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okay when i was younger i slow danced with a lot of guys and i haven't done it in like 3 years because we havent had a dance in forever and someone asked me if i would dance with them at the dance and im not good at it and not sure how to do it. can anyone help me? (link)
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well, that happens to everyone, like it seems like you forget, but when you do it, it all comes back to you. that happened to my friend, she danced with some boys, she didnt dance with boys after that for like, 4monthes, and then someone asked her, and she just remebered, soo dont worry.
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i just had the worst break up ever my boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me today and i found out that he cheated on em. the worst part was he didnt have enough guts to tell me so he ha one of his friends do it. and i thought i loved him what should i do??? (link)
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it sounds like after he did all that stuff, that he is not worth it, any boy who cheats, lies, and makes his friend break up with you, is not worth it. it was wrong of him to cheat on you. like a part of you could still love him, but if you really think about it for a while,. you will say to yourself ;you know, after he did all that stuff to me, he is soo not worth it."
hope i helped
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OMG today someone stole my phone at school i am so pissed off. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!what should i do??? (link)
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you should call the company that your phone is with and tell them to shut your service off, bc if you dont do that, then the person that took your phone can use up all your minutes and go over them. so i think you should really turn on the service.
hope i helped
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Ok for starters, here is some brief beackground information:
New Girl= Katelyn Everyone likes her (almost everyone). She dresses like a hooker *lol*. She has all the guys tied around her finger. And The worst thing yet. She sat in MY Lap! :|
I was sitting in Gym and the girl comes up to me and wrappes her arms around my neck and sits in my lap! So I said "Kayelyn I'm Not That Way!!" and She said "I'm not either!". So she got off. Then About a couple of minutes later she did it again. What can I tell this girl? I'm a GIRL! I'm Not Bi, or Lesbian I am STRAIT!!! (link)
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well, next time she does it, say to her 'yeah i dont roll that way' and then push her off your lap. and say loud and clear, get off of me!! and make sure she gets what your saying so she doesnt do it again.
hope i helped!!
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i weigh 200 pounds...and i'm 15 and a girl is that fat? ((this is serious))
please helpā„
i dont want advice on how to lose the wieght, cause i didnt ask for that advice.i just want to know if that is seriously overweight. (link)
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well it really depends on your height. say you are 5'7-6'0, thats not considered fat. if you think you are fat, you can work out everynight, maybe do a sport, join a gym, theres lots of stuff you can do if you feel you need to lose weight. but it depends on your height.
hope i helped =-)
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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it? (link)
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if your parents know, and they say its normal, and they approve, then if you want to keep watching it, then its ok, but if you dont think its right then you can stop. its really up to you.
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Hello, I need some help or advice. Well I'm 20 years old and I live with my parents. My entire life they have been controlling. However, recently I was engagged and moved out simply because they wanted me to and broke off the engagment and moved back home because I relized I loved someone else. Whom they hate and wont meet because he broke off the engagment. Anyways, I love him. However my parents think I'm 12 and tell me what to do, they tell me what time to be home, and yell at me when I get home after 3 in the morning. I know I live here with them however, I can't take them telling me what to do. I've told them before but they do not change. However, last night I got home around 4, and my parents were awake and said they tried callign me, but i was sleeping. I was like okay, they were like your a lier, dans a bad guy, and yoru a bad person, and saying all this negative bad thigns about me, when all I want to do is not have them controll me anymore. Anyways, my mom and dad were yelling and them my dad started hitting me I wasnt' talking back or anything, just simply because he was mad them my mom tried to stop him, then he started trying to hurt my puppy. Then they finally went to bed. I dont' know what to do. I want to move out with my boyfriend but I'm afraid they will not let me and controll me, I need to get out of here. I need to move out but then i'm afraid they will try to take my car away, or try to hurt my boyfriend or me? Help I don't know what to do or where to go for help I feel lost, and confuesed and controlled I need to be free. Help Please! (link)
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since you are 20, your parents dont really have the right to tell you when to be home and stuff like that. tell them how this is making you feel, say something like this: " you guys are too conrtolling, you dont really have the right to control me bc i am 20 years old, you cant hit me or my property." say something like that. i think you should move in with your boyfriend, that way, you can be with the one you like, come home whever you want, and not hafta worry about your parents yealling and contolling you. they cant make you stay there. you have the right to move out.
hope i helped!
