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my friend has lost it!!!
ok this is long but PLZ resond!! ok, my best friend rachel is all over and obsessed with this guy in my class named tyler and he is a jerk and she doesnt see that. SHe thinks that all the disgusting things and weird things he does is hot. well I he hates her because she is so into him and he knows it. he is now bragging to alot of ppl that she is obsessed and i know ahe is going to be hurt really really bad, you know haow much she likes him, she thinks he is hotter than jesse mccartney and well I hate both and I try to tell her that thier are alot of other guys out there but she wont listen and all she wants is him!!! what do i do to help MY BESTFRIEND!!!
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there is really nothing you can do if she doesnt want to listen. the most you can do is hope some sence will be knocked into her and you'll finally be able to get her to listen. i know what you mean though its hard to stand back when you know friend is gonna get hurt. but just stay close and be there for her when she falls.
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Sounds like you have tried to tell her. You cannot change her mind. Seems like she is going to have to find out the hard way. This guy is gonna be a jackass and there is nothing you can do about it. She will just have to learn to dislike jackasses... and listen to her friends.
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Sometimes people need to make their own mistakes. I understand that you don't want your best friend to get hurt by this guy or any guy for that matter, but she needs to figure out that he is a jerk by herself. It will be hard to watch her get hurt, but when she does don't say "I told you so!" just give her a hug and let her cry on your shoulder if needed.
Hope I helped
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Kate
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You have to talk to her about how you feel about all of this. Tell her you don't like her obsessing over him and tell her what he says about her. If she doesn't stop, then what kind of friend is she?
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well, i know this is gonna sound wrong to do, but sometimes, you just gotta. maybe tell your best friend that you think he has a girl friend, maybe say you heard some people talking about it. if you dont feel comfotable with doing that ( and its understandable that you might not be comfortable saying that) just talk to her about it. i know you said you already tried but, i know you dont want her to get hurt. so try to do anything you could think of to help her out. try and picture being in her position. you know?
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I know it's not good to lie to your best friend, but sometimes you NEED to, just to knock some sense into them. Tell her that he thinks she's weird and stuff. Also tell her he HATES girls who are obsessed with him. It will defiently make her stop being obsessed and mellow out.
^^ PLEASE let me know if I helped or not!
**hope it works out**
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