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can you give blood if you have cancer?

no they wouldnt alow it

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alright, so my friend was about to makeout with this guy, but then she froze and had NO clue what to do and just stood there while he started moving his lips. and she's saying how it's not fun andit's probably just gross and stuff. -time for the question- do some people just really stop and have no clue what to do right before a makeout? any sites to help please?? and is it really gross, or fun?

it depends on the person if it's fun or not personally i dont like having someone's spit in my mouth. i dont find it gross i just dont like it. and if someone doesnt have a clue what to do they eventually figure out. the first time i did i just went for it and i had no clue in mind how.

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hey so i like this guy and he lives 2 hrs away from me. and i saw him last weekend and i got nervous when i saw him and didnt know what to say. now he thinks im mad @ him. what should i say to him?? what could i say to him so im not so nervos???

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thanks

just be open and tell him you were nervous. also that you didnt want to seem like an idiot in front of him... im sure he'll understand.

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i drink diet coke all the time. my friends say it will give me cancer. is that true? becuase i dont want the calories and carbs and sugar from soda or juice but i dont love water either.
sooo is diet coke cancerous?
what are some healthy alternatines? (i dont like milk)


thanks!

well my mom does the same thing for about ever since my brother was born which was like 20 years ago. and she doesnt have cance. so i think your fine babes. if not just talk to your doctor. im sure she'll help.

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ok this is long but PLZ resond!! ok, my best friend rachel is all over and obsessed with this guy in my class named tyler and he is a jerk and she doesnt see that. SHe thinks that all the disgusting things and weird things he does is hot. well I he hates her because she is so into him and he knows it. he is now bragging to alot of ppl that she is obsessed and i know ahe is going to be hurt really really bad, you know haow much she likes him, she thinks he is hotter than jesse mccartney and well I hate both and I try to tell her that thier are alot of other guys out there but she wont listen and all she wants is him!!! what do i do to help MY BESTFRIEND!!!

there is really nothing you can do if she doesnt want to listen. the most you can do is hope some sence will be knocked into her and you'll finally be able to get her to listen. i know what you mean though its hard to stand back when you know friend is gonna get hurt. but just stay close and be there for her when she falls.

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So, I'm 14 (female) and I've never had even the slightest crush on anyone. I've never done anything with a guy (not even a hug) before either (hense the "ms.innocent" part). Is there something wrong with me? I think I might like someone now, but I'm not sure. You see, I'm extremely shy around people so those butterflies could just be anxiety for me. I was also wondering if there's a way that I could tell if i truely like someone???

every one gets shy there is nothing wrong with it. some people just show it more then others. and some are just lucky enough to suck it in and take trow away being shy. and step into what they fear

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I have a boyfriend and hes 2 years older than me and i know he kissed people. The problem is i never kissed anyone and i dont wanna mess up and like make a fool of myself and i dont want to tell him i never kissed before so i need help !How do you kiss?.. =/
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i know you dont want to but just tell him. sure you'll give him a little giggle but he'll understand if you screw it up. trust me kissing isnt that hard. if you have good aim then you'll have a good kiss. i sujest practicing. maybe take lip stick and make an x on a mirror. and if your lips touch it right on you'll know b/c you'll have lip stick smeared on your face. i know it sounds silly but it works.. thats how i learned ^_~

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Okay well I had this boyfriend and we were only going out for two weeks and then he called me and said that we cant go out anymore. I wasnt that dissapointed because we hadnt been going out for too long. But then my best guy friend sent me their conversation and the kid that dumped me was really mad he did. He only did it because someone told him it would be weird to go out with me. He just asked me out again and I know that he will dump me again because that is what he did last year too. What should i do

you shouldn't bother with him anymore if he treats you so badly. there are many people in the world you should take a step back, move on and see who is out there. there is more then likely someone better will be out there for you.

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how do i know if a guy likes me? i mean, i luvvvv him soso much and he's like...perfect. but tonight he started telling me that he likes this girl and he wants to be with her soso bad and he doesn't know what to do. being an advice conumnist, i gave him my best advice, but it hurt so bad because I want to be with him. what do i do? should i tell him?

thats tough to say... it depends on his personality. if he doesnt get creeped out too easily then tell him. but if he does you might wanna keep it secret.

