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Weird person
Well this guy, he asked me out and then we dated, for a week and a half, until i kind of thought he was getting closer to my friend, Emma.I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go "Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me?" and he goes "Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose?" and i go "I just want to know Do you like Emma?" and he said "Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore." and he dumped me. Then next week, he blocked me and deleted me on msn..oh and he looks at me alot in class. We were playing volleyball in sport, and he would look at me alot and yeah. My other friend is in his roll call class and she said he looked upset in roll call class after he dumped me..Please help!! and also he is a goth
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i think you should really talk to him or find a way to talk to him. maybe you could ask one of your close friend to go over to him. or maybe you could talk to one of his close friends. i think that after he dumped you, thats when he relized that he really liked you and didnt wanna lose you. so i think he felt bad about dumping you bc he really likes you and if he doesnt ask you our right away, it may be b/c he is too shy to ask you or after dumping you, he might feel embarrased to ask you back out. so knowing that may be a possibility, i think you should be the first one to talk to him, or one of his friends.
goood luck!!
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A week and a half and you guys already loved each other? Anyways, you need to try to talk to him somehow. If he blocked you from MSN or AIM try talking to him at school or write him a note. Just find out why he lost your trust and what you did wrong. It's normal to be upset after going through a break up and he is always still going to look at you. He probablly thinks of everything that happened, and he still might have feelings for you even if he won't admit it. Just talk to him and see what's been going on.
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Oh goths are hotties. But really you cant hold goths back, Must of goths are depressed by something. U have to let him breathe he will come back if he wants. I know because all my friends are goth
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I think that dumping you was a way of getting rid of his anger. I think something happened and he paniced and he did the only thing that would ease the pain. When he finally relized what he did he felt guilty because that is not what he wanted to do. Maybe if you talked to him face to face where he cant run then maybe you get something out of him. Or have ytou friend talk to him for you. Dont worry i dont think it is what it seems to be. Sometimes people can shut you out and wont talk you about how they are feeling.
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Well, first of all. He had no reason to get mad at you for asking about your friend Emma. Try writing him a note telling him you're sorry, but you just felt weird about him if he liked Emma, and that you didn't lose your trust.
^^PLEASE let me know if I helped or not!
**hope it works out**
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OO lala Goth boys are SOOO cute lol but anyway he sounds mean to me but hmmmmmmmmm I don't think you should talk to him unless he talks to you first and says I am sorry for acting all weird and blocking you...
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Ok, you dated for a week and a half. You love him? Find out why he lost your trust. He probably looks at yo uin gym class because he thinks about the whole break up and might still have feelings for you. He was upset, and thats probably why he deleted you from msn. Maybe he was upset that he dumped you. Dont ask guys if they like someone else, it gets them angry. It probably seems to them like your thinking that they will cheat on you. Ya know? Him being goth has nothing to do with why he broke up with you. How come you added that little thing about him being goth? Hope I helped.
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You didn't explain what this guy meant by his saying you'd lost his trust. If he was referring to your question via MSN (IM) re: your friend Emma, then that doesn't make a lot of sense that he says you've lost his trust. Though maybe he felt more like you'd lost trust in HIM because you asked that question and that hurt him. Unfortunately many of us are very insecure and a lot of people don't know how to handle that insecurity. Perhaps this guy is one of those people and he just doesn't know how to respond other than breaking up with you. But if he can't simply talk about problems - and that's such an important part of a relationship - then I'd say you're better off without him and you found out rather quickly which is a lot better than getting completely involved with this guy and THEN finding out that he avoids any sort of discussion about issues that are important to you. If he still seems interested in you - you said he looks at you a lot in class - then maybe you just need to catch him at school and simply ask him exactly what happened and why he won't talk to you about it because you're feeling confused. I suggest not asking him again if he still loves you. First find out what is really going on with him, if you can. If he doesn't respond or he acts like a jerk, then let the guy go! You deserve a lot better. P.S. You might want to work on this jealousy issue. OK, maybe the guy was overt (clearly flirting) with his attentions to your friend. But then again, maybe he was just being friendly? Try to learn to distinguish between the two. It will help you a lot in the future. Good luck!
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well honestly i dont think he likes you anymore. OF course i might be wrong and you shouldnt of taken that the wrong way. Love is very hard and VERY emotional. (your like what is this crap? haha) if you still like him i think you should call him up and tell him. OR you can have your friend tell him. That is basically all you can do and go ahead and tell EMMA what he did to you just so she knows that he can be like that. hope i helped >3
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