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I'm a 14 yrs old girl, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and he's changed. He also thought i was cheating on him because i thought we were broken up so i told another boy we would talk. well I know my boyfriend still likes me and i still like him too. He never shows emotion like i never kno if he's mad sad or if he even cares but i know he cares. Since i don't kno he gets mad a lot. We also hardly talk and now he's talking about sex. Which i've been thinking about but why should i give him what he wants if he doesn't give me what i want someone to talk to. Should I stay with him to find out why he acts this way or if somethings going on that I don't know? or Should leave him alone and find someone new? but you have to keep in mind he doesn't tell me alot so there is alot I don't know about him. (link)
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i think you should talk to him, tell him that you dont feel like he is telling you everything, you dont know him very well, tell him to be open and honest with you, like you are with him. tell him you want someone to talk to. tell him you were thinking about having sex with him, but if i give you that, you hafta talk with me and tell me about yourself, and tell me the things i dont know. dont let him not tell you. he might be embarrased to tell you things. but just tell him not to be embarrased or hesistate to tell you anything.
good luck!
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ok this is long but PLZ resond!! ok, my best friend rachel is all over and obsessed with this guy in my class named tyler and he is a jerk and she doesnt see that. SHe thinks that all the disgusting things and weird things he does is hot. well I he hates her because she is so into him and he knows it. he is now bragging to alot of ppl that she is obsessed and i know ahe is going to be hurt really really bad, you know haow much she likes him, she thinks he is hotter than jesse mccartney and well I hate both and I try to tell her that thier are alot of other guys out there but she wont listen and all she wants is him!!! what do i do to help MY BESTFRIEND!!! (link)
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well, i know this is gonna sound wrong to do, but sometimes, you just gotta. maybe tell your best friend that you think he has a girl friend, maybe say you heard some people talking about it. if you dont feel comfotable with doing that ( and its understandable that you might not be comfortable saying that) just talk to her about it. i know you said you already tried but, i know you dont want her to get hurt. so try to do anything you could think of to help her out. try and picture being in her position. you know?
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Ok I have brown eyes that have a little bit of green splash to them. Well all my friends say it looks really pretty because its not quite hazel or brown. They usually can't see the green unless they look closely or look at them in the sunlight. I have a lot of eye makeup but I can't find any that will make the hazel show up more in my eyes from far away. Any ideas? thanx. I RATE.
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to make the hazel show up in your eyes, maybe try green eyeshadow (dark or light). with regular black eyeliner and mascara.
or maybe you could get green eyeliner for the top and bottom of your eye.
i think you shoudl try to add more green to your makeup style.
or maybe you could mix the color green, with a skin tone, it you dont want it reeally green ( you dont hafta do that, just an opinion)
hope i helped!! =-)
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Ok so I just bought this purple eye liner but I'm not sure I know how to apply it. When I use black eyeliner I put it on that white line thing between your eyes and your eyelashes. I know that the purple wont show up if I put it there b/c its too light. Does anybody know where and how to apply purple eyeliner? thanx. I RATE HIGH.
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well this is what i do and it REALLY works for me:
take the eyeliner and apply it to the inner part of you botton eyelid, press very hard if u want a dark outcome, but if you want it light, dont press too hard.
then if you want it up top, put apply it right on the edge of your top lid (by your eyelashed) and again, press hard for dark, not so hard for right.
and if you want to get it in the corners, try to make it look like the top eyeliner, in attached to the bottom. (but you dont hafta do that if you dont want to)
--> sry if this is confusing
hope i helped!
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Whats a good sport for me. I like to run...a lot. But I feel like thats not enough. I am very scared of balls though. Even a Ping Pong ball...so I really dont know what to do!!
