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can you get stds from giving oral sex? and if you do have oral sex, even if your sex partner doesnt have stds, can you still get them??
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well if your sex partner doesnt have STDs, its very unlikely that you will get them. and yes you can get certain STDs on your mouth like herpes and warts and stuff like that.
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can you feel a guy cum in you or is the only way to know is if you ask the guy? (link)
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it really is hard to tell because some guys cum alot and some only a very small amount, also it may be hard to tell you if you guys cum at the same time. most girls i know cant tell. so you have to really trust the guy if he says yes he did or no he didnt.
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i am 15 years old, i am a virgin but i have done every thing else, i have a few questions 1. i have dis charge i know that is normal and it is always clear but some times it smells like right after my period is there somthing wrong?
2. when im not on my period i stick a lil bit of toilet paper there.. will that hurt me?
3. is sperm dead when air contacts it? idunno random quetsion but my friend said that but i wasnt sure
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as long as there is not color in the discharge and its not a fishy or stale odor, then your fine. usually its worse after your period. if it really bothers you, go to the doctor.
the toilet paper thing isnt horrible for you, but it wont allow your vagina to breathe, i know that sounds stupid but its true. having something up there all the time isnt good, try using panty liners or very thin pads.
and the whole sperm thing, 99.9% of the time, sperm dies when air contacts it and it cannot survive on clothing or anything like that. so if a guy cums pretty much anywhere but inside of you, its likely that the sperm wont survive.
hope i helped :)
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Okay I know this guy named bobby(18), (im 16) and we had sex without a condom. My ex-boyfriend and him are good friends, and awhile back my ex told me that Bobby had an std. I asked Bobby about it and he said that he got tested and didnt. I dont know what to do. Im not showing any signs of an Std but you can never be sure! What should I do. I dont want to get my parents involved! (link)
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go to planned parenthood, you dont need your parents and if you sign up for the insuarance there, its free and confidential. they will test you and everything for free and even give you free birth control. go to google and find out where the nearest one is to you. hope i helped and good luck :)
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AHHH!! how can you tell if your cherry's been popped?? i've never had sex (link)
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well first of all you cant get your cherry popped even if you've never had sex. if a guy fingers you or anything is going up there and far enough then you can pop your cherry. and when that happens, you bleed, could be a little of a lot of blood. and some girls never bleed. its different with every female. hope i helped :)
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my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
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nope, not bad at all, perfectly fine, doesnt matter if shes had her period or not.
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hey guys, after your period, when is the best time to have sex if you WANT to get pregnant?
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12-15 days after your period ends is when you are the most vulnerable to get pregnant
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I'm not sure what category this really goes under, but I was curious on birth control.. Does it just make pmsing on a certain schedule so you know when? does it stop it for a certain amt of time? How does it work? (link)
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well all birth controls are different. the most common one is the pill which i am on and its supposed to make you stop ovulating so theres no egg to be fertilized if you have sex. its also regulates your period and might shorten it. some girls go on BC to regulate their period or to prevent themselves from getting pregnant or both reasons. you just have to go the doctor and they will figure out which kind you should be on. hope i helped.
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I've liked my best friend's neightbor for a long time, but the only problem is: she liked him too. I understand because they're neighbors and really good friends, but he's one of my really good friends too. He says he's liked me since around the same time I started liking him. But this summer, my friend said that he started messing around with her. He even kissed her once. But he says he doesn't remember any of that. He even admitted this fall she was just a friend and he really liked me. But a couple months later, things got pretty rocky and he stopped saying I love you and my friend said that he said he didn't like me anymore. A couple weeks ago she came to school crying because she lost her virginity to him. Yeah, that's right. I talked to him about it and he admited it, adding that he wished it was me. Hello? I told him that she said that he didn't like me, and he said he does. Now he's saying I love you again and asking me to come over alone. I secretly want this but I don't want to hurt my best friend. My question is who's lying and what are his motives? (link)
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ok this is a typical guy using both of you girls. hes not worth ruining your friendship over. hes just trying to get sex from both of you and screwing with both of your heads. and hes obviously lying to both of you and thats just gonna cause drama in you friendship. DUMP THE ASSHOLE!!
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hi im amanda. Well see this is probably a really dumb ? ... but i will ask anyways.. Me and this guy kinda well really didnt do anything. He had a condom on and stuck his penis in me and well only pulled in and out a few time. He did NOT cum at all in me or in the condom. But my period is late.. I think it may be from just stress and me being worried about it. But please give me your opinon if you get time...
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well usually after you have sex for the first time or the first few times, your period comes late or it is off schedule becuase of having sex. plus with the stress of being worried about it, i'd say you should get your period within the next 5 days. so dont worry, your not pregnant and nothing is wrong. just calm down and try not to get stressed over it. also you might want to try getting the pill, it regulates your period and works wonders with keeping you from getting pregnant. hope i helped. good luck hun ;)
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so im 15, and i've been wearing tampons for quite a while now, and well ive never done this, but ive always wondered if you can pee while the tampon is still in you? because when i try to, it feels like its being pressured out, so i just take it out while i pee and just put a new tampon in.. (link)
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yes you can pee when you have a tampon in. it wont hurt of be weird or anything.
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Well, i'm 14/f and my best friend is a girl and my age. We've experimrnted a couple of times this early year. She ended it in july this year (2005)cause she wanted things back the way they were when we didn't experiment and were close soul sisters (as we call ourselves to each other). I never got to say my total feelings about the whole thing. She says at times that she wishesi could be her girlfriend but in this world it isn't logical. I can't help, but want to kiss her and hold her passionatly. She's about to go on a cruise on Christmas eve this year and the i finally want to show her how i feel so the last day when i spend time with her i want to before a walk out the door i wanted to say this: I want you to so much be with me, but unfortunatly in your logical world that's not possible. Then i would hug her and kiss her softly on the lips and rush out the door. i just wanted to leave her with a thought in her head as she was on the cruise to let her know finally how i feel. Should i go for it?? PLLLLZZZ HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!
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well i would say go for it hun, but makes sure shes a lesbian and feels the same way. cuz some girls and guys like to experiment a lot and you dont want to get your feelings hurt. although if you dont tell her how you feel you will never know how she feels, so i say go for it. good luck hun :)
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One of my best friends that I've known all of my life asked me a really weird question the other day. He asked me if I would give him head and I thought he was kidding so I started to laugh. And then he said "I'm serious." So I kind of looked at him with a blank stare. And I told him I don't know and he was like begging me to and I said I'd think about it. I just think it's kind of weird that he would ask ME to do that. What should I do? I know he doesn't like me as a girlfriend so I don't know why he asked me.
Another question I have is does oral and anal sex count as your "first time"? Or is it just regular? Because if it does count then I don't really want to because I'd like to lose my virginity to someone mor special.
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well..........oral sex doesnt count as your first time at all. and hes prolly just horny and since you guys are good friends, he wants you to give him head. if you want to then go for it. theres nothing wrong with having a "friend with benefits". hope i helped :)
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Ok, for about 2 months now I got white stuff in my underwear, and always feel wet. I think its discarge. I haven't had a period yet but I don't know when its comming. Should i tell my mom or just leave it be? (link)
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discharge is so totally normal for every girl even if you havent had your period yet. unless it had a weird odor or color then your fine. you can tell your mom or a docotor if you want but they might just tell you its normal. good luck
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I am always "wet" down there, even when Im not turned on. I always feel like I should wad a lil bit of tiolet paper in my underwear so that it doesnt get all over my underwear and harden. What can be causing this? Its really gross and unatractive. (link)
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its perfectly normal. every girl has discharge, just make sure theres no odd color or odor and you'll be fine.
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okay for a while (long while actually) ive had this white sticky, weird stuff in my underwear... its been about a year or so maybe less... and i havnt had my period yet... idk what to do? and what is it?? ill rate 5! (link)
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its just vaginal discharge, it completely normal. just make sure it doesnt have a a fishy strong odor. it if doesnt then your fine. dont worry at all about it hun. hope i helped.
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hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
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i wouldnt worry about it hun, some girls dont get their periods until they are 18 or 19. all girls get it at different times. if you have sex you prolly dont have to worry about getting pregnant until you get your period. just use a condom anyways becuase you dont wanna get any STDs from this guy. and make sure that you want to have sex before you do it. good luck, hope i helped :)
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Hey what if someone wanted to have sex and u didnt want to and they layed you on his bed should you have sex of call for help? (link)
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call for help because thats called rape and its a crime.
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i went to the pet store to buy some things for my dog, and when i went to the cashregister i donated a dollar to a pet fund. well then the girl asked me to write my pets name on the paper that they hang up, so i did. however about 15 minutes later i realized i wrote my other dogs name on the paper, who died last year! now i know that's not a crime or anything but i felt really weird because it's like i still thought he was my dog & i feel guilty. am i a bad person?! (link)
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aww you are not a bad person, sometimes its hard to let go of pets. so stop feeling guilty.
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ok here goes right well me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and next time i see him we would be togthere for 3 months because hes going away on holiday anyway...we have decided that we want to have sex and hes coming to my house soon and that when we are gonna do it!but..im really really scared of pregnancy, we r gonna use a condom but im still scared im 14 and hes 17 and i love him but i cant say anything to my mum for the pill and my periods arent regular so i wouldnt know if i was pregnant so..what do i do i really wanna do it with him i know its right but what can i do about pregnancy and all that stuff help!!!!!!!! ill rate high xxx (link)
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ok....well first of all, make sure that you wanna have sex because i know for fact that you will regret it sicne you are younger than most teens having sex and if you are gonna do it no matter what people tell you, THEN USE A CONDOM, because some guys will try to convince you not to use one and that it will feel better but trust me it wont. and the best bet it to go to planned parenthood and get put on birth control. request ortho-tricylen lo, it will make your period normal and it works really well from keeping you from getting pregnant, i've been on it for 3 years. also, by going to PP, you dont have to have a parent to get the pill. you could have your boyfriend or a friend or your friends parent take you there if its too far to walk. just becareful about having sex right away and always use protection. hope i helped, good luck :)
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