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Okay so Ive been raped,cheated,used and more in past relationships. But I've know this guy for about 3 years now and weve been dating almost 6 months. Were very close and well I really really think I love him...Is this possible..were sophomores in highschool and weve been best friends ever since 7th grade. We have the same family background and everything. He talks of me being his wife someday..what do you all think?

i think thats sweet! that is really cute. im sure you two would be happy together. but be sure he's not pushing you into something you dont want to do in the future. take a step back for a bit and see what else lays a head. this means see if there is someone else out there for you... but dont let go unless you are really sure... he seems like a perfect match

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Im getting my hair dyed professionally and its going to cost me about $50. Assuming the hairdresser does a good job, how much should I tip? Thanks.

tip about 30 bucks if you really do their hair well. that way they will do a good job next time you visit ^_~

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Hey everyone. Well I have a boyfriend now and considering its winter, lips get chapped easily. I need to buy a lipgloss/lipstick thats not TOO sticky, tastes nice, but wont get all over my bf you know ? Please leave lots & lots of comments lol. xO thanks

how about stop being so girly and not use that crap!

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Hi, I have a kind of embarrasing question. Well I just got my period and it's always really heavy the first day I get it. The problem is I have to be at work tomorrow, and my boss told me that we're only allowed to go to the bathroom on our breaks, which is every two hours. Well I'm going to have to be able to change my pad before two hours!! What am I going to do?

go to the bathroom... your boss has no right telling you that you cant. if your boss wont let you tell your boss it has to do with your period. dont be affraid to talk to the boss

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Okay so i'm in this choir for my church and there's 5 other girls. And this boy named matt plays gutair and he always is there whenever we are. Well during the summer we went on a retreat. and i started to get these feelings when i was around him. And now i really really like him. But there's this girl lanessa who is also in the choir. she flirts with him all the time right in front of me! and she knows how much i like him to. And we went to a concert last friday right. well he was really wasn't talking to me and everything and i wanted to talk to him. and just get to know him better.. well lanessa was like all over him. sitting right next to him. flirting with him.! everything!! and now i find out that she calls him baby and there gonna go to the movies together!! i guess what i'm trying to ask is what should i do? i really truly like him. almost at the point of loving him!! and i really hurts me soo much. My heart can't take anymore of this. Every guy i've ever liked always screw me over! i've never had a boyfriend or anything! and it suxs!! I just want to know what i should do. so please if anyone has any GOOD advice for me.. please let me know!!!!

JennY!

p>S..I'll rate you for good advice!

you should just come out in the open and tell him how you feel. if you're lucky he'll be distracted from your freind flirting with him. and dont be too shy to tell him. he'll never know unless you alow him.

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I was fingering myself for the first time, and inside of my vagina, like I feel bubbles. Like the vagina walls. What exactly should they feel like? Thanks.

totally normal nothing to worry about... but talk to your doctor (female doctor) to put your self at ease if you need to.

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Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?

ok first of all who would want a glow in the dark tampon that you stick up your vagina to absorbe blood. what is the use of that? it will only incrage my little cousins to play with it. and i dont think you would make millions that is just a sick idea... it's hard enough being a chick! we dont need guys laughing at up said oh look she gets on with a fucking glow stick... you're a sick and twist man!

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What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks!

dating is just going some were specil/cool to see if you actually have feels for that one person. going out is being that with that specail someone as their boy friend or girlfriend.

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ok... well i just recently like a week ago lost the best girlfriend i have had in my life and the best thing that was in my life at the time.. all i think about is her.. doesnt matter what im doin something reminds me of her.. what do i do to get her out of my head???





nick 16

there is really nothing you can do but hope that you are lucky enough to move on in a heart beat like me. if you still care about her it's gonna take some time to move on. this is only because there is still feelings there that you have for her. but try looking for/dating someone else. it might help to move you on.

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okay ive likes this boy for more than 7 months and i dont know wearther or not im in love or not. my symptoms are
-sleepless nights
-24/7 my mind is set on him
-i cry from missing him
-i dream about him
-im miserable without him
-everytime i see him im happy
-i smile everytime i heard someone talking about him
-i can pick him out of the crown in a heart beat
and there's probably more.
could someone please tell me.
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you do love this person... trust me i would know im going threw the same thing. the symptoms are right. talk to your friends its probably written all over your face.

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Ok....I've been talkin to my boyfriend on the phone alot But he ingores me almost all the time!!!!!!...all he does is plays his football/basketball game on his x-box and ingores me!...what should i do dump him or what?!?

well if i was not a tomboy i would say dump him. but truth is girl he's just being a guy. maybe just punch him in the arm and tell him how you feel.

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