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P.S. something cheap...I cant really afford expensive equiptment. (link)
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if you really like to run, but your arte afraid of balls, then i think you should run track. track is a the perfect sport if you like to run, and you dont need to use balls (unless you are doing "shotput" but, no balls are coming at you at all, you just throw one). its a fun sport.
good luck!!
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ok well im 13 and i like this guy and me and him have been hanging out alot and he was my first kiss,first makeout,first person to finger me,first person to eat me out all this in like 3 months that we have known each other. he isnt a virgin and he told me that he wanted to be my first everything and i said ok because i really do love him and he claimed that he loved me and he swore to god that he wasnt using me. well the last time me and him hung out was like 3 weeks ago and that was like the 4th time he fingered me and i swear im not a slut but now hes ingnoring me because one of my friends got him really mad so he took it out on me and now he doesnt like me anymore but i want him to and i try to get over him but i just cant.
what should i do?? (link)
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i think you should talk to him about it. tell him "i know one of my friends got you mad but i will talk to her and she wont do it again, please dont be mad at me, i really like you" or something like that. tell him how all this is making you feel. im sure if you be honest while telling him your feelings everything will work out. if its meant to be, it will be.
good luck!!
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Here goes my story I already know this girl for almost two years now and lately she is quite acting really wierd for the past three months now.. It goes like this I usually hear my name with one of her friends. Whenever I get close to her,her friends kinda laugh and they do some signallings with her. I usually catch her staring at me or doing eye contact.. And one thing she really cares for me like always keeps on telling me what things to do, What to wear and etc...At one time we have this contest about a play in English class.. At the back stage she suddenly said that she wants to put her hankerchief inside my pocket oh for pete's sake she could just put it inside her own pocket.. Im quite sure her pockets is empty.. And sometimes whenever I tease her she get's really mad Im mean not that Mad like in joking manner..and to top it all off when me and my classmates went on a practice at her house I notice something's wrong I noticed that all her relatives (ie, uncle,cousins,her mom) kinda smile at me and stared at me for a few seconds maybe she told her relatives about me. Well that's about it well I could put more examples but it's gonna be quite too long for just an advice hope this helps.. (link)
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well i am a girl so those singnal are probally saying that she likes you. they are "inside jokes" (jokes you have with your friends) and they mean something. so i think these signals are saying that she likes you. and you were saying that when you tease her she gets really mad. i think you should talk to her about it. i wouldnt brin it up randomly, just tease her again, and if she gets really mad, ask her " im just playing around, why do you get so mad at me?" or something like that. and her relitives smiling at you, she cold have told them about you (b/c thats what it seems like).
good luck!!
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Well this guy, he asked me out and then we dated, for a week and a half, until i kind of thought he was getting closer to my friend, Emma.I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go "Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me?" and he goes "Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose?" and i go "I just want to know Do you like Emma?" and he said "Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore." and he dumped me. Then next week, he blocked me and deleted me on msn..oh and he looks at me alot in class. We were playing volleyball in sport, and he would look at me alot and yeah. My other friend is in his roll call class and she said he looked upset in roll call class after he dumped me..Please help!! and also he is a goth (link)
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i think you should really talk to him or find a way to talk to him. maybe you could ask one of your close friend to go over to him. or maybe you could talk to one of his close friends. i think that after he dumped you, thats when he relized that he really liked you and didnt wanna lose you. so i think he felt bad about dumping you bc he really likes you and if he doesnt ask you our right away, it may be b/c he is too shy to ask you or after dumping you, he might feel embarrased to ask you back out. so knowing that may be a possibility, i think you should be the first one to talk to him, or one of his friends.
goood luck!!
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I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic? (link)
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everyone has crushes on actors/actresses. its totally normal. everyone always thinks someone is hot or cute or something like that in the movies. your not pathetic. no need to worry.
