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hi im 14 live in newfoundland and i just like giving advice and helping out but im homest weither it nice or brutal

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Okay, I have this really good friend of mine. She and are are basically like twins, but of the oppisit sex. We've already kinda agreed to be like friends with benifits, and soon we're ganna meet eachother... Of course we're both virgins, and I wouldn't be ashamed to loose my virginity to such a great person, but I'm just kinda unsure about what its going to do with my future. We arn't together and might not ever be... But I'm just kinda worried about what kind of an impact it will have on my other relationships
-Plz Help

Don't most people end up regretting their first time to begin with and for you it is only going to be a casual thing, you should wait tell you find someone relle special in your life thety you love and who loves you back

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ok im 13/f and usually have really good eyes.... but latly when i look up after reading and stuff every thing is all blurry! puleez help!

ok theres no way to now if this is just somthign that is happening because of being focesed on one thing for a while or its acctualy a problem. Go yo an eye doctor. If this happens or you have trouble reading stuff i think you might have a stinatism and it can be fixed with eye glasses or special contacts

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How do you tell your parents that you are bisexual? Please help me!!!

ok im bisexual i havent told my parents yet and im not untill i move out of the province i live in making sure i never come back permanently but since you want to i would just sit one down that you are relle close to or both at the sam etim eit will be ok they might not approve but no matter what they will always love you

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**Caution: Very LONG**

Okay so i'm in this choir for my church and there's 5 other girls. And this boy named matt plays gutair and he always is there whenever we are. Well during the summer we went on a retreat. and i started to get these feelings when i was around him. And now i really really like him. But there's this girl lanessa who is also in the choir. she flirts with him all the time right in front of me! and she knows how much i like him to. And we went to a concert last friday right. well he was really wasn't talking to me and everything and i wanted to talk to him. and just get to know him better.. well lanessa was like all over him. sitting right next to him. flirting with him.! everything!! and now i find out that she calls him baby and there gonna go to the movies together!! i guess what i'm trying to ask is what should i do? i really truly like him. almost at the point of loving him!! and i really hurts me soo much. My heart can't take anymore of this. Every guy i've ever liked always screw me over! i've never had a boyfriend or anything! and it suxs!! I just want to know what i should do. so please if anyone has any GOOD advice for me.. please let me know!!!!

JennY!

p>S..I'll rate you for good advice!

*cough* shes a bitch *cough*, well egnore her get closer to him tlk to him dont wait for him if hes ignoring you....Try to not let your feelings take over,if you do you'll end up on drugs or alchool trust me on that its happened to me recently,if he makes you fell like shit you can talk to him about it.

hope i helped ~thund3struck

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It all started when I put on my away message “ YOUR DUCH A DUMB FUC* HAPPY ONE YEAR” and my ex-boyfriends girlfriend saw it. That away message was to my ex boyfriend lets call him *jack” jack and I went out for 7months and it was our one year anniversary 11.06.05 so that’s why I put an away message like that.


His girlfriend lets call her “Jane” she saw my away message and got really pissed and sent me an email on my space. It was saying that if I don’t get over jack that I’m going to get jumped pretty much so I thought we settled everything but I thought wrong. My friend lets call her “Jen” she rides the bus with me and she has been telling me that Jane is getting a petition going around and seeing who hates me. This is really true she’s not lying I over heard Jane talking about it.

Jane now has 40 people on the petition so 40 people so far hate me. How do I handle her? Should I fight her, leave it alone, talk to her, or make a petition of who hates Jane? But I think its immature she’s doing this so I don’t want to be immature. She’s 16 by the way and I’m 14.

thats harrasment go to the principal she can get into a lot of shit for doing that

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If you know what you are talking about please answer. I do not want some 13 year old who has no idea about this subject answering for ratings. I will not rate you if try anyway. Please no chatspeak and &hearts as well. Thank you.

I need some advice on frying. When I try to fry whatever food, it comes out greasy and not crispy. Either it is overdone, or it is underdone. It doesn't matter if it is a chicken, homemade french fries, potatoes, you name it I screw it up somehow. I have been trying for a long time, I just can't seem to figure out how to get it right. I use Olive Oil, Canola Oil, any regular frying oil. I try to keep the oil and about 350 degrees and I don't add too much food to the oil to lower the temp drastically. I do not know if it my technique or if it is the oil I am using. Any advice or tips would help greatly.

you could be using to much grease if you are then put it on paper towel or a cloth something that will sook up the grease or you are not heating the grease up enough which will make it asorb into the food a bit more easily so just do the same thing with paper towel or something to drain it

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hiii.
kay well. Im 14 and im a girl. Boys are so inmature now a days. All the guys I go out with are not good boyfriends. All they say to me is " your hot" And I really want a really long good relationship. I know thats not really possible at my age but i see it all the time. I want a guy who loves me for me and does all those cute little sweet things. Ive had a couple in the past like that but they turned out to be ass holes.
Why cant I find that type of guy?

