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I love my boyfriend, i really do and we have a great relationship but im still very good friends with my ex. me and my ex have been together 4 other times and whenever we are together we flirt like crazy and he always tries
to put hims arms around me, or find a way to be close to me. I feel guilty because i love my boyfriend so much, but i feel like i have little "feelings" for my ex. I wouldnt leave my boyfriend for my ex, because my boyfriend and i have to much and hes an amazing guy, but i have dreams about my ex and think about him alot. whats my problem? i also always wanna just kiss him and have him hold me and be with me. i feel soo bad! what am i sopose to do. i tried to talk to my boyfriend, but that doesnt go well AT ALL. what should i do?!?!? thanks in advance

you probably think hes hot
or maybe youre just horny

but seriously girl dont ruin your relationship for a guy who you just get hot&heavy for and you know just wants 2 be physical. Ask yourself if its lust or love. and seriuosly, you have no problem, your just hormonal which is totally normal and fine. if you wanna stop those feelings for him maybe you should like masturbate or something you can google it. it seems like you like his looks and since you DREAM about him i would just stick w/ your bf. and also, why is he your X? b/c you broke up right? and you probably broke up b/c something was wrong. but dont tell your bf about and if you HAVE to flirt, just do it when your bf isnt around.

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One of my best friends that I've known all of my life asked me a really weird question the other day. He asked me if I would give him head and I thought he was kidding so I started to laugh. And then he said "I'm serious." So I kind of looked at him with a blank stare. And I told him I don't know and he was like begging me to and I said I'd think about it. I just think it's kind of weird that he would ask ME to do that. What should I do? I know he doesn't like me as a girlfriend so I don't know why he asked me.

Another question I have is does oral and anal sex count as your "first time"? Or is it just regular? Because if it does count then I don't really want to because I'd like to lose my virginity to someone mor special.

Please help!!!!

it doesnt count as real sex
and unless u think he'll stick with you (NOT INSIDE YOU)DONT DO IT COZ SEX RUINS FRIENDSHIPS! trust me it'll be really awkward. i really wouldnt do it unless you think he really likes you 4 you not your sexiness. anyway it just sounds like he's hornyyy

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urgh i hate this! it feels like my jaw is gonna fall out like in the grudge! i can't open my mouth really wide to eat because it feels like theres an extra bone there that isn't allowing me to open my mouth any further, and if i chew it feels like my jaw is like cracking.. like it kinda feels like when you crack your knuckles. anyway this really hurts so does any of you have any advice on how i can deal with this? thanks in advance i really appreciate this

Ask your parents to take you to the dentist and research it online. don't get worked up about it. there are lots of different types of jaw/tooth problems, and only some of them are really bad. and everyone gets wisdom teeth. but you really should go to the dentist.

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i am so upset righyt now. i told my friend some really personal things about my life. she promised she wouldnt tell anyone. it was mostly about this guy that i liked a lot. a real lot. we were firghtin the ohter day and she told him all my personal things and now she wants me to forgive her. i dont think i should because she doesnt deserve it. it was really personal and it wasnt his business. what should i do?

Just let your friendship die down, and at the beginning of next year, just avoid her,if she confronts you,tell her to leave you alone because she really hurt you,and if she tries to argue with you just walk away. don't let any of your friends get in the middle.This is your problem, not theirs. If you are feeling nice, give her another chance. Give her a fake secret like, "I like soandso" If she tells, she may have a problem with gossiping, so just ditch her. Tell the guy that she was just exaggerating, and act sort of embarrassed (you may not need to), then straighten out what she told him, or tone it down a little. or you could turn it into a chance to flirtt w/ the guy you like, and be noice to your friend and forgiver but if she keeps doing it ditch her.

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ok ... so my mom said that if i loose 10 pounds shed give me 100 dollers!! the problem is..i dont know how.. i cant exercise regularly cause i never have time im always doing soemthing and i cant really eat special things cause one weekend im with my dad and one day during the week i am with him...i dont kno what to do i need HELP! what could i do to loose weight??????????? thank you sooo so much! OxoxO

Your mom should NOT be pressurizing you like that, unless you REALLY need to lose wieght. You should first figure out if you are overwieght, and do about 2 hours altogether of exercise each day. Drink 40 ounces of water, that will make you less hungry for food in general, but don't go on a diet or listen to staple-girl. You could KILL yourself doing that. Don't think about what NOT to eat, think about what to eat. All your 2 hours of exercise shouldn't be intense. 30 mins of doing stairs, yard work, walking is good. Do an hour of vigorous activity, and half an hour of biking, eliptical, stretching, push ups and sit ups combined. Talk to your mom about this. She should NOT feel insecure about YOUR weight unless it is a real health problem. Don't diet (it wrecks your metabolism) or EVER EVER EVER EVER resort to ANY type of eating disorder or as some people call it... "a shortcut"

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so last nite i went to my friends party, and there was a boy. lets name him jordan. so jordan was reeally cool and my friend thinks he was showing off infront of me. except the problem is that i will never see him again, and i really l;iked jordan. what should i do? should i ask my friend who held the party for his screen name and maybe have a long ship with him????

chances are that if you just saw him and liked him, you just care what he looks like, butif you really met him and talked to him and REALLY like him, then you should ask the host of the party about him: like what school he goes to or a co-ed sport he likes to play. and it doent have to be a deep relationship, you can just go into thinking 'i just wanna have fun and feel good' he may even live close to you *stalking is funnnn! :D* get his sn &/or telephone number (both would be better), and just talk to him first. don't jump all over him and flirt with him 1st thing, (boys HATE that) and just be friendly before you make your move.

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Okay, so there's this guy that's been my really good friend for a long time. Last October, I got a crush on him. Then in December, he had a girlfriend, but he told me that he'd liked me since October too, and a week later, he broke up with his girlfriend. But he didn't ask me out until a month later, because he 'didn't want people to think he liked me when he liked his other girlfriend'. So we were 'sort of' going out for about a month, but we never actually went on a date. He asked me out to a carnival, but then he ditched me. Then...worst of all...the school dance. He danced with me once, and then went back to his ex girlfriend and was dancing with HER for the rest of the time. I talked to him and he told me he didn't like me anymore, but we decided to stay friends anyways.
Now, about 3 months later...I think I still like him, but I'm not sure. We're still very good friends. I want him to be happy with whatever girl he goes out with, but I'm jealous at the same time. My heart jumps when I had to kiss him on the cheek for this school performance..and when I fell asleep on his shoulder in the movie theater (with other friends there)...and I feel crap when I see the girl he likes sleeping on his other shoulder, or sitting super close to him. What should I do? How do I get over him? Please help!

if you really care about this guy and won't hurt him when you're going out, you should just wait for him to like you back. you can't just have dessert whenever you want, you have to have it after dinner. all you'll do by prying him away from his girlfriend is hurt him. if you think it's real, then you shouldn't feel any different later. pass the time until it happens by just hanging out with your friends, and hang out with him a little bit less. Boys always want girls they can't get easily. play hard-to-get

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