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Hey guys,
I know it's a little early to be asking about christmas gifts, but I was hoping someone could help me decide what to get for my really good friend and his mom. They live in a different state, but I'm really close to them. Their so nice! They plan on coming to visit me soon. Well anyways, my friend Dan is fourteen, and his mom is in her forties. I already plan on making both of them a christmas card and sending it to them, but I really want to get them each a gift. Has anyone here ever given their friends mom a christmas gift? I don't really know what types of things his mom likes, and I don't wanna ask her because then she'll know I'm getting her something. I already asked her son, but he's not sure what she would like. I also want to know what I should get Dan. I'm only asking this early, because I have to save up money before I can actually go out to buy the gifts. If someone can, please help me out! I really want them to love their gifts! Thanks in advance! (link)
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I get my friend's moms' gifts all the time. and i think its really nice you are doing that too.
for a women in her 40s.. maybe she is into
> nice christmas candles
> jewlrey
> christmas apron/oven mits
> a christmas decoration ( e.g-> dancing and singing little snowman)
* stuff like that
and for your friend Dan ...
> does he have a cell phone?.. maybe a new cell phone cover
> a CD with all his favorite songs (and x-mas songs)
>a christmas ornamant
like, stuff he is into (im sure you know that)
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okayy well i realllly like this guy for a while now. and we use to call and text everydayy. but then all of a sudden we just stopped, haven't text/called each in a week. and i don't just wanna all of a sudden text him out of nowhere. but when i see him at school i just melt! he's like into all that military stuff, and doesn't always have that nice looking face on. and i reallly wanna talk to him but i'm just wayyy to shy. and when we see each other at school we act like we're strangers. i'm wayy scared to go up to him for some reason! what should i do?! i've never liked anyone soo much! (link)
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i know you said you were shy, but i think you should really talk to him. but if you think you just cant do it, ask one of your close friends to ask him for you. or you could ask one of this guy's friends, or get one of your friends to do that. if you reallly like this guy, dont pass him up by not asking him if he likes you or something. and flirt with him, it never hurts to flirt.
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I think my ex might like me. Please dont say " talk to him or ask him" Cause Im not readyy for that. He always smiles at me and walks me to the bus, and he waits for me in between brakes. Soo Does he? (link)
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it really sounds like her does. but just to make sure ask one of his close friends (since your not ready to ask him, and thaats understand-able) if you feel uncomfortable asking one of his friends yourself, then maybe get one of your close friends to aks one of his close friends.
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Please only answer this question if you're not mean or a smart aleck, and you're mature. Thanks!
Anyway, I have a friend that I've known for many years. Her parents are going through a divorce. I know she's hurt, and I want to be there for her, but here's the catch.
I've noticed that we're growing apart. She hasn't talked to me for a long time, except for the few times we've talked on AIM, and I started all of those conversations. She hasn't tried talking to me at all, and we haven't talked about the situation, even though she knows that I know about it (She wasn't the one who told me about it). It's been weeks since I've been aware of this.
At first I wanted to give her time, which I have, since I haven't said anything to her about the situation. Now, I'm fed up.
I'm sick of us not talking. She has made no attempt to talk to me, even casually. Like I said, all AIM conversations were started by me. I want to help her, but I can't if she won't say anything to me about it. I just wouldn't feel right starting up a conversation about it because I'm unsure if she is ready to talk about it.
What also irritates me is the fact that we've been friends for so long, and yet she (like I've said) hasn't tried asking for my advice or anything. I feel like I'm not a good friend; like she doesn't feel that she can open up to me because she's embarrassed (or for whatever reason), even though I don't know if that's the case. What I'm saying is that she should know that she can come to me, talk to me and ask for advice, and not be embarrassed.
It makes me sad that I can't be there for my friend, and that she's not talking to me. What should I do? Please help. Thanks so much! (link)
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first i think you should talk to her about it. Ask her why you two dont talk, ask her why you are always the first one to start a convo. tell her you dont want to be a bad friend by not helping or giving advice, tell her she doesnt ask for it and you want her to. Talk to her.
Even though youu feel like you are losing touch with her, still try to make her feel better. I know it might feel wierd bc you may not feel that close with her anymore but, she really needs someone right now. she might not come to you first so maybe you could go over her house and comfort her.
so i would ask her why she hasnt been talking to you lately and donr give up till you have an anwser, you know? your her best friends and you have a right to know why she isnts talking to you.
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hope i helped!!
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