Question Posted Wednesday November 23 2005, 11:08 am
**Caution: Very LONG**
Okay so i'm in this choir for my church and there's 5 other girls. And this boy named matt plays gutair and he always is there whenever we are. Well during the summer we went on a retreat. and i started to get these feelings when i was around him. And now i really really like him. But there's this girl lanessa who is also in the choir. she flirts with him all the time right in front of me! and she knows how much i like him to. And we went to a concert last friday right. well he was really wasn't talking to me and everything and i wanted to talk to him. and just get to know him better.. well lanessa was like all over him. sitting right next to him. flirting with him.! everything!! and now i find out that she calls him baby and there gonna go to the movies together!! i guess what i'm trying to ask is what should i do? i really truly like him. almost at the point of loving him!! and i really hurts me soo much. My heart can't take anymore of this. Every guy i've ever liked always screw me over! i've never had a boyfriend or anything! and it suxs!! I just want to know what i should do. so please if anyone has any GOOD advice for me.. please let me know!!!!
xCALiF0RNiAGiRLL answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 4:34 pm: Ignore the chick if she doesnt care how you feel dont even worry about her at all. If you really like this guy then you should make the effort to talk to him and maybe at first you guys might just be friends but you guys could eventually be more then that. :) [ xCALiF0RNiAGiRLL's advice column | Ask xCALiF0RNiAGiRLL A Question ]
thund3rstruck answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 3:16 pm: *cough* shes a bitch *cough*, well egnore her get closer to him tlk to him dont wait for him if hes ignoring you....Try to not let your feelings take over,if you do you'll end up on drugs or alchool trust me on that its happened to me recently,if he makes you fell like shit you can talk to him about it.
ankeagle14 answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 2:15 pm: well first of all completly avoid this girly that flirts with him and start to get to know him. then take the next step and so on and so forth.
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