Ok...Im a guy but like i heard one of the girls in my class say sumthign not sure exactly what but it was like"...if a guy is nice hes gay" I am gay and I believe that because all my guy friends are assholes exept one...and what XDONTXHATEX said trying to change them dont if they care they'll know that you dont like sumthign they are doing and they'll change themselves hopefully for the better if not they dont relle like ya thats the key there... and youre only 14 you have pleny of time to find sumone

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I am in ninth grade. I am doing ok in school, like A's, B's and a few C's, but my parents aren't happy. At all. They think that a B- is, and I quote, "terrible". Well, my mom mostly. She thinks that if I have time to do all the internet activity I do, then I sooo have time to do schoolwork. Like, schoolwork is the most important and excited thing in the world, right?? UGH. She was giving me THE hardest time about it. Saying that some of the A-'s---A-'s!!!---were alllmost B+, and is that good enough for my mom?? Nooooo. Just cuz she didn't finish college and only went to Santa Monica and Stern, and wants me and my sisters to be perfect students. She seriously said that I should've done the extra credit in one of my history classes b/c I should if I have the opportunity, even though I'm getting an A in that class. PLEASE. I mean, I'd much rather be having fun. My motto is to live my life to the fullest, while succeeding as well as you can. I DO NOT believe that school comes first, and no matter how hard I try to tell my mom this, she says that it's life, and I have to deal. I even reasoned---didn't argue, I wasn't nasty, I REASONED---w/ her, but her view of an opinion is "giving her lip". Just b/c I am her kid, I have to agree w/ her outlooks. And my sister is NOT helping. She does well in school, and when I even BOTHER to complain about my mom to her, she agrees w/ her. And my mom doesn't even really appreciate the things I already CAN do. Like play guitar, figure things out nice and fast w/o instruction manuals, juggle, write stories and songs, and other stuff. She just cares that I am not getting A+'s ("We feel that you are capable, and you're not showing us that"---well, maybe I'm NOT capable after all!!!), not getting together w/ every person in my class (they all hang out w/ boys!! which i am not allowed to do!!), and not setting my goal as getting A+'s and going to an IV league school. IT. DRIVES. ME. INSANE. There is this rocker chick inside me wanting to come out, but of course, I am forced to be an almost-prep b/c the only clean music is pop. Thank G-D that Jesse McCartney is good (please don't comment on that). Well, I have to go, but PLEEASE advise and don't skip, and don't say to talk. It doesn't work. (I WILL RATE 5 IF U CAN ANSWER THIS AT ALL.)

OMG we are like the same!lol I am in grade nine and my parents are the same way...I think my marks are could normally i have mostly a's on my report cards and if i have a b (mainly in frnech i do french based courses[french immersion])and they get pissed becasue im on msn a lot judt dont ccare when they start to get reel bad try not to let them know youre on the computer and make them think youre doing work...although you should do work and extra redit shit expissally if you wanna get into colage but thats what high school os for

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Does anyone take my advice seriously. Some people think that 13 year olds arent mature, but I have been known to think and act like an adult.
--curious caden--

well some are it just depends on the person but everyone wil have an immature day or moment even adluts.

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hey im a 13/m
what are some jobs i can get to make a little money?
ALL FIVES

Well you can only do stuff liek babysitting or lawn mowing small stuff like that but next year (when your 124) you'll be able to get a socials secrity number and be able to work at places that acctualy pay sumthing(sucj as a clothing store)

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I'm really close to this guy named Kevin. He's one of my best friends & I just met him about a month ago when I first moved to this state. He told me he was gay when we first met. It didn't bother me at all, seen as I have a lot of gay friends. But, this was our conversation tonight:

HIM: I love you a lot! :)
ME: Hah, you can't you're gay.
HIM: No, I'm bisexual. I just prefer guys more.
ME: Lol, well youre 75% gay.
HIM: Yeah, but the other 25% is you.


Okay, Well, basically my question is, do you think he really likes me? Like from that 25% thing? Just wondering.. Thanks a bunch.

Yah he does Im like that prefer guys but i'm in love wit a girl so he lkes you and he likes you a lot

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So is it true what they say, that once you are friends with a girl you are trapped in the friend zone forever, and it will never grow into something more? or is it just a myth?

Myth but if you take the risk it doesnt always mean that it will work out...ive seen friend be broken up before

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ok when your in i fight with someone and they say your over...is that liike another way of saying "your done" as in im gonna fight you??or does it mean something else??
please help
i rate 5 for anything resonable

It means that youre friendship or relation ship is over

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Like for winter consert... there will be few spots for solos. There will be adition in about 3 weeks. We can choose any song we want. I'd like to do one, but the problem is that have no idea what song to sing.
Can you help me?

well it depends what youlike but personaly i would try amazing grace because it shows you rskills very well
good luck

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Okay I had a weird situation.... I've liked this guy for like 7 months, well I love him.... he's bisexual, but has a crush on someone else.... which dosen't really bother me much cause we're EXTREMELY close! Anyhow, there's this new guy at work...only problem is HE'S 15 and I'm 17. Everyone says I like him or whatever, but I like to hang out with him cause we're VERY ALIKE (To the point where it scares me)....so I dunno whether or not I'm crushin on him, and then at that, there's a girl I've been thinkin about more than usual...like she's cool or whatever...but I dunno if I'm lookin at her cause I've never been successfull with males or whatever...but I dunno, I dun wanna be BI, I'd rather stay straight, but my luck with guys is horrible...but this whole thinkin about her thing has just started, it's weird....I dunno. ANY ADVICE WILL HELP.... just tell me what yall think....

Being Bi is nothing so if you are go alongi am and im happier than ever becuase i know im not confined to one ot 2 ppl i can expand my reach so I think the same will be wit you if you are heres a cd to help you feel at peice with yourself...Joy willams=artist album=genesis it awsome and well it might just be a phase your going trough a lot of ppl do so dont worry just go wit what yah got!

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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks.

I'm waiting tell i marry because i don't believe in ore-marital sex but id wait tell i found sumone that i relle like before if i can't wait for marrage

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what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :)

kaitlyn tamara dakota(m/f) joy um thats all i can think of

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13/m Hey all, I've got the longest story in the world to tell, but nobody wants to hear that. Basically, over the summer I realized that I loved one of my best friends, I told her, she's not sureherself how she thinks of me. And I'm not talking about any of that crap teenage infatuation. I know infatuation. I know love. This is love. Well, last night, I dreamt about her =D The last time I dreamt about her, I dreamt that I asked her out. I asked her out the next day but to no avail. Of course, I've been thinking about her and only her for months, ever since I discovered my true feelings. It's been making me fail my classes---like for example we just got our progress reports, and normally, I'm really really smart, I'm in all the advanced courses, but I got an F in science...

Last night I dreamt about her. It was in the middle of French class, which is weird because she takes Spanish, and her ex was there, as were my parents... anyway, at random when Madame (insert her name here) was in the bathroom, she told me how she felt: "Hey, (my name), I've been thinking, and I realized that I actually do like you as more than a friend." And she smiled, and we hugged, and I danced around the room. I made an idiot of myself, but I was too happy to care! She finally loved me back!

Well, the dream ended as we were about to kiss, because I don't think you're supposed to know what that feels like until you actually experience it. Now, why am I so obsessed with this dream? I'm not very religious, and I'm not superstitious in the least. I don't even believe in luck, with drawing cards from a deck or flipping a coin---there are variable factors that affect the outcome. So why should I be asking a question to 10,000 columnists about some stupid dream? The one supernatural belief that I have is in telekinetics, telepathy, and psychics. Especially between twins (it's a proven fact) or in dreams. Dreams frequently predict the future in my experiences, and my sister's, and my friends', and everyone's. So why should this be any different?

It feels like I'm writing a persuasive essay right now... Another reason why is because last time something like this happened, it was when I e-mailed her how I felt (I'm way too shy) not knowing that she was on vacation with no internet connection. Well, about five minutes after I went outside to play basketball, I started thinking about her a LOT. When I came in, I checked my e-mail, and one of them was from that exact time as when I was thinking about her so much!

But I guess the biggest reason of all... is because I love her so much and I just really want her to love me back, and my mind will do anything to make me believe that there's hope when there actually isn't. For all you DnD fans out there, if you have the Unearthed Arcana book, flip to the part about the sanity points. Well, it feels like I just lost all my sanity points. In a nutshell, it sucks to be me. What should I do???

P.S. I already started keeping a diary of stuff, as of 3 days ago... not really helping...

if shes a good friend its great that you told her or you are telling her well yah if she is your friend dont ruin the relanship you have dont ask her out if you want to

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i need a list of a LOT of rock bands. dont ask why.
over 5-6 is a five. rock bands, but not gay bands like simple plan and good charolette.

(their not gay their awsome!)
1.green day
2. Papa roach
3. all american rejects
4.taking back sunday
5. blink 182
6. thqats all i can think of lmao

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Do you think if I cut out all sodas would I lose about 5-7 lbs in 2 weeks? I usually drink about 1-2 sodas a day, but I am not overweight or anything I am 5'5 and 110 lbs. I would just like to lose about 5 lbs or so. Also I hear people say to even cut diet soda out? I thought diet soda was okay to drink b/c it has no calories, how could I benefit from not drinking diet either?

qwll nothing is wrong wit soda...well weight wise anyway...diet is bad with the aspritame though but id drink that if anyhting if you stick to soda because the regulier stuff has to much sugar witch wont help you out verymuch

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