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Does she really likes me???


Question Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 6:13 am

Here goes my story I already know this girl for almost two years now and lately she is quite acting really wierd for the past three months now.. It goes like this I usually hear my name with one of her friends. Whenever I get close to her,her friends kinda laugh and they do some signallings with her. I usually catch her staring at me or doing eye contact.. And one thing she really cares for me like always keeps on telling me what things to do, What to wear and etc...At one time we have this contest about a play in English class.. At the back stage she suddenly said that she wants to put her hankerchief inside my pocket oh for pete's sake she could just put it inside her own pocket.. Im quite sure her pockets is empty.. And sometimes whenever I tease her she get's really mad Im mean not that Mad like in joking manner..and to top it all off when me and my classmates went on a practice at her house I notice something's wrong I noticed that all her relatives (ie, uncle,cousins,her mom) kinda smile at me and stared at me for a few seconds maybe she told her relatives about me. Well that's about it well I could put more examples but it's gonna be quite too long for just an advice hope this helps..

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alleycatt726 answered Monday November 28 2005, 10:48 pm:
well by what you told me, i think she does have some type of feelings for you...........you can usually tell by what her friends and family say when you are around or how they act.

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Nevaeh314 answered Monday November 28 2005, 2:26 pm:
Uh, YES she likes you. It couldn't be any clearer. Now what you have to do is figure out whether you like her back or if you want to talk to her about it and get to know her better. If you don't, just tell her nicely so she can spend her time doting on someone else, but it seems like she really likes you, so I emphasize /nicely/ tell her. But if you do like her or could, go for it.
Hope this helps.
Love,
Nevaeh

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brunettecutie answered Sunday November 27 2005, 1:14 pm:
well i am a girl so those singnal are probally saying that she likes you. they are "inside jokes" (jokes you have with your friends) and they mean something. so i think these signals are saying that she likes you. and you were saying that when you tease her she gets really mad. i think you should talk to her about it. i wouldnt brin it up randomly, just tease her again, and if she gets really mad, ask her " im just playing around, why do you get so mad at me?" or something like that. and her relitives smiling at you, she cold have told them about you (b/c thats what it seems like).
good luck!!

<3,
brunettecutie **

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secretcrushx3 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 12:56 pm:
well i'm a girl and all of those signals deffinatly means that she likes you! Staring at you and her frineds doing little hand signals it's all secret code for "oh my god i like him" If you like her too start doing what she's doing get your own signals if you don't like her like that then just continue to be her friend and let her give you signals. Also if you want to know for sure that she likes you just ask a few of her friends and if they don't answer ask her face to face if she does. But in my view she does like you and there's no question about it.

Alisha

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Teza answered Sunday November 27 2005, 12:54 pm:
Those are some of the signs that she might like you. You never know though because she might like you as just a really good friend. Flirt with her and find out. Anyways, I think that she does like you. That's just my opinion. Girls are more open and she probablly told her family members about you. When a girl likes someone, and their friends always giggle when they see you and she is there, there is a posibility she likes you!! Just talk to her more and flirt with her. If she keeps flirting back then good. :D

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lilcutie1212 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 12:09 pm:
Yeah I think she likes you. Thats something some girls do.
XoXoLexiXoXo

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Advicelady6798 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 11:58 am:
I think thsat she likes you and she is afraid that if you find out you will lose what you have. She is flirting with you to see if do it back. She might have told her family that she likes you and didnt want them to say anything. Families always smile when they know you kid likes someone. If you like her too why dont you write her a note or an email or just talk to online to find out if she likes you and if she does then you should be with her. You should always be with someone that you can laugh with.

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Annerszz_101 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 11:56 am:
She might like you. Girls tell their family members more things than boys do. Girls are more open. (( sometimes anyway haha)) if you have feelings for this girl, try talking to her. Flirt with her. If she flirts back and giggles, then she has a crush on you. Don't make it obvious that you think she likes you.

^^PLEASE let me know if I helped or not!
**hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O

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susana answered Sunday November 27 2005, 10:43 am:
I'm not quite sure from your question if you like this girl or not. If you do, then what she seems to be doing - according to your message - sounds rather normal for a teenage girl and her friends. It sure seems like she's trying to get your attention and her friends are typically in on this. If her family members are smiling at you and watching you, yes, she's probably told them about you, but I'd say by the way they're acting that she's only said good things about you. The business about her wanting to put a handkerchief in YOUr pocket just sounds as though she might have been trying to flirt with you a little bit. I'm sure she had a place for the handkerchief on her body, but she must have had a reason to ask you to hold it, don't you think? If you like her, why would that have bothered you?

NOW, if you're NOT interested in this girl and you don't like her attentions, then you need to have a kind and gentle talk with her. Are you giving her mixed signals? Let her know that you want to be her friend, but that you're just not ready for a relationship right now. I know no one really wants to hear that a person on whom he or she has a crush only wants to be a friend. However, it would be the kindest thing you could do for her rather than deciding that she's "weird" or just bothering you. And, a lot of girls (and guys) think that when someone is teasing them that that person likes them and just can't voice it. Maybe that makes her confused and she shows it with anger. Or, perhaps your "teasing" has gotten out of hand? Are you being sensitive, FUN (not annoying), and a real friend when you tease her? Or are you saying things that might hurt her feelings because you're not thinking before you play and speak. Not all teasing is pleasant and not all people like to be teased - especially about certain things. Ask yourself what you've been teasing her about and if you'd like the same teasing back if she, or anyone else, were to do it to you.

Anyway, try to figure out YOUR true feelings for this girl and then be honest with those feelings. You AND she will be better off for it.

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t0xicParadiSe answered Sunday November 27 2005, 10:38 am:
Sounds to me like this girl likes you.
If she didn't like you she wouldn't be getting that mad over you teasing her.
&hearts;

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xomegaroni answered Sunday November 27 2005, 10:36 am:
i think she likes you haha =) i wasn't sure if she was juss teasing you but when you said about her family & them smiling at you & stuff, she probably likes you. ask her. i mean, it could be uncomfortable depending how you do it, but it doesn't look like she's juss gonna go right out & say she likes you, so i think you should ask her if she does if you like her too. straighten out your feelings & see if you like her & would want to get into a relationship with her. if you don't, then juss be nice about it & you don't have to ask her.

-hope that helped!&hearts;

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