a manic/obsessive disorder, or other stuff. I'm no doctor, but I urge you to see one.

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DangerNerd answered Sunday September 11 2005, 3:51 pm:
Let me ask you a question to get an idea of where you are in all this:

Do you have anything going on that would be considered a compulsion? There is mounting evidence a direct link between dabbling in the occult and self mutilation.

Do you have any symptoms like that? Something you wish you could stop, but you cannot?

Add additional info to your question, and I will check later.

As far as saying "Jesus" over and over... Try "Jesus Christ, the son of God. Yeshua Hamashiach." (Yeah-shoe-a Hah-mah-she-ach Best I can do)

That is Christ's Hebrew name. His real name.

Now if you are actively seeking out communication with demonic entities, you will only improve when you decide to stop.

If you really want this to stop, get on your face and pray. Humble yourself before God, and repent of getting yourself into this.


I will include a link about self harm and the links therin in case that applies:

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If you want to know more about posession and what to do:

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Here is a site devoted to stopping demonic attacks. No matter where you THINK you are in this, you need to read this site:

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DangerNerd.

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rikatree2375 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 11:12 pm:
Okay i'm going to be honest with you because i'm a Christian and i have a friend who's gotten into literally talking with demons (what you're interested in communicating with) and now she totally regrets it. When you do these rituals you are literally inviting these demons inside of you. Since you're a Christian, Satan literally hates you because you have Jesus Christ inside of you. So he's going to do as much as he can to through you off in your faith and that includes getting you interested in these rituals and stuff. The reason they work is because this is REAL. Just as Jesus and His angels are real, so is Satan and his demons. If you continue to talk and communicate with these things then they will really mess you up. I dont want to scare you and say you'll get possessed but these things will be INSIDE of you just like Christ is right now. I'm glad you realize that Jesus doesn't want you doing this because it's wrong!!! The reason you're fighting this off automatically is because He's literally protecting you. But God does NOT approve of spiritually demonic rituals, communication, or anything of the sort. He literally condemns it all throughout the Bible. Try reading the Bible for yourself and see what God has to say. But these thoughts are coming back because you've already taken the first step or trying to do things unnatural. I'd advice you to stop immediately so things dont get worse. Keep praying to God and He won't abandon you at all. I'm also wondering if you're scared of this, why the movie made you so interested. To me, that's abnormal. You don't want to be possessed, believe me.

4Him, Disciple

My sn is rikatree2375 and my email is e.sherhart@att.net if you need to talk about this some more. I seriously want to help you out on this.

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cynicalladvice answered Saturday September 10 2005, 5:07 pm:
The exorcisim of Emily Rose is just a movie, it's not a documentary, and I doubt (no matter what they say) any of it's real. But your belifs are up to you, and only you can make decisions about it. I know it's tough, but you need to dig deep inside yourself and truly decide what YOU think about it.

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ADViCEx4xY0U answered Saturday September 10 2005, 4:04 pm:
That sounds kind of dangerous and if you're scared that you could become posessed, you might want to stop. I didn't think that out of body experiences were actually real. How do they work? Just leave your answer in my feedback comment I guess.

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DrEaMgIrL answered Saturday September 10 2005, 3:53 pm:
I dont think its very good to do that, especially because of your faiths, just think...would God really want you to be possessed by the devils demons, i highly doubt that...

~Steph

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