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Should I?
One of my best friends that I've known all of my life asked me a really weird question the other day. He asked me if I would give him head and I thought he was kidding so I started to laugh. And then he said "I'm serious." So I kind of looked at him with a blank stare. And I told him I don't know and he was like begging me to and I said I'd think about it. I just think it's kind of weird that he would ask ME to do that. What should I do? I know he doesn't like me as a girlfriend so I don't know why he asked me.
Another question I have is does oral and anal sex count as your "first time"? Or is it just regular? Because if it does count then I don't really want to because I'd like to lose my virginity to someone mor special.
Please help!!!!
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i would tell him politely that you don't want to give him head and that you just want to be friends. for ur second question, oral or anal sex does not count as your first time, since losing your virginity is defined as your hymen breaking.
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it doesnt count as real sex
and unless u think he'll stick with you (NOT INSIDE YOU)DONT DO IT COZ SEX RUINS FRIENDSHIPS! trust me it'll be really awkward. i really wouldnt do it unless you think he really likes you 4 you not your sexiness. anyway it just sounds like he's hornyyy
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hell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!don't do that your first mistake you said youll think about it you don;t tell a boy that. then they would keep asking you then before you know it i don't care if youll are friends he tell it to others and its not even that deep. best friends dont ask each other things like that. im just giving you advice its up to you to make the smart decision.
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i dont think you should do it with your best friend.. cause then it will feel rreally weird and it wont be as fun..nd then you guys prob. wont talk anymore.. and really.. penis' are grose looking.. it doesnt matter whose it is.. haha
losin your virginity is only when a guy STICKS his penis in your vagina..
i think you should tell your best friend to have a girlfriend do it.. not a best friend..
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i think that you should do it if you want to... if he doesnt like you like that and you dont like him and he asked you to do it then hes kinda desprate but if its something that you wanna do then do it for fun and to experiment, not to mean anything.
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I'm thinking he likes you.. like not head-over-heels like a crush.. but like you begin to know your best freind so well that you could consider them a partner. It's normal. But to spring up the question of giving head to someone.. you're not even in a close romantic relationship with him yet so I would say no. It's not your "first time" but it's llike you're half-way there. It might escalate to your "first time" so if you do it, use good judgement and protection.
Good luck!
Make good choices, think of the future!
Kylie
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Ok ummmm no dont do it just because he asked you too! but yea if he is your best friend and you have knowen eachtoehr for a long time i wouldnt do it becuz it MIGHT ruin your guys friendship. but i knowen this guy **** forever we had knowen eachother for like 9 years and then he stared to like me and he asked me out and i said yes and we went out for like 5 months and he ended up getting me pregnate and we broke up because of it. and we havent talked since so ya i dont think it would be a great idea to do that but its your choice! hope it helped adrian
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well..........oral sex doesnt count as your first time at all. and hes prolly just horny and since you guys are good friends, he wants you to give him head. if you want to then go for it. theres nothing wrong with having a "friend with benefits". hope i helped :)
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if he is a really good friend and his life depends on i would do it and it does count to ma at least
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well just give it to him maybe he will like you as a girlfriend, but no oral and/or anal sex does not count as loosing it
Luv Michelle
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Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. What a weird guy.
No, oral sex doesn't count for losing your virginity, but anal sex sorta does.
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technically no you are still a virgin because your hymen has not been broken by a penis...umm i dont think you should give him head because you want him to respect you rite? so if he respects you then he wont ask such obseen questions like that...but the descion is completley yours.
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It's your life, and ultimately your decision. But personally, I'd say that oral and anal sex ARE sex. You probably shouldn't get sexually involved with someone that you don't love, or at least like a lot and find really attractive.
And if you're not sure if you want to do something, it's smart not to do it.
As for why he asked you...the truth is, teenage boys are horny. Horny beyond all belief. When sex enters the picture, 99% of all boys stop thinking rationally. I mean it - they literally stop thinking in any kind of sane way.
The sad truth is, girls mature emotionally much more quickly than boys do - but boys mature sexually much more quickly than GIRLS do. It's kind of a cruel trick by Mother Nature. And it means that girls need to be smart, to use that emotional maturity to protect themselves, and never let themselves be rushed or forced into doing something that they're not ready for.
Because boys generally don't appreciate it (although they'll swear up and down BEFORE that they will), don't respect the girls who oblige them, and will almost certainly keep looking for NEW girls to have sex with. I'm sorry, but that's basic biology.
You have good instincts. Wait until you really feel ready. It'll be much better that way.
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well if you don't want to give him a head then don't, depending upon your age then i wouldn't recommend giving him a head when your in high school or osmething close to taht and also im pretty sure oral and anal sex does not count as your first time its losing your virginity by having sex pretty sure but you should check if you would reallly